
Who Am I Without Him?
Short Stories about Girls and the Boys in their Lives
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Sharon Flake
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Guys and girls get together, get played, and get real. Who Am I Without Him? is a Booklist Top 10 Romance Novel for Teens and is "breaking new and necessary ground" in 12 short stories about guys and girls falling in and out of love and relationships, testing out ways to communicate with one another, respect each other - and respect themselves. This is a complex, often humorous, and always on-point exploration of today's teens determined to find love and self-worth...any way they know how.
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- raushannah
- 09-17-23
Great!
Love this book and I love the readers in this audible. Thank you so much. This was an amazing experience
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- SDP
- 02-13-23
First time on audible - many times good reading
I used to run a girls club. Time and time I recommend to friends with girls coming of age. All the things I wish I knew, are wrapped in present tense, in a way that isn’t preachy!!!
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