
The Blue Cotton Gown
A Midwife’s Memoir
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Abby Craden
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Patricia Harman
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Heather is pale and thin, seventeen and pregnant with twins when Patricia Harman begins to care for her. Over the course of the next five seasons Patsy will see Heather through the loss of both babies and their father. She will also care for her longtime patient Nila, pregnant for the eighth time and trying to make a new life without her abusive husband. And Patsy will try to find some comfort to offer Holly, whose teenage daughter struggles with bulimia. She will help Rebba learn to find pleasure in her body and help Kaz transition into a new body. She will do noisy battle with the IRS in the very few moments she has to spare, and wage her own private battle with uterine cancer.
Patricia Harman, a nurse-midwife, manages a women's health clinic with her husband, Tom, an ob-gyn, in West Virginia-a practice where patients open their hearts, where they find care and sometimes refuge. Patsy's memoir juxtaposes the tales of these women with her own story of keeping a small medical practice solvent and coping with personal challenges. Her patients range from Appalachian mothers who haven't had the opportunity to attend secondary school to Ph.D.'s on cell phones. They come to Patsy's small, windowless exam room and sit covered only by blue cotton gowns, and their infinitely varied stories are in equal parts heartbreaking and uplifting. The nurse-midwife tells of their lives over the course of a year and a quarter, a time when her outwardly successful practice is in deep financial trouble, when she is coping with malpractice threats, confronting her own serious medical problems, and fearing that her thirty-year marriage may be on the verge of collapse. In the words of Jacqueline Mitchard, this memoir, "utterly true and lyrical as any novel...should be a little classic."
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Editorial reviews
Patricia Harman likens her examination room to a confessional early on in her intimate, deeply personal memoir based on her experiences operating a women's health clinic in West Virginia, which served as a refuge for women of myriad ages and backgrounds dealing with medical, psychological, and familial issues.
This striking mosaic of stories is delivered with an urgency, compassion, and integrity by Abby Craden, who captures the gamut of emotions both Harman and these fascinating women courageously display.
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- Amy Cottrell
- 02-14-25
Wonderful!!
I recently discovered Patricia Harman have read several other books. I love her historical pieces, but I thought this memoir was superb. She is so talented! Rarely do books make me cry, but I appreciated the struggles that she shared and the humanity of women. I am definitely recommending this to my Book Club and other friends.
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- Heidi Back
- 05-09-18
True account of a modern Nurse-Midwife midwife
The story really captures the daily life of a Nurse Midwife, but more importantly the stories of the women that we serve. Excellent writing.
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- Daryl
- 10-23-13
Timeless, introspective, enlightening
Where does The Blue Cotton Gown rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?
Fairly high. I have read some very very good books, and this is a good addition to my library. It is at turns a tale of a medical practice, a marriage, a woman... and more.
Who was your favorite character and why?
Patsy because it is her story; Nilla for her fierce devotion to her children.
Which character – as performed by Abby Craden – was your favorite?
Nilla, Heather. Though their stories are different, Abby Craydon did an admirable job with tone and inflection with them.
If you could give The Blue Cotton Gown a new subtitle, what would it be?
Life and death befor elife and other tales
Any additional comments?
This is a good book related to a seldom explored aspect of medical practice. The points of view change from present and past tense, which is a bit confusing, and the book is unnecessarily sexually graphic in unexpected places, which is the reason I cannot give it five stars. The narration was incredible, and I will check out this narrator and author again (Patricia Harmon also write "The Midwife of Hope River).
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- Susie
- 10-16-13
Hope, Heartbreak, Compassion
As a midwife in a small rural practice that she runs with her husband, Patricia Harman acts as social worker, doctor, therapist, and mother.
The women’s stories she encounters in the confessional-like exam room illuminate the lives of the non-glamorous, average women so rarely heard in TV and news stories.
Harman looks into the experience of womanhood, of motherhood in a more intimate and respectful, and compassionate way than someone in almost any other occupation could, and she brings the listener there with her.
Abby Craden brings the confidential voice of the book to life, like she’s whispering in your ear.
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- Kate Larson
- 06-30-17
Reader style didn't work for me.
The narrator was too clipped for me. I'm not sure why she chose that style (or why she was chosen) but I felt a more lyrical and emotional narration would have made the process of listening more enjoyable.
The story was fascinating and fitting conclusion to Patricia Harman's first two books. Thank you for sharing your story Ms Hartman.
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- Indigo
- 04-09-22
This is a wonderful book
Every woman who is or wants to be in healthcare should read this book. Once you get past meeting all the federal regs, dotting the I and crossing the t, this is how it happens when you take care of women and their families in rural America. Ever question your role as a nurse or provider, read this book.
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- HappyMom
- 12-29-24
Inappropriate Medical Practice
if this is really a memior, I'm appalled Patricia didn't lose her license. It is illegal for a nurse to pose as a doctor. a ridiculous excuse not telling your patients you are not a doctor because your abbreviated credentials are on your name tag, as if lay people know what all the acronyms mean. then the inappropriate counseling without a license. her whining about her financial situation when they have two houses and pay for their three children's private colleges. Just absurd
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