In this episode Dorothy Diana interviews the epic Tommy Debernado, aka "Tommy Debo", MMA prize fighter, successful business owner, and masculinity coach for health and relationships. In this engaging conversation, Tommy shares his journey from being a professional fighter to a men's coach, emphasizing the importance of physical health, emotional well-being, and effective communication in relationships.
He shares what a healed masculine man REALLY wants from women, how men can step into their optimum health and power even if overweight or over 40, and then... we role play! (No, not like that, you cheeky thing!) Tommy role plays what a discussion can look like when a woman is unhappy or has a need, in relationship with the healthy masculine. Dorothy enacts the 2 different ways a woman can EXPRESS that need that might get two VERY different results from men.
Also, Tommy vulnerably shares a shocking and devastating event in his young life that sent him in a dark downwward spiral, until getting involved in martial arts turned him around, to lead him to a successful fighting caeer, and into becoming the service-to-others, faithful, fit and sexy, emotionally connected man he is today, Tommy Debo shows us that the divine masculine is alive and well, and shares how men can move toward that, and how women can show up in a way that draws him in for partnership, chemistry, and commitment.
The discussion covers various themes including parenting, the impact of testosterone on masculinity, and the significance of trust and respect in romantic partnerships. Tommy also provides insights on navigating emotional conversations and the importance of self-love and personal growth.