Episodes

  • Keeping The Spark In Long Term Relationships With Emily Nagoski - Ep 364
    Feb 6 2025
    One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation! Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one! Thank you to our sponsor! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! More Emily Nagoski: - Emily's latest book, Come Together: https://amzn.to/4hMmlMU - Website: https://www.emilynagoski.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilynagoski Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski! 3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths 7:34 - Mismatched Libidos 12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions 15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More 17:43 - Sense Of Obligation 26:38 - Orgasm 41:12 - Control 43:51 - Long Term Relationships 48:10 - Body Confidence 50:36 - Emily’s Vibrator Picks 52:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 - Carolina & Zoe Shoot Their Villain Shot - Ep 363
    Feb 4 2025
    Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.thuma.com/SHANDY to receive $100 off your first bed purchase! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 2 Kick Off 4:06 - Group Date #1 21:13 - The Next Day 21:48 - Alexe’s 1-On-1 27:53 - Group Date #2 38:20 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 40:47 - Rose Ceremony 42:58 - Andy’s A-Game 44:33 - Fashion 46:10 - Shandy Word Watch 48:40 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    58 mins
  • LOVE FEST! Joan Vassos & Chock Chapple Talk NYC Apartment Hunting And Throw Pillows - Ep 362
    Jan 30 2025
    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by The Golden Bachelorette herself, the one and only Joan Vassos, and her fiancé, Chock Chapple! Today Joan and Chock chat apartment hunting in NYC, their early relationship hurdle, and of course, how they fight! Plus, Andy gets to ask Chock about his name! Finally, a delightfully juvenile Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! More Joan: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/joan_vassos TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@joanvassos More Chock: https://www.instagram.com/chockchapple TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@cchapple Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Joan & Chock! 2:08 - The Name Chock 4:47 - Was It Love At First Sight? 8:34 - Three Adjectives 10:38 - New York & Decorating 13:28 - How They Complement Each Other 18:33 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 24:15 - Early Hurdle 30:16 - How They Fight 34:41 - Beliefs That Have Changed 42:02 - The Newlyweds Game 52:17 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Lone Wolf Grant Ellis Seeks His Mate - Ep 361
    Jan 28 2025
    Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.thrivemarket.com/SHANDY to get 30% off your first order plus a free $60 gift! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:48 - Episode 1 Kick Off 12:07 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 18:57 - Grant’s Toast 19:59 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 44:11 - First Impression Rose 44:26 - Rose Ceremony 44:36 - Previews 45:28 - Andy’s A-Game 47:01 - Fashion Police 49:36 - Shandy Word Watch 53:06 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Confessions With 'The Ultimatum''s Nicholas Tramontin - Ep 360
    Jan 23 2025
    It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us! Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not it's possible to make great art without being a little bit "tortured". Bonus: We get the dirt on Bob Ross and Nick judges Andy's own "La Banane" painting! 🍌 We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Nicholas: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicholas.tramontin/ - Art: https://nmtcollection.com/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Nicholas Tramontin! 1:50 - Why He Went On The Ultimatum 5:30 - Did He Really Want To Marry Sandy? 7:15 - Have He And Sandy Ever Been To A Swingers Party? 8:12 - What Did He Learn About Himself? 9:26 - Does He Feel Like The Show Preyed On Him Regarding Alcohol? 10:45 - What Response Has Surprised Him? 11:07 - Vanessa 15:25 - What Did He Expect To Happen? 16:05 - His Homeschooling 16:57 - Does He Wish He’d Left The Show 18:21 - Mariah 20:20 - What Has He Learned About Human Nature? 22:28 - Most Common Misconception 27:54 - His Art 32:25 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Tortured? 34:48 - Does He Feel His Paintings From The Show Were Some His Better Work? 35:50 - Is It Ever Hard Letting His Art Go? 38:08 - Who Is His Favorite Artist? 41:00 - “Dating An Artist Is Hard” & The Creation Of Art 43:45 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Sensitive? 44:30 - Dogs 45:39 - His Girlfriend 46:39 - Does He Feel Gratitude To Sandy? 47:47 - Rapid Fire 49:49 - Does He Believe In Ultimatums? 51:05 - Is He A Cuckold? 51:45 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 5! - Ep 359
    Jan 16 2025
    Happy 2025, Shandies!!! We're excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... we're back with volume 5 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to discover SKIMS intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping & News 6:05 - Episode 91, from Caller Kiera: “My Boyfriend’s Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?” 9:44 - Episode 133, Q1 from Jess: “I Always Seem To Catch The Ick From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?” 14:42 - Episode 184, Q5 from Anonymous: “The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It” 19:07 - Episode 189, Q4 from Liz: “I Am In Love With A Man 28 Years Older—Am I Wasting My Youth?” 31:10 - Episode 231, Q4 from Maybe Shallow: “I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic Flaw—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?” 35:29 - Episode 304, Q1 from One Bored Babe: “Does Healthy = Boring?” 41:55 - Episode 307, Q3 from Triply Baffled: “Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond?” 45:55 - Episode 313, Q6 from Sarah P: “My Aunt’s Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents’ That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go?” 58:35 - Episode 321, Q1 from Passenger Princess: “Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery?” 1:02:42 - Episode 340, Q4 from Songless Bird: “My Boyfriend Dislikes My Singing So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?” 1:05:57 - Episode 346, Q4 from KB: “I’m The Paparazzi In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help!” If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 23 mins
  • LOVE FEST! Garrett & Taylor Josemans-Krause Going A Year Plus Strong - Ep 358
    Jan 9 2025
    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Love Is Blind's latest (and coolest) power couple: the iconic Taylor Krause and Garrett Josemans, now the Josemans-Krauses! Today Taylor and Garrett chat their true first impressions of one another, the early relationship hurdle they're still navigating, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a competitively uncompetitive Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Get to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! More Taylor: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/chinesediscobaby TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@chinesediscobaby More Garrett: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/garrett.josemans TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@garrettjosemans Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Garrett And Taylor! 2:04 - Their Surnames 7:13 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed 12:47 - How They Complement Each Other 17:13 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 22:10 - Early Hurdle 31:53 - Having A 5 Year Plan 33:19 - How They Fight 36:32 - Common Misconceptions 39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 42:39 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game 57:25 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • The Ultimatum Recap, Finale & Reunion: Breakup City - Ep 357
    Dec 20 2024
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the third batch of season 3, aka the Finale and Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:51 - Cliffhanger: Sandy & JR 10:44 - Ultimatum: Zaina & JR 14:37 - Ultimatum: Mariah & Caleb 20:34 - Ultimatum: Sandy & Nick 29:54 - Ultimatum: Aria & Scotty 33:58 - Reunion: Mariah & Caleb 39:54 - Reunion: Aria & Scotty 46:23 - Reunion: Zaina & JR 56:26 - Nail QR code 58:57 - Vanessa & Dave 1:14:57 - Reunion: Sandy & Nick 1:19:53 - Final Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 30 mins