In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Leadership as an Identity book club discussion, diving into Section Two: Uncommon Communion. Tatum explores what it means to lead with God rather than just for Him. She shares insights on the dangers of relying on our own abilities and the importance of maintaining intimacy with God in our leadership journey.

We discuss:

✨ The four identity characteristics of Christian leaders

✨ Why our success isn’t solely based on skills, education, or experience

✨ The difference between doing work for God vs. with God

✨ The dangers of self-reliance and how to remain dependent on the Lord

✨ How to cultivate uncommon communion and tap into God’s wisdom for leadership

Challenge for the Week:

Create a personal “Hall of Faith” by identifying key moments in your faith journey where God transitioned you to a new level. Display photos, mementos, or symbols that remind you of these defining moments.

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

📖 Leadership as an Identity – https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue the Bible on Business series, focusing on leadership through the lens of the Book of Acts. Many Christian entrepreneurs seek wisdom from business books and experts but often overlook the rich, strategic insight found in scripture. Today, we’re discussing premature leadership—the dangers of stepping into a role before being spiritually, emotionally, and practically prepared.

Tatum unpacks the risks of moving ahead of God’s timing and shares biblical and real-world case studies of leaders who failed due to impatience, lack of preparation, or secondhand faith. She also provides actionable steps to avoid premature leadership and ensure that you lead in alignment with God’s plan.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why waiting on God’s timing is crucial for leadership and success
• Biblical insights on premature leadership from Acts 1 and Acts 19 (Sons of Sceva)
• Real-world business case studies: WeWork’s downfall and the Theranos scandal
• The consequences of launching a business or ministry too soon
• The importance of character development and preparation
• How to avoid premature leadership and ensure you’re moving in step with God

Scriptures Mentioned:

1. Acts 1:4-5 – Jesus instructs the apostles to wait before stepping into their calling
2. Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To everything there is a season…”
3. Proverbs 19:2 – “Desire without knowledge is not good; how much more will hasty feet miss the way?”
4. Habakkuk 2:3 – “If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place.”
5. Acts 19:13-19 – The Sons of Sceva and the consequences of secondhand faith
6. 1 Timothy 3:6 – The dangers of placing a new believer in leadership

Biblical Figures to Study:

King Saul, Moses, Sons of Sceva, Abraham & Sarah, Rehoboam, Uzzah

Action Steps to Avoid Premature Leadership:

1. Learn from others' mistakes – Study both biblical and business case studies
2. Develop your character and skillset – Don't step into a role you’re not prepared for
3. Embrace the preparation season – Trust that God is shaping you for your future assignment
4. Wait for the Holy Spirit’s confirmation – Don’t launch before being empowered by the Spirit

Resources & Links:

• Register for the Replay of the Christian Content Creator Town Hall → https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4
• Apply for the Purposed to Podcast Program → https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our deep dive into Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts. We explore Chapter 7, "Dealing with Discouragement," the final chapter in the book’s first section on brokenness. Tatum shares her personal experiences with discouragement, particularly as she prepares for law school and navigates business challenges. She discusses the importance of choosing truth, joy, faith, community, and service as essential tools to combat discouragement and remain steadfast in faith. This episode is filled with wisdom for Christian entrepreneurs and leaders facing setbacks or uncertainty in their journey.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding Brokenness: Brokenness is a necessary trait of Christian leadership, alongside uncommon communion, servanthood, and radical obedience.
• The Reality of Discouragement: Every leader faces discouragement, but how we respond determines if it will break us or refine us.
• Choosing Truth: Avoid denial and embrace both the reality of challenges and the truth of God’s Word.
• Choosing Joy: Joy is a choice, not an involuntary response. Focus on the presence of God rather than circumstances.
• Choosing Faith: Faith requires trusting God even when the future feels uncertain.
• Choosing Community: Isolation can distort reality. Surrounding yourself with wise counsel and support is vital.
• Choosing Service: Serving others even in difficult times brings healing and purpose.

Announcements:

• Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join me for this live event where I’ll be sharing insights for Christian podcasters and content creators. I’ll also be opening my mentorship program for the only cohort of the year. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4
• Get the Book: If you haven't already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity using the link in the show notes https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

Scripture References:

• Galatians 6:9 – "Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary."
• Psalm 119:50 – "This is my comfort in my affliction, that your promise gives me life."
• Philippians 4:4 – "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice."
• Romans 8:37-39 – "In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us."

In this episode, we take a brief pause from our Bible on Business series to share a powerful session from The Society’s First Fruits Fast. Tatum dives into the book of Isaiah, uncovering patterns of rebellion, repentance, and self-reliance exhibited by the Israelites—and how these same behaviors mirror our own lives today. Through self-examination and strategy, she challenges us to move from self-reliance to total dependence on God, offering practical tools and encouragement to grow spiritually and align with His will.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Key lessons from the book of Isaiah and its relevance to our daily lives.
• How patterns of behavior like fear, self-reliance, and worldly influences keep us from fully depending on God.
• The concept of the habit loop and how it shapes our actions.
• Practical strategies to disrupt unhealthy habits and replace them with faith-driven behaviors.

Special Resource:

Tatum shares an incredible resource, The Behavior Loop Analysis & Replacement Method. This step-by-step guide helps you identify and transform patterns of behavior that lead to self-reliance, replacing them with habits rooted in faith and dependence on God. Download today: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/GlW8

Upcoming Events:

• Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join Tatum for a free event designed for Christian creators navigating the online space, featuring a powerful word. Register here: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

Scripture Focus:

• Isaiah 30:21 (NLT): “Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go,’ whether to the right or to the left.”

Links Mentioned:

• Download The Behavior Loop Analysis & Replacement Method: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/GlW8
• Join The Society: https://blessedandbossedupsociety.com/invitation?code=DACED3
• Register for the Christian Content Creator Town Hall: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum continues her discussion of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts, diving into Chapter 6: "Seasons of Brokenness." Tatum unpacks the significance of brokenness in the life of a Christian leader, sharing her personal reflections and insights on how God uses these seasons to build humility, dependence, and strength for His glory.

Tatum also reflects on the constant pull toward pride that leaders face and offers strategies to combat it through intentional time with God, self-awareness, and a posture of humility. She encourages listeners to see brokenness as an opportunity to grow closer to God and to develop a mindset rooted in total dependence on Him.

This episode is packed with wisdom, personal testimonies, and scriptural insights, including:

• Lessons from Philippians 3:1-21 about prioritizing Christ above all.
• Jacob’s encounter with God and the "limp" that marked his transformation (Genesis 32).
• A challenge to reframe seasons of brokenness as signs of God’s love and preparation for greater assignments.

If you're a leader in any capacity, this conversation will encourage and equip you to embrace God's refining process in your life.

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts
• Scripture References: Philippians 3, Psalm 42, Proverbs 16:18, Hebrews 10:31, James 4:6, Genesis 32

Special Announcements:

• Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join Tatum and other inspiring speakers for a free virtual event designed for those called to create in the online space. Learn how to navigate challenges and step confidently into your calling. Click to register: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum dives into the topic of waiting on God and how it plays a critical role in our spiritual and leadership development. Reflecting on Acts 1:1-5, she explores how the disciples transformed from fear and doubt to obedient leaders through the power of waiting. Tatum shares how this season of waiting is not punishment but a divine period of preparation, sanctification, and transformation. She challenges listeners to adopt a heart posture of gratitude and surrender during their waiting seasons, understanding that God is working behind the scenes.

Key Points:

• The Society Update: Tatum announces that The Society has transitioned from a for-profit model to a nonprofit under the newly formed Anchored Media Foundation. This change allows for more impactful service, including financial support to Christian women entrepreneurs.
• First Fruits Fast: Join the free 7-day First Fruits Fast starting January 19th. This fast focuses on themes like repentance, provision, creativity, and rest, featuring daily prayers, devotionals, and lessons.
• Bible on Business Series - Leadership Edition: Tatum continues the Bible on Business series, focusing on leadership lessons from the book of Acts. Acts 1:1-5 highlights the importance of waiting on God's promise and how the disciples waited obediently for the Holy Spirit.
• The Weight of Waiting: Tatum emphasizes that waiting seasons are essential for growth and transformation. Rather than viewing waiting as a burden, she encourages listeners to see it as an opportunity to deepen their relationship with God and strengthen their character.
• Heart Posture in the Wait: The disciples' transformation during their waiting period serves as a model for how we should wait with gratitude, obedience, and faith, trusting that God is preparing us for greater purpose.

Scripture Reference:

• Acts 1:1-5 (ESV)
• Matthew 26:40-41
• Mark 14:37-38
• John 20:19

Call to Action:

• Join the First Fruits Fast: Activate your free trial to participate in the fast and connect with the community. https://blessedandbossedupsociety.com/invitation?code=DACED3&kuid=350422e4-3c19-42f1-9a75-33cd3a19ea46-1737083424&lid=6398&kref=86HkJvnmxEYf
• Donate to the Society: Support the Anchored Media Foundation's mission to empower Christian women entrepreneurs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?campaign_id=T7PZ3UP255EHC

In this powerful bonus episode, Tatum dives back into the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club, continuing the discussion on Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts. This episode focuses on the essential leadership trait of brokenness and how God uses our weaknesses to demonstrate His strength.

Tatum shares personal reflections on how pride can sneak into leadership and how surrendering our weaknesses allows God to move powerfully through us. She also encourages listeners to reframe their perspective on inadequacies and lean fully into God's grace.

Key Topics Covered:

• The four traits of lasting Christian leadership: Brokenness, Uncommon Communion, Servanthood, and Radical Obedience.
• How pride can manifest subtly in leadership and how to guard against it.
• The importance of embracing weaknesses as opportunities for God to display His strength.
• Lessons from Moses on surrendering excuses and trusting God's sufficiency (Exodus 3).
• Discerning when to take action and when to wait on God.

Key Scriptures Mentioned:

• 2 Corinthians 11:30 – “If I must boast, I will boast in the things that show my weakness.”
• 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
• Proverbs 3:5-6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts – Grab your copy: https://a.co/d/aL2lLD4
• Previous Book Club Episodes (Chapters 1–4) – Listen here!
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/d079b8ca-4478-4e54-b531-cfbf79769cea
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/b00c1011-2803-4ece-861f-0221b19d7295
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/3af6a98e-8609-47e7-96e5-94a45bed7685
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/e7d34cf3-fd16-415a-9766-a3721fe4a2d5

Connect with Tatum:

• Email: Tatum@TatumTemia.com (for direct communication while she’s off social media)
• Anchored Media Studios: www.anchoredmediastudios.com

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Welcome to the first episode of 2025! Tatum kicks off the new year with a heartfelt reflection on eight incredible years of podcasting and a transparent testimony of God’s goodness through challenging seasons. From navigating the highs and lows of entrepreneurship to receiving life-changing instructions from the Lord, Tatum shares how her faith has been strengthened and her obedience rewarded.

In this episode, she:

• Celebrates Blessed + Bossed Up’s 8th anniversary.
• Shares behind-the-scenes struggles of starting and sustaining a brick-and-mortar business
• Testifies about enduring a season of pressure and witnessing God’s miraculous provision.
• Reveals her next exciting journey—law school—and how God opened doors even when she felt unprepared.
• Encourages listeners to trust God wholeheartedly and persevere through difficulties, knowing He is always working on their behalf.

Key Scriptures Mentioned:

• Proverbs 3:5-7 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.”
• Matthew 10:29 – “What is the price of two sparrows? ... Not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it.”
• Psalm 34:8 – “Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him.”

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts (Book Club Selection) https://a.co/d/9zdkA6N
• Anchored Media Studios – A workspace and content studio located in Laurel, MD www.anchoredmediastudios.com

Thank You for 8 Amazing Years!

To all our listeners, whether you’ve been here since day one or just discovered the show, thank you for your support and encouragement. Tatum is excited about what year eight and beyond will bring as we continue this journey of integrating faith and entrepreneurship.