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A Guide to True Masculine Power
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Keith Roberts
About this listen
A deeply insightful guide to masculine power and fulfillment, to bring “our head, heart, and guts into full-blooded alignment”.
I’ve got a great job, relationship, and lifestyle. Why do I feel so dissatisfied and disconnected?
Why am I not happier in my intimate relationships?
How do I become more powerful - without becoming a jerk?
Robert Augustus Masters has helped thousands of men address and work through issues like these. What he’s found is that the common solution is challenging yet clear: We must face our unresolved wounds, shame, and whatever else is holding us back. We must bring “our head, heart, and guts into full-blooded alignment”.
With To Be a Man, this acclaimed psychotherapist and relationship expert offers a groundbreaking and deeply insightful guide to masculine power and fulfillment. He shares what’s needed to enter a manhood as empowered as it is vulnerable, as emotionally literate as it is unapologetically alive - a manhood at home with truly intimate relationship.
Listeners will explore:
- How your past may be dominating your present
- Shame in its healthy and unhealthy forms, and how to make wise use of it
- How vulnerability can be a source of strength
- Emotional literacy - an essential skill for relational well-being
- Releasing sex from the obligation to make you feel better
- How to disempower your inner critic
- Bringing your shadow (whatever you’ve disowned in yourself) out of the dark
- Embodying your natural heroism and persisting regardless of fear
- What women need from men
- Understanding and outgrowing pornography
- Entering the heartland of true masculine power
If you’ve taken in your share of popular advice on relationships and being a man, but realize on a gut level that it’s going to take some serious inner work, To Be a Man offers real guidance. Masters helps you take on this most rewarding of challenges: doing what’s needed to fully embody your authentic manhood.
©2015 Robert Augustus Masters, PhD (P)2021 Sounds TrueListeners also enjoyed...
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Men who want to live with more power, groundedness, and clarity. Men who want to inspire more trust, lust, and devotion from their partner. But this is confusing territory. The modern world tells you that Masculine energy is toxic. And that we’re all the same. That you need to be a Nice Guy that plays it safe. For most men, it is not at all clear HOW to live more from their Masculine core.
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Awful
- By Luis on 02-17-23
By: GS Youngblood
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The Psychology of Porn: Essays on Pornography, Objectification & Healing
- By: Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Adam Naranjo
- Length: 1 hr and 50 mins
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Are you a Christian man looking to be free from your regular use of pornography? Shame and self-hatred are terrible motivators for transformation. There must be a better way to outgrow our unhealthy dependence on pornography. Religious communities often fall short engaging pornography in a meaningful way, quality resources are scarce. We must strip away the sexuality of our porn use, face the complexity of our own sexual development and stories head-on. We must get beneath to what is driving our hunger to use women as objects of our pleasure, and learn how to honor not objectify.
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Incredibly well written and thought out.
- By Daniel Miller on 05-24-18
By: Andrew J. Bauman
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Knowing Your Shadow
- Becoming Intimate with All That You Are
- By: Robert Augustus Masters PhD
- Narrated by: Robert Augustus Masters PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 23 mins
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Our shadow side, teaches Robert Augustus Masters, contains the emotions and desires we've disowned, neglected, or hidden from ourselves. If not skillfully worked with, it can easily direct our lives on every level. With Knowing Your Shadow, this acclaimed psychotherapist and author shows us how to illuminate and wisely engage with the endarkened aspects of who we are. Join him to explore in depth the areas where shadow work can most benefit us.
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Deep, practical, insightful
- By Richard R. Powell on 01-09-15
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Let's Build a Company
- A Start-Up Story Minus the Bullshit
- By: Harpreet Grover, Vibhore Goyal
- Narrated by: Anuj Datta
- Length: 6 hrs and 6 mins
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Harpreet Grover and Vibhore Goyal met in college and then spent the next decade of their lives building a company before exiting successfully. One way to tell their story is this: they had a dream, they followed it and, then, through perseverance, they made it come true. But that’s not really the truth. Like everything in life - at least everything worth having - it wasn’t that simple. There was blood, sweat and tears, there was loss of capital, loss of friendship and even a loss of faith along the way.
By: Harpreet Grover, and others
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From the Core
- A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth & Healing the World
- By: John Wineland
- Narrated by: John Wineland
- Length: 7 hrs and 18 mins
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Men today face a crisis of identity. While we can see how the old paradigm of patriarchal dominance needs to go, is the solution really to deconstruct the very idea of masculinity out of existence? No—that's not the answer. From the Core sets out a clear roadmap for men who want to live, love, and lead from the most profound places within. His techniques will help you adapt to a changing world while staying in touch with your masculine essence. If you're willing to spend at least thirty minutes a day, you can transform your entire approach to love, success, and relationships.
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I hope my husband will read this
- By Max Chellemi on 05-17-23
By: John Wineland
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The Sexually Healthy Man
- Essays on Spirituality, Sexuality, & Restoration
- By: Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Adam Naranjo
- Length: 2 hrs and 13 mins
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I grew up in the Southern Baptist church of the '90s during the height of the True Love Waits movement, accompanied by Joshua Harris’ best seller, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. If you don’t know what I am referring to, consider yourself blessed. Many of the ideas perpetuated by this culture were infused with fear and shame, offering no practical help or guidance in equipping young people to become healthy sexual human beings.
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The fact that even people who seem perfect have a past.
- By Elisabeth Louise Mizner on 06-07-24
By: Andrew J. Bauman
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The Thing You Think You Cannot Do
- Thirty Truths about Fear and Courage
- By: Gordon Livingston
- Narrated by: Sean Runnette
- Length: 4 hrs and 45 mins
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What are we afraid of and what can we do about it? Fear -of change, of intimacy, of loss, of the unknown -has become a corrosive influence in modern life, eroding our ability to think clearly. Exploited for power by politicians and for money by the media, it has become embedded in the way we think about our lives. Overcoming our fear, says Gordon Livingston, is the most difficult struggle we face. Here, he presents us with thirty truths that tell us what we need to do to develop personal virtues in the face of our fears.
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Superb!!
- By Anonymous User on 05-26-20
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Hard Times Create Strong Men
- Why the World Craves Leadership and How You Can Step Up to Fill the Need
- By: Stefan Aarnio
- Narrated by: Stefan Aarnio
- Length: 16 hrs and 13 mins
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What does it mean to be a man in the modern world? Throughout history, being a man has meant different things. Maybe being a man was about being a good hunter, or a good soldier, a good businessman, or maybe good with women. Hard Times Create Strong Men examines what it means to be a man in the modern world relative to money, sex, religion, and politics. This audiobook examines what worked and what doesn’t work based on proven history instead of feelings.
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The first half is pretty good, the second half...
- By Daniel Lee on 07-09-20
By: Stefan Aarnio
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The Way of Men
- By: Jack Donovan
- Narrated by: Jack Donovan
- Length: 4 hrs and 57 mins
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What is masculinity? Ask ten men and you'll get ten vague, conflicting answers. Unlike any book of its kind, The Way of Men offers a simple, straightforward answer - without getting bogged down in religion, morality, or politics. It's a guide for understanding who men have been and the challenges men face today. The Way of Men captures the silent, stifling rage of men everywhere who find themselves at odds with the overregulated, overcivilized, politically correct modern world.
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A book I plan on reccomending my sons
- By SlimCognito on 07-10-15
By: Jack Donovan
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Mindwise
- Why We Misunderstand What Others Think, Believe, Feel, and Want
- By: Nicholas Epley
- Narrated by: Nicholas Epley
- Length: 6 hrs and 24 mins
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You are a mind reader, born with an extraordinary ability to understand what others think, feel, believe, want, and know. It's a sixth sense you use every day, in every personal and professional relationship you have. At its best, this ability allows you to achieve the most important goal in almost any life: connecting, deeply and intimately and honestly, to other human beings. At its worst, it is a source of misunderstanding and unnecessary conflict, leading to damaged relationships and broken dreams. How good are you at knowing the minds of others?
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Finally gave up - no real point
- By Thomas on 05-12-14
By: Nicholas Epley
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Spiritual Bypassing
- When Spirituality Disconnects Us from What Really Matters
- By: Robert Augustus Masters PhD
- Narrated by: Robert Augustus Masters PhD
- Length: 5 hrs and 36 mins
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Spiritual bypassing—the use of spiritual beliefs to avoid dealing with painful feelings, unresolved wounds, and developmental needs—is so pervasive that it goes largely unnoticed. The spiritual ideals of any tradition, whether Christian commandments or Buddhist precepts, can provide easy justification for practitioners to duck uncomfortable feelings in favor of more seemingly enlightened activity. When split off from fundamental psychological needs, such actions often do much more harm than good.
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Very disappointed
- By Lori Wear on 04-03-17
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How Not to Be an *ss
- Essays on Becoming a Good & Safe Man
- By: Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Adam Naranjo
- Length: 2 hrs and 46 mins
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I am a recovering ass. Of course, at times I still am one, but it's less often. I now recognize my “assness” more quickly, recalibrate, and take action to make amends for my poor behavior. It's important to acknowledge the truth of our mistakes without turning toward self-contempt, shame, or beating ourselves up for the harm we have caused to those we love. Yet, we must take full responsibility for our poor behavior and fully own what we have done and learn to live differently, becoming men who bring life rather than further heartache.
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Men like Christ
- By Heather S on 11-05-24
By: Andrew J. Bauman
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- Mai M.
- 11-20-23
A guide to minimize silly arguing with your wife/mother
Ok ok. This book is wayyy more than my eye catching title but I wanted something that will grab most guys’ eyes without some deep, avoidable mission statement.
I would have titled this review “Second most important book for men after the Bible,” but realized that wouldn’t relate to everyone.
That said, it’s still a valid title. I’ve already avoided 3 arguments today that normally would have turned dark. So if nothing else, there you go.
This book is a must read. In fact it’s a must read-read because most men will read it while multitasking or frankly, sometimes we need to hear things more than once. I will make any guy thinking of marrying my daughters read this book first and debrief it with me. Period.
As far as a synopsis, It’s so hard to put into words. I’ve tried to describe it to my best friends and nothing but skepticism. So I won’t waste time. Read it or not. But it will lead to positive change in your lives. My only criticism is that the author can be a bit verbose at times, saying simple messages with paragraphs of words but listening at 1.75x speed helps with that.
Oh, also I think it’s mis-titled. “Power” really is t the core purpose of the book and can be misleading with using the term “masculinity.” Other than that, great F*ing book!
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- dspenc
- 01-05-25
meh
it's was okay. I really didn't like his approach on returning veterans. I think he's way off and perhaps he hasn't done a ton of research on PTSD and returning veterans from combat. He either needs to cut this section out or do some more research and dig in and really examine what's going on there. Especially in light of what recently happened in New Orleans in Las vegas. I would not recommend this book, don't waste your time.
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- Jake
- 03-20-25
Good for Men
Good to understand the why behind your emotions and how to better control them. good listen.
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- christopher roper
- 07-02-22
Top favorite
This is my second read I love this book this is an heirloom keep. Great.
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- Anonymous User
- 04-16-22
A must read for both men and women
I wish I found this book before shame and aggression bulldozed my marriage. Similar concepts to Daring Greatly by Brene Brown. Thanks
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- Anonymous User
- 12-16-23
Vital for all men
Very forthright direct powerful information for becoming our fullest selves as men. Bravo to Robert and all the men who are willing to do this work!
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- Castle
- 08-26-24
great book!
was understandable, purposeful and emotionally connected to this book. opened your mind to what a relationship to yourself as a man means
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- Courtney K
- 02-04-25
Cuts Deep
Incredibly validating and helpful to my own confusing journey to avoid being a stereotypical “man” yet embracing deep guttural energy.
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- alexandra
- 08-18-24
Not a fit for myself
Not a bad book, but not the basis of what I was looking for. I was hoping for a more motivational aspect and instead got a much more therapy esque storyline
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