Ever feel like life is passing you by while everyone else is winning? You’re not alone. The truth is, you’re watching their highlight reels—not reality. In this episode, I’ll show you how to stop the comparison trap and truly start thriving.

Here’s what I cover:

1. Why We Compare – The deep-rooted reasons we measure ourselves against others.
2. The Social Media Illusion – How platforms are designed to trigger comparison and what to do about it.
3. Taking Back Control – How to shift your focus and only consume content that lifts you up.
4. The Power of Perspective – How a mortality mindset can help you focus on what truly matters.
5. Your Financial Freedom Number – Why knowing your number sets you free from comparison.

When you stop chasing someone else’s version of success, you start living on your own terms. This is your time—focus on you, take big swings, and lead your life on purpose.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.

This episode was sponsored by NZ Mortgages. You can find them at nzmortgages.co.nz.

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