
Perfect Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People
Hundreds of Ready-to-Use Phrases for Handling Conflict, Confrontations and Challenging Personalities
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Perfect phrases for the right situation, every time.
Whether it's hiring employees or creating teams, the Perfect Phrases series has the tools for precise, effective communication in any situation. With Perfect Phrases books, you have all the phrases you need to get things done, right at your fingertips!
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- Veridical_Angel
- 03-02-23
Mediocre subject and narrating
Mediocre subject and narrating. Took me a few days since it didn’t really grab me.
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- Suzanne
- 02-20-24
I made a mistake in buying this book.
I didn’t realize that it was for dealing with difficult people IN THE WORK PLACE. No where is that stated. I thought it was for difficult people in general. I’m very disappointed.
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- francis gary
- 02-01-23
Not great
Thought it helps with communication by giving tips but like it’s a HR related. Did not care for it wish I could get my free credit back!
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- L. DeSantis
- 08-28-22
meh
Thought this was a book for effective communication. the moral of the story is to tell on your colleagues/teammates. reads more like a HR manual.
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- Lisa
- 05-30-24
well organized and easy to navigate
well organized and easy to navigate
can be used as a reference book or read cove to cover. Gave really great answers to address bosses, supervisors, subordinates, customers, and even the reader's own stumbling blocks.
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