
Why Talking Is Not Enough
Eight Loving Actions That Will Transform Your Marriage
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Kim Niemi
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Susan Page
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Why Talking Is Not Enough, written by Susan Page, author of the acclaimed best seller If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single? presents a novel relationship strategy based on subtle, powerful changes in your own actions. This method shows you the magic of "Keep your mouth out of it!" Page's pioneering eight-step program invites you to give up problem solving and move directly to a warmer, more loving and fun relationship, based on universal spiritual principles.
In this book you will learn how to transform your relationship into a spiritual partnership by adopting these eight loving actions: adopt a spirit of good will; give up problem solving; act as if; practice restraint; balance giving and taking; act on your own; practice acceptance; and practice compassion.
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- Surisa
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Transformative and crucial information
The information and presentation was more than what I was hoping for. I have already implemented many of the small actions suggested by Susan and feel the deepest love for self, my spouse, and children than ever before
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