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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

A Guide to Knowing If Your Relationship Can - and Should - Be Saved

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

By: Lundy Bancroft, JAC Patrissi
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In this supportive and straightforward guide, Lundy Bancroft, the author of Why Does He Do That?, and communication specialist JAC Patrissi offer a way for women to practically take stock of their relationships and move forward, with or without their partners. Women involved in chronically frustrating or unfulfilling relationships will learn to: tell the difference between a healthy yet difficult relationship and one that is really not working, recognize the signs that their partner has a serious problem, stop waiting to see what happens and make their own growth the top priority, and prepare for life without their partner, even as they keep trying to make the relationship work.

©2011 Lundy Bancroft and Judith Patrissi (P)2015 Tantor
Love, Dating & Attraction Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Inspiring

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"Women needing to check in objectively on their relationship's health will find this book quite useful." ( Publishers Weekly)

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