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Divorce affects our communities deeply yet remains a topic shrouded in shame and misunderstanding despite its prevalence and our Islamic tradition that address it.

• Approximately 40% of marriages in America end in divorce, with lack of commitment cited as a primary cause
• Many couples spend time planning weddings but fail to discuss day-to-day realities of marriage
• Dr. Gottman's research shows respect and dignity issues predict divorce 94% of the time
• Critical relationship breakdown patterns include criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling
• Children of divorced parents face increased risks of behavioral problems, mental health issues, and physical health concerns
• The grieving process after divorce includes mourning not just the relationship but extended family connections
• Community members should offer support rather than judgment to divorced individuals
• Taking time to heal and process through therapy can be valuable before considering remarriage
• Divorced individuals deserve compassion and understanding, not gossip or tabloidization

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Trigger Warning: This episode talks about sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised.

We explore SA within the community, discussing its prevalence, the impact on survivors, and cultural responses to this pressing issue. We engage in open dialogue, addressing misconceptions and fostering awareness around trauma-informed care.

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Losing parents at a young age profoundly impacts a child's psychological and emotional landscape. Bonni shares her personal journey as an orphan, exploring the feelings of isolation, societal perceptions, and the need for community support while emphasizing the importance of constructive conversations about loss.

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