Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship
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Mira Kirshenbaum
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To make up or break up? Whether you’re just getting serious or have a long-term commitment, no other question causes so much heartache and self-doubt. Many other books tell you how to fix your relationship. This groundbreaking best seller is the first one to help you choose whether you should try—or you need to go.
Psychotherapist Mira Kirshenbaum draws on years of research and her work with real-life couples to help you make the right decision. She shows you how to diagnose your unique situation with self-analysis and questions like these, which get to the very heart of your problems:
Mira Kirshenbaum provides expert guidelines that are the key to making all your choices, concrete steps that you can implement right now, and the ultimate way to determine your personal bottom line—what you need to be happy. This remarkably insightful and probing guide offers advice that lets you see the truth about your relationship—and with wisdom and compassion, it helps you act with the confidence of knowing that, whether you decide to go or stay, you are doing the very best thing.
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The Good Fight
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We Love Each Other, But . . .
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We Love Each Other, But... offers simple, practical tips that will help you restore and strengthen a relationship that has gone off track. It lays out the nuts and bolts of building relationships so they continue to be gratifying over the long haul. Dr. Ellen Wachtel shows how, even when you feel like giving up on a relationship or marriage, you can recapture why you fell in love in the first place. Dr. Wachtel promises that there is more and suggests simple ways to keep vitality in relationships.
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Some interesting material
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Could be half as long
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Superheroes don't start from glorious beginnings. Their origins are almost always marked by traumatic events that leave them helpless and scared. Batman witnessed his parents' murder. Superman was sent away from his dying planet with no one to guide him as he grew up. Orphaned Catwoman was forced to steal food to survive on the streets of Gotham. What makes these superheroes super is their determination to not be defined by helplessness. They embrace their origins, their flaws, and their mistakes and strive every day to become the best versions of themselves.
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A wonderful book filled with empathy and humanity.
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New York Times best-selling, award-winning author, actor, and motivational speaker Hill Harper invites listeners to join the conversation about the breakdown of the African-American family. The black community of past generations found strength in families, but today’s black children have less than a one in three chance of being raised in a two-parent household. Harper’s search for answers to this phenomenon is an enlightening and empowering journey.
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~*AWESOME*~
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President/CEO of Franklin Entertainment and former Sony Pictures executive DeVon Franklin and award-winning actress Meagan Good have learned sometimes all we can do is wait for "the one" to come into our lives. They spent years crossing paths, but it wasn't until they were thrown together while working on the film Jumping the Broom that their storybook romance began.
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The Wait Caused Me To Change
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Riddles With Religious Overtones
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The Undervalued Self
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Life Changing!
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For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition
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Discover the truth he wants you to know! The man in your life is keeping secrets. They’re so deep inside he barely knows they're there, much less how to talk to you about them. Yet he genuinely wants you to "get" him - to understand his inner life, his fears, his needs... In her landmark best seller For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn reveals what every woman - single or married - needs to know.
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Life changing
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- Michelle
- 12-19-11
Helped me decide whether to leave my husband
What did you love best about Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay?
I loved the question format of hte book as the author takes you through 30+ areas to examine in your relationship. It ended the going round and round in circles of guilt at wanting to leave, and fear of not wanting to leave.
What was one of the most memorable moments of Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay?
The realisation that I had mostly negative answers to the 30+ questions posed, and that I was staying out of guilt/fear and not love.
Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?
No - it requires a digestion question by question
Any additional comments?
A must read for anyone who has any doubts about their relationship. It is such a relief to get clarity on whether it works or not!
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- Holly
- 04-12-16
I learned a lot.
I saw myself in some of the behaviors that make a relationship too bad to stay. I assumed it would be pro woman point of view but it's very fair on both sides. I realize I also have a responsibility for this mess I call a relationship. Good wake up for me.
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- Sherry
- 07-23-19
great book
excellent book - thorough, addressing all points one should consider & a very fast listen.
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- XylinaRainingstars
- 05-19-15
non judgmental approach
I really liked this book. I mean... yes, sometimes it was a little corny and i may have giggled a time or two. The message, though, is incredibly simple and on point. It very easily guides you through stories of other couples and explains what each partner felt and why. And even more valuable, it directly asks you the questions that can guide you to the answer you already know. I would recommend this book to anyone, even those not facing this choice.
I can see value in these lessons reaching even casual, work or familial relationships.
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- jean-luc vorbe
- 03-18-22
Don't wait for issues to arise to read
great book for anyone wanting to have a good, balanced relationship. I got plenty of tips on the boundaries I would like to have and how to adress these delicate subjects with my partner.
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- SDC
- 11-09-23
Insightful
I’m now going to listen to this book again… My fiancée is reading it as well … we’re comparing notes as we go and it makes for insightful sharing! We shall see…
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- Alysse Taylor
- 01-30-24
This book really helped me.
The book made me think about a lot of things I’ve never considered and helped me make a decision and feel confident about it.
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- Cynthia
- 06-30-10
Excellent Book!
Well written and the reader was perfect... I listened to this book 3 times over. I highly recommend it.
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- Cathy Morison
- 08-07-11
Hit the mark
Right from the get-go, this book hits the mark. I felt it delivered what it promised, and for me it was a case of 'right book, right time'. It is very easy to listen to. I would highly recommend it for those in 'relationship ambivalence'. It promises clarity, and delivers. The rest is up to you.
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- D.A.
- 05-24-19
This book helped me get to the next step
I didn’t know I wasn’t alone in my my confusion in my marriage until I found this book. It helped clarify I’m definitely not! And I’m not wrong for my feelings and disappointments.
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