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Questions to Ask a Cheater

Questions to Ask a Cheating Spouse to Gain Closure and Heal Your Heart

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Questions to Ask a Cheater

By: Rebekah Clarke
Narrated by: Clare Radix
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Talking to your partner after they’ve cheated is undeniably one of the toughest conversations you’ll ever have with them. You’ll be bubbling over with a ton of emotions - anger, upset, and frustration. The cheating partner will also have their own emotions to deal with - dread, uncertainty, and the shame of their actions.

The aftermath of cheating always leads to “The Conversation”, where the hurt party asks their partner all of the questions about the affair they've bottled up. The cheater will be asked to answer difficult questions and confess some hurtful things to their partner, which is easier said than done for both parties. Does this situation sound similar to yours?

Although you may find yourself simmering with an abundance of questions for your partner, they don’t always come out the way you want or need them to; your anger and hurt take over, and what should be an open communication, turns into an argument. I was in the same situation not too long ago, and my rage and hurt would always get in the way of an open and honest discussion with my partner about his infidelity. This stopped me from being able to get the closure I needed so badly. Couple this with my emotions clouding my ability to know what questions to ask and how to ask them, I was in a cycle of heartache and confusion.

This audiobook is for you if you’ve been cheated on and need answers. It’s also a way to find comfort in the knowledge that someone has been in the same position you’re in and has been through the same heartache as you’ve endured. Straight to the point, no fluff or filler, this book will aid you in getting the answers you need, help you rebuild honest communication with your partner, and inspire you to seek the respect you deserve.

This book includes four parts:

  • Questions To Ask Your Partner To Understand Their Behaviour
  • Questions To Ask To Rebuild Trust With Your Partner
  • Questions To Ask A Cheating Partner Or Ex To Gain Closure
  • A Chapter For The Cheater
©2021 Rebekah Clarke (P)2025 Rebekah Clarke
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Exceptional content! This opened my eyes to what a cheater may say and how to help determine next steps.

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It was very easy to read and understand. It took just a few hours to listen to the whole thing. Great advice.

Easy read

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It gave you how to approach the situation in a cool manner if it was a good outcome or not and the question made a lot of sense

It helped me understand my situation better

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I found this book to be very educational and easy to listen to. The guidance and tips offered gave me a sense of hope and a road map to healing.

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this was a good read. I have been struggling for months, and this helped in so many ways. I can now ask the questions I need and stop internalizing and going through it alone. the part that stood out the most was that my spouse is also hurting. I never stopped to think about how my pain is also his pain.

helpul

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I thought I was going crazy. This book gave me a sense that I am normal in my thoughts.

Thank you

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I loved the raw questions, it's not sugar coated at all. It's just what I needed, thank you! I was the one betrayed.

Betrayed and struggling to heal.

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I’m giving this three stars because it might be helpful to some people. I found it too simple and very surface level. I also dislike the narration, which sounds more like AI than a real person.

Poor narration and low level of detail

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Fantastic information, but in reality, cheaters are not going to honest answer the questions because they can’t be honest with themselves

Theoretically five out of five

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