
Trading Places
The Secret to the Marriage You Want
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Les Parrott
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Leslie Parrott
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To understand your spouse, you've got to walk in his or her shoes. Ever feel like you're stepping on each other's toes? Then maybe it's time you put yourselves in each other's shoes. Of course that may sound uncomfortable. But it's easier than you think - and it will revolutionize your relationship.
In fact, best-selling authors Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott reveal the little-known secrets of putting the time-tested strategy of trading places to work in your own marriage. In this book, chock-full of practical helps and tips you've never thought of, you'll learn the three-step strategy to trading places and, as a result, you're sure to:
- Increase your levels of passion
- Bolster your commitment
- Eliminate nagging
- Short-circuit conflict
- Double your laughter
- Forgive more quickly
- Talk more intimately
This book also features a powerful, free online assessment that instantly improves your inclination to trade places. Most couples never discover the rewards of trading places. For example, did you know it's the quickest way to get your own needs met? It's true! And Les and Leslie show you how. They also disclose exactly how trading places improves your conversations and how it’s guaranteed to fire up your sex life.
Truly, your love life and your entire marriage will never be the same after you learn the intimate dance of trading places.
©2008 The Foundation for Healthy Relationships (P)2008 ZondervanListeners also enjoyed...
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- Susan
- 10-18-18
Refreshing
What great tools to build empathy and rekindle love in relationships. I have recommended this book to clients.
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- Roy
- 08-17-15
Awesome collection of personal tools!
I have been impressed by this book. Les and Leslie have compiled an entertaining read and resource for aiding personal growth and development of the empathy muscle. :-)
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- andrew shimoli
- 06-09-18
Great book
My wife and I could use the tips in this book.... Having been married 8 yrs we argue about the dumb stuff
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- Cara J.
- 02-16-19
Incredibly valuable 4 marriage & life! Thk U Both!
Incredibly valuable 4 marriage & life! Thk U Both, everyone could benefit from your book!
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- Brandon Alverson
- 06-20-22
One long commercial
I like a lot of their books but this one felt like one long commercial with a couple of useful nuggets. They kept referencing forms on their website that we never found. They kept pushing their other products.
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