EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

By: Dr. Taylor Day
  • Summary

  • welcome to a parenting space actually designed for YOU! where you can get answers about navigating a life that includes autism. I’m Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in autism and neuroaffirming care. I have supported 100s of autistic children and their families and have been in the autism field for over a decade. on this podcast, we focus on supporting your autistic child AND your whole family, including you! every topic is on the table, and your questions (which you can submit through my social media) inspire the episodes created. I share some of my personal stories growing up with a brother who was diagnosed at 23 months of age as well as feature other families' stories so you know you are not navigating this journey alone. this is a space for you to be SEEN. HEARD. SUPPORTED. and get reputable and reliable information about autism instead of searching Google endlessly for hours. I am so dang grateful that you are here. ***disclaimer: not clinical advice, for educational purposes only*** subscribe to this podcast by hitting the plus or follow button so you don't miss an episode.
    Copyright 2025 Dr. Taylor Day
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  • 156 | SPECIAL EPISODE education laws under siege: what it means for your autistic child
    Feb 21 2025

    ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

    In this special episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back special education attorney Ashley Barlow to discuss critical updates impacting special education in the U.S. They delve into the Texas vs. Becerra case regarding the potential elimination of Section 504 protections, explore potential changes within the Department of Education, and highlight the significance of grassroots advocacy. Dr. Tay and Ashley provide valuable insights on how parents can proactively advocate for their children's educational rights, navigate current stresses, and use available resources effectively. The episode underscores the importance of building strong relationships with IEP teams and staying informed about legislative changes that may affect the neurodivergent community.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    00:10 Meet Ashley Barlow: Special Education Attorney

    00:19 Understanding 504 IEP and Its Importance

    03:18 Concerns About Losing 504 Protections

    08:04 Impact of Losing 504 on Disability Community

    14:20 Advocacy and Grassroots Efforts

    30:21 Potential Changes in the Department of Education

    39:23 Government Efficiency and DEI Initiatives

    40:59 Impact on Education and Research

    42:23 State-Level Implications and Comparisons

    44:25 Project 2025 and Potential Changes

    45:47 Real-Life Impacts on Special Education

    54:48 Advocacy and Legislative Engagement

    01:02:51 Practical Advice for Parents

    01:08:17 Conclusion and Next Steps

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ CHECK OUT Ashley’s $9 training for building collaborative teams: https://ashleybarlowco.com/video-2-from-tension-to-teamwork-harnessing-conflict-for-iep-success

    ⚡️FOLLOW Ashley on Instagram @thecollaborativeiep

    ⚡️ TAKE ACTION and download the 5 calls app and start making calls

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • 155 | autism, ARFID, and parental advocacy with Mercedes Palermo @autismoutloud
    Feb 19 2025

    ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

    Dr. Tay welcomes Mercedes Palermo to discuss her experiences as a parent of an autistic daughter diagnosed with ARFID. Mercedes shares her journey, from the initial diagnosis to managing daily challenges, while highlighting her advocacy efforts in spreading awareness. The episode covers key issues like understanding avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID), balancing the needs of siblings, and creating supportive environments. Mercedes also talks about her initiatives, including a nonprofit providing recreational programs for individuals with disabilities, emphasizing the importance of community support and neurodiversity.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement

    00:28 Meet Mercedes Palermo

    01:18 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Purpose

    02:28 Mercedes' Family and Autism Journey

    04:08 Diagnosis Process and Early Signs

    06:59 Challenges and Advocacy

    10:14 Understanding ARFID

    12:50 Navigating ARFID and Family Dynamics

    30:35 Community Building and Support

    36:13 Final Thoughts and Resources

    37:26 Closing Remarks and Next Steps

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ Follow Mercedes on Instagram @autismoutloud

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    39 mins
  • 154 | sex education for autistic youth with Dr. Michelle Fardella
    Feb 12 2025

    ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

    Dr. Tay is joined by Dr. Michelle Fardella, a clinical and school psychologist from Canada, to discuss the critical topic of sex education for autistic youth. The conversation covers various aspects, including the importance of proactive sex education, teaching body autonomy, consent, and addressing misconceptions. They delve into barriers faced by autistic youth in accessing comprehensive sex education and emphasize safety and appropriate teaching methods. Additionally, the episode touches on gender identity, sexual orientation, and provides practical resources for parents and educators. Trigger warnings and the importance of seeking support are also highlighted to ensure a safe and informative discussion.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    00:29 Meet Dr. Michelle Fardella

    02:43 Trigger Warning and Sensitive Topics

    03:57 Dr. Fardella's Background and Passion

    06:26 Challenges in Sex Education for Autistic Youth

    08:09 Importance of Tailored Sex Education

    10:27 Parental Mindset and Barriers

    18:03 Starting Early: Teaching Consent and Safety

    20:01 Navigating Discomfort and Finding Safe Persons

    23:43 The Accidental Exposure to Pornography

    23:58 Discussing Pornography with Young Children

    25:11 Proactive Conversations About Intercourse

    26:04 Addressing Misconceptions from Pornography

    28:13 Honesty in Answering Kids' Questions

    30:10 Resources for Teaching Sexual Health

    32:46 Masturbation: Education and Safety

    36:00 Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation

    41:04 Conclusion and Additional Resources

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ find resources for talking about these topics on Dr. Michelle’s blog >> https://www.wondertreepractice.ca/post/a-caregiver-s-guide-to-teaching-sex-education-to-neurodivergent-youth

    ⚡️follow WonderTree Practice on Instagram and learn more about their services here if you’re in Ontario

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    42 mins

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Dr. Tay’s podcasts make me feel connected. I now feel plugged in to a group of people who get me. I am learning and will continue to learn the most I can to best serve my son and Dr. Tay’s podcast helps me with that but also reminds me that I am human and will make mistakes along this journey and that is okay! Thanks!

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