
The Sex Lives of African Women
Self-Discovery, Freedom, and Healing
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A conversation starter like Three Women but centering the experiences of women of color: a mellifluous chorus celebrating the liberation, individuality, and joy of African women's multifaceted sexuality.
Thanks to her blog, Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women, Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah has spent decades talking openly and intimately to African women around the world about sex. For this book, she spoke to more than 30 African women across the globe while chronicling her own journey toward sexual freedom.
We meet Yami, a pansexual Canadian of Malawian heritage, who describes negotiating the line between family dynamics and sexuality. There’s Esther, a cisgendered hetero woman studying in America, by way of Cameroon and Kenya, who talks of how a childhood rape has made her rebellious and estranged from her missionary parents. And Tsitsi, an HIV-positive Zimbabwean woman who is raising a healthy, HIV-free baby.
Across a queer community in Egypt, polyamorous life in Senegal, and a reflection on the intersection of religion and pleasure in Cameroon, Sekyiamah explores the many layers of love and desire, its expression, and how it forms who we are.
In this confessional book, women control their own bodies and pleasure and assert their sexual power. Capturing the rich tapestry of sex positivity, The Sex Lives of African Women is a singular and subversive book that celebrates the liberation, individuality, and joy of African women's multifaceted sexuality.
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Storyline okay, audible performance horrible
- By Elizabeth G on 11-18-20
By: Peace Adzo Medie
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Black Friend
- Essays
- By: Ziwe
- Narrated by: Ziwe
- Length: 4 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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Ziwe made a name for herself by asking guests like Alyssa Milano, Fran Lebowitz, and Chet Hanks direct questions. In Black Friend, she turns her incisive perspective on both herself and the culture at large. Throughout the book, Ziwe combines pop-culture commentary and personal stories that grapple with her own (mis)understanding of identity. From a hilarious case of mistaken identity via a jumbotron to a terrifying fight-or-flight encounter in the woods, Ziwe raises difficult questions for comedic relief.
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Something for everyone
- By Happy on 10-21-23
By: Ziwe
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Honey and Spice
- A Novel
- By: Bolu Babalola
- Narrated by: Weruche Opia
- Length: 12 hrs
- Unabridged
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Sharp-tongued (and secretly soft-hearted) Kiki Banjo has just made a huge mistake. As an expert in relationship-evasion and the host of the popular student radio show Brown Sugar, she’s made it her mission to make sure the women of the African-Caribbean Society at Whitewell University do not fall into the mess of “situationships”, players, and heartbreak. But when the Queen of the Unbothered kisses Malakai Korede, the guy she just publicly denounced as “The Wastemen of Whitewell,” in front of every Blackwellian on campus, she finds her show on the brink.
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Not what I anticipated
- By Tiffany Watson on 07-09-22
By: Bolu Babalola
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Black Girls Must Die Exhausted
- A Novel (Black Girls Must Die Exhausted, Book 1)
- By: Jayne Allen
- Narrated by: Marcella Cox
- Length: 9 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Tabitha Walker is a black woman with a plan to "have it all." At 33 years old, the checklist for the life of her dreams is well underway. Education? Check. Good job? Check. Down payment for a nice house? Check. Dating marriage material? Check, check, and check. With a coveted position as a local news reporter, a "paper-perfect" boyfriend, and even a standing Saturday morning appointment with a reliable hairstylist, everything seems to be falling into place. Then Tabby receives an unexpected diagnosis, jeopardizing the keystone she took for granted: having children.
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Not What I Expected
- By R. Cartwright on 10-16-21
By: Jayne Allen
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In Every Mirror She’s Black
- A Novel
- By: Lolá Ákínmádé Åkerström
- Narrated by: Rosemarie Akwafo, Sara Powell
- Length: 12 hrs and 12 mins
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Successful marketing executive Kemi Adeyemi is lured from the US to Sweden by Jonny von Lundin, CEO of the nation's largest marketing firm, to help fix a PR fiasco involving a racially tone-deaf campaign. A killer at work but a failure in love, Kemi's move is a last-ditch effort to reclaim her social life.
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Not sure of where the author was going with this
- By Grace Vette on 02-18-22
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Wahala
- A Novel
- By: Nikki May
- Narrated by: Natalie Simpson
- Length: 10 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Ronke wants happily ever after and 2.2. kids. She’s dating Kayode and wants him to be “the one” (perfect, like her dead father). Her friends think he’s just another in a long line of dodgy Nigerian boyfriends. Boo has everything Ronke wants—a kind husband, gorgeous child. But she’s frustrated, unfulfilled, plagued by guilt, and desperate to remember who she used to be.
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Underwhelming
- By Nneka Manyara on 03-29-22
By: Nikki May
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You Made a Fool of Death with Your Beauty
- A Novel
- By: Akwaeke Emezi
- Narrated by: Bahni Turpin
- Length: 9 hrs and 57 mins
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It’s been five years since the accident that killed the love of her life and she’s almost a new person now—an artist with her own studio and sharing a brownstone apartment with her ride-or-die best friend, Joy, who insists it’s time for Feyi to ease back into the dating scene. Feyi isn’t ready for anything serious, but a steamy encounter at a rooftop party cascades into a whirlwind summer she could have never imagined: a luxury trip to a tropical island, decadent meals in the glamorous home of a celebrity chef, and a major curator who wants to launch her art career.
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Very well written but...
- By Sasha on 05-31-22
By: Akwaeke Emezi
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Excuse Me While I Ugly Cry
- By: Joya Goffney
- Narrated by: Jordan Cobb
- Length: 9 hrs and 39 mins
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Quinn keeps lists of everything - from the days she’s ugly cried, to “Things That I Would Never Admit Out Loud” and all the boys she’d like to kiss. Her lists keep her sane. By writing her fears on paper, she never has to face them in real life. That is, until her journal goes missing....
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Finally felt seen in a Novel
- By Twyla Arbuckle on 07-08-21
By: Joya Goffney
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Seven Days in June
- By: Tia Williams
- Narrated by: Mela Lee
- Length: 10 hrs and 32 mins
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Eva Mercy is a single mom and bestselling erotica writer who is feeling pressed from all sides. Shane Hall is a reclusive, enigmatic, award‑winning novelist, who, to everyone's surprise, shows up in New York. When Shane and Eva meet unexpectedly at a literary event, sparks fly, raising not only their buried traumas, but the eyebrows of the Black literati. What no one knows is that 15 years earlier, teenage Eva and Shane spent one crazy, torrid week madly in love.
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Better than the Reviews Say
- By Akuba on 09-26-21
By: Tia Williams
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The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom
- Build Wealth, Retire Early, and Live the Life of Your Dreams
- By: Paris Woods
- Narrated by: Paris Woods
- Length: 5 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
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Are you tired of spinning your wheels following financial advice that leaves you feeling broker than before? Are you pulling your hair out trying to follow the complicated instructions offered by the gurus? In The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom, Paris Woods takes the guesswork out of wealth-building and presents a plan that anyone can follow. This audiobook is perfect for Black women of any age, including young professionals just starting to set financial goals and mid-career women who are tired of following the same old rules.
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If you want to hear stories.
- By Melissa H. on 10-21-22
By: Paris Woods
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A Love Song for Ricki Wilde
- By: Tia Williams
- Narrated by: Mela Lee, Preston Butler
- Length: 11 hrs and 42 mins
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The daughter of a powerful Atlanta dynasty, Ricki Wilde is the opposite of her famous socialite sisters. In her bones, Ricki knows that somewhere, a different, more exciting life awaits her. When she moves into a Harlem brownstone, she leaves behind her family, wealth, and chaotic romantic decisions to realize her dream of opening a flower shop. One evening Ricki encounters a handsome, deeply mysterious stranger who knocks her world off balance in the most unexpected way.
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Why am I bawling on my lunch break?
- By Zakiya Jackson on 03-05-24
By: Tia Williams
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Only for the Week
- By: Natasha Bishop
- Narrated by: J. Shani Michaels, Winston James
- Length: 7 hrs and 3 mins
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You are cordially invited to the wedding of Amerie Cross and Arnold Hightower.
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A real love story
- By Kimette Almon on 05-22-24
By: Natasha Bishop
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Monday's Not Coming
- By: Tiffany D. Jackson
- Narrated by: Imani Parks
- Length: 10 hrs and 7 mins
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Monday Charles is missing, and only Claudia seems to notice. Claudia and Monday have always been inseparable - more sisters than friends. So when Monday doesn’t turn up for the first day of school, Claudia’s worried. When she doesn’t show for the second day, or second week, Claudia knows that something is wrong. As Claudia digs deeper into her friend’s disappearance, she discovers that no one seems to remember the last time they saw Monday. How can a teenage girl just vanish without anyone noticing that she’s gone?
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Suspenseful with twists!
- By Teresa on 12-18-18
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- Delcina Hagley
- 04-08-23
Absolutely Fabulous!
I laughed, cried, and clutched my imaginary pearls what a beautiful collection of powerful stories!
Thank you Demi for recommending this gem! A story for everyone, but especially for us!
10/10 - highly recommend
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- Ashia Sims
- 09-09-22
A wonderful book about sex and life!
I really enjoyed this book. It was interesting getting a glimpse into the lives of African women around the world. It was a beautifully expansive exploration of women whose lived experiences were both similar to and different from my own.
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- Lauren S
- 08-02-22
One of my Favorite books Ever
This was phenomenal. As a black woman, I felt these stories. I heard them and I hold space for all of those women as they shared their stories. Black women are just AMAZING. I saw myself in some of these stories. I learned of new experiences. This is going to be a book that I share everywhere
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- Anonymous User
- 01-07-23
Soo good!
This was such a good book. It made me think a lot about myself and my own experiences.
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- Kaf
- 09-12-24
Woah 🤯
So many emotions. Perfect ❤️ I’d love a sequel to this, there are so many stories to be told, the audience loves to hear them.
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- Mell
- 06-08-22
A must listen
These stories will make you laugh, cry, want to turn it off and even reminisce. This is so wonderfully read and the lives experiences are so real.
It was also educational and makes me hope for a better tomorrow where every woman comes to know her own body without having to experience physical, mental or spiritual pain.
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- blackstar
- 06-23-24
amazing
this book is soo good. it was very intriguing to see the various perspectives of African women's lives and hear the stories.. highly recommend
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- Tess
- 07-18-22
Love the stories
I thoroughly enjoyed the stories of the different women. I am glad the rest of the world is able to read and understand African women experiences.
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- Lillian
- 11-23-22
The book is amazing!
Such gripping stories. So grateful that a compilation of African women's diverse experiences exists to demonstrate the range of their emotions, identities, and affinities.
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- Abigail
- 03-20-22
I learned alot
I loved it it was relatable as an African woman, thanks for this great piece
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