In this episode, Donna interviews her father, Steve Hibberd, a former firefighter with an impressive 29-year career in the fire service. Steve shares his journey into firefighting, the challenges he faced, and the camaraderie built within his team. He reflects on the evolution of the role, including the impact of PTSD and the importance of support among colleagues. The conversation also delves into Steve's transition from public service to a career as a butler, highlighting his unique experiences working for wealthy families and the fascinating stories that come with it.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• The journey from a public service role, such as firefighting, to other careers can be influenced by personal circumstances, such as changes in family life or career stagnation. The transition can lead to diverse opportunities, including unique jobs like butlering.

• Firefighters face significant challenges, including dealing with traumatic incidents and the emotional toll that comes with them. While support systems have improved over the years, earlier firefighters often relied on camaraderie and peer support to cope with stress.

• The fire service fosters a strong sense of brotherhood among team members, where colleagues support each other both professionally and personally. This bond is crucial during difficult times and contributes to a positive work environment.

• Working for affluent families can provide unique experiences, such as living in luxurious settings and interacting with high-profile individuals. However, the treatment of staff can vary significantly among employers, impacting job satisfaction.

• The importance of being treated as an equal and valued member of a team is emphasised. Positive relationships with employers can enhance job performance and overall satisfaction, while negative experiences can lead to dissatisfaction and career changes.

BEST MOMENTS

"I suppose rugby being on the corner of the M6 and the M1, we probably covered more motorway miles than most fire stations in the country."

"We recognize now that as part of doing a job that helps others, we sometimes take on what's known as vicarious trauma or moral injury."

"I remember we had a chief called Wally Redford, and in the end we were just laughing and he was so embarrassed."

"I went to test them out, within seven casts I'd caught six fish, so it was as easy as that."

"It doesn't matter how wealthy you are, you know, everybody in the team's important."

ABOUT THE HOST

Donna is a Registered Nurse who has worked in the NHS for three decades.

She brings you real-life stories from people in front-line public service roles. Some of the stories discuss war, terrorism, suicide, abuse, COVID, death, and vicarious moral injury, which may be triggering for some listeners. Alongside these are stories of joy, hope, empathy, and humanity, highlighting the positive impact individuals have made. Many of her guests have navigated career changes, found work-life balance, or transitioned into new roles, including charity work or entrepreneurship. If you have a story to share that could inspire others seeking change or additional income, please get in touch. Inviting individuals from fire, police and probation services, healthcare, military, teaching, social services, local government, and civil service.

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This podcast features real-life stories from frontline public service workers, covering tough topics such as war, trauma and loss, and may be triggering to some listeners. Guests also share their tales of everyday heroism, inspiring joy, hope, empathy and humanity. If you have a story to share that could encourage others seeking change or additional income, please get in touch.