• Friends: Keep or delete?
    Feb 19 2025

    Grief changes a lot—including friendships. Some people step up in ways you never expected, while others quietly drift away. And then there are the ones you have to walk away from because, honestly? Life’s too short for unnecessary drama.

    In this episode, we’re talking about how our friendships have grown, shifted, and, in some cases, ended since losing our dads. But more than anything, this is a love letter to the friends who have stuck by us—the ones who show up, make us laugh, and remind us that even in grief, we’re never alone.

    You’ve heard our tagline: past pain and Pinot—but this episode? Fully powered by prosecco. So, apologies in advance if things get a little rogue.

    Expect honesty, a bit of chaos, and a whole lot of appreciation for the real ones. Because in the worst of times, the best people truly show themselves.

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    35 mins
  • Dating, work and grief talk
    Feb 12 2025
    Bringing up grief in new romantic relationships or at work is never easy. Do you drop it in casually? Wait until it awkwardly comes up? Or, like us, panic and blurt out,"So… my dad’s dead" at the worst possible moment? There’s no guidebook for these conversations, and honestly, we could use one. Instead, we’ve fumbled our way through—accidentally trauma-dumping on colleagues, derailing perfectly nice dates, or mistiming the moment so badly that silence lingersway too long. In this episode, we’re diving into the awkward, ridiculous, and sometimes painfully funny reality of introducing grief to new people. Because if there’s a smooth way to do it, we certainly haven’t found it yet.
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    24 mins
  • Milestones without Dad
    Feb 5 2025
    Birthdays, weddings, Father’s Day—some milestones just hit different when your dad isn’t there. In this episode, we’re diving into the big (and small) moments that feel a little emptier without him, from not having a dad to walk us down the aisle to figuring out how to handle Father’s Day when the card aisle feels like a personal attack. But it’s not all doom and gloom! We’re talking about the weird, unexpected ways we still feel connected to our dads during these milestones, how to balance the joy and sadness, and some creative (and maybe slightly chaotic) ways to honour them. Because grief doesn’t play by the rules—and neither do we. Listen now, and let us know—how do you handle those big milestone moments?
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    36 mins
  • The Funerals: A Comedy of Errors
    Jan 29 2025

    This one’s our most unhinged yet—seriously, consider this your big flashing Trigger Warning for dark humour! We’ve laughed and laughed while making (and editing) this episode because, let’s face it, sometimes life throws you a comedy routine when you’re least expecting it… like at a funeral.

    From one of us wanting to perform to the WORST sunburn imaginable, of course things were chaotic. We’re diving into the mishaps, the hilariously awkward moments, and the unexpected chaos that somehow always finds its way into these situations.

    But it’s not all giggles—this episode is also about how humor can lighten the darkest situations and make the unbearable just a little more bearable. Because grief may not always play by the rules, and neither do we.

    Listen now for a blend of chaos, catharsis, and a whole lot of laughs.

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    24 mins
  • What is the new normal? Things people don't tell you about grief.
    Jan 22 2025

    Grief has a way of turning your life upside down, and then just when you think you’re getting a grip, it hands you a “new normal” that no one prepared you for. In this episode, we’re talking about the things people don’t tell you about grief—the insomnia, the random bursts of anxiety, and why a simple phone call can now send us into a full-blown panic. (Seriously, just text us!)

    We share the quirks and chaos of how grief has quietly wormed its way into the most unexpected parts of our lives. You’ll hear about the irrational fears, the bad habits, and the weird emotional baggage we’ve picked up along the way—and somehow, we’ve learned to laugh about it (most of the time).

    This isn’t your typical “grief talk.” It’s raw, ridiculous, and all about finding humor in the things nobody warns you about. Because honestly, if this is the “new normal,” we’re going to need a bit more wine and a lot more snacks.

    Tune in now for all the unfiltered truths about grief and a few laughs along the way!

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    28 mins
  • Grief strikes at the weirdest times
    Jan 15 2025

    Grief has a funny way of sneaking up on you when you least expect it—like in the middle of a mundane conversation or during a random tv show scene. In this episode, we’re sharing some of our own funny, touching, and downright bizarre stories of when grief hit us out of nowhere.

    We’ll also talk about the emotional rollercoaster of losing a parent, why those moments are so unpredictable, and how to embrace the chaos of emotions (even when it feels impossible).

    Tune in for laughs, relatable moments, and maybe a few tears. Let’s navigate the mess together!

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    33 mins
  • Weird things people say when you're grieving
    Jan 8 2025

    Why do people get so awkward around grief? In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into the bizarre, cringeworthy, and unintentionally hilarious things people say to you when you’re grieving. From the well-meaning-but-off to the outright baffling, we’re sharing our personal experiences and unpacking why talking about loss makes so many people squirm.

    We’ll also chat about how humour can help break the tension and share tips for handling those awkward moments—whether with grace, sarcasm, or a laugh. If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of a grief-related word-vomit, this one’s for you!

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    27 mins
  • Welcome to the Chaos
    Jan 1 2025

    Welcome to the very first episode of Bye Dad, Hello Chaos! We’re two millennial daughters navigating life after losing our dads, and we’re here to find the funny, messy, and relatable moments in grief.

    In this episode, we’re kicking things off by introducing ourselves, sharing our stories, and diving into what inspired this podcast. Why laugh about grief? Why embrace the chaos? We’ll tell you all about it.

    Plus, we’re giving you a sneak peek of what’s to come, expect awkward moments, unexpected breakdowns, and finding joy in the middle of it all. Whether you’re grieving, supporting someone who is, or just here for the chaos, you’re in the right place.

    Grab a drink, get cozy, and let’s get this show started!

    Don’t forget to subscribe and share your own grief stories with us—we’re all in this together.

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    20 mins