In this episode, Dr. Kashey will percolate the idea of internal versus external control, and how our desire to manage the uncontrollable often leads us to make unwise choices, causing us to stew in frustration and anxiety. Roll up your sleeves as we grind down the 'Four Ds of Distortion' those mental grinds that clog our decision-making filters. It’s a full-bodied session where we will decant wisdom on shifting focus from the bitter brew of external stressors to the smooth aroma of internal belief systems. So, let's pour out the old, steep in the new, and press forward to a clearer cup of thought.

In this next mini series, Dr. Kashey talks about the facets of self-control, and cracking the code of self-control. There are three aspects of self- control, first is that thoughts are the most important determinant of our emotions and our actions. Second is that the need for control creates stress and misery, and stress and misery leads to a greater need for control. And third is, there are three major pathways to changing our thoughts. Dr. Kashey notes that trying new things combined with self-monitoring helps us stay honest and genuine. By actively gathering information your rational thinking will override your previous thoughts.

In this episode unwrap the riddle of working non-stop with fervor that never fades. It's not about surviving the week; it's about thriving through the years. In the face of adversity, when helping others becomes a Herculean task, learn how to harness the stress and turn it into the kind of eustress that shapes champions. Dr. Kashey brings forth a tale of wisdom where he shares the secret to choosing not just to make a difference, but to be the difference. It's a choice that doesn't just affect how you work—it rejuvenates your very essence.

Welcome to the finale of our series on stress with "Coffee with Kashey." Today, Dr. Trevor Kashey, is here to guide you through the labyrinth of stress management with a compass pointed towards one crucial destination: Purpose. In this culminating episode, we delve into the essence of what keeps us moving forward.
Drawing inspiration from the profound wisdom of Viktor Frankl, we'll uncover the secrets to not just enduring life's hardships but thriving in spite of them. This isn’t about the superficial daily motions; it’s about anchoring in the ‘why’ that fuels our every action, that drives our passion, our persistence, our very will to continue.
Join us as we confront the ultimate question: Are you living by accident, or are you living on purpose? It's time to break the chains of external circumstances and claim the power to choose your path, to find meaning in the mundane, and to navigate life with intentionality.

Today, Dr. Kashey is going to show you that sometimes, all you need is a fuzzy pole—his cheeky term for anything you can muster affection for, from pets to pasta sculptures. We're ripping off the band-aid and exposing the raw truth about intimate relationships and their power to douse the flames of stress. So if you're ready to get real about who's got your back, and maybe laugh a little too, “Coffee with Kashey” is your ticket to turning stress into a puff of smoke. Hit play, and let's get connected! Roll the intro!

Kicking off part one of our final series on mastering stress resilience, Dr. Kashey’s not just chatting about weathering the storm—he’s building a fortress with three resilience keystones. Today we stock up on our psychological vitamins, the kind that fortify your spirit and keep you balanced when life goes off-kilter. In this episode, Dr. Kashey provides a fresh perspective on physical activity, not just for your body but for your brain, turning stress into your ally. We're moving beyond puzzles and games to real, actionable strategies that sharpen your mind and lift your mood.

Embark on a journey through the inner workings of stress—the kind that's more than just a buzzword, but a battle cry for those ready to confront their personal boogeymen. Dr. Kashey lays out the map of our central nervous system, decoding how we process stress from a blip on our radar to a full-blown emotional typhoon.

Get ready to unravel the psychophysiology behind stress, why your next fight or flight moment could be a figment of your imagination, and how chronic stress does more than fray nerves—it gnaws at your vitality.

But don't despair; Dr. Kashey won’t leave you in the lurch; he's arming you with knowledge about the relaxation response, a powerful counterpart to eradicating stress.

On today's episode of Coffee with Dr. Kashey, the good Doctor, serves up a deep cleanse for your stress system. No fluff, no filler—just straight talk on breaking through the barriers that keep you feeling stuck. From cognitive patterns to biological responses, learn how to flip the script on stress and turn action into your secret weapon. Dr. Kashey shares insights on expressive writing and the potent power of scheduling, tools proven to disarm depression and dial down stress. It's about seizing control—taking command of your actions to shape your thoughts and emotions. Join us for a look into the mind-body connection, where self-monitoring meets smart scheduling. Uncover the irony of how avoidance feeds stress and how embracing structure can set you free.