
Love Is the Resistance
Learn to Disagree, Resolve the Conflicts You've Been Avoiding, and Create Real Change
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Ashley Abercrombie
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When it comes to disagreement, we are in perpetual fight-or-flight mode. Rather than respond with a posture of compassion and connection, we are encouraged to "resist" others personally and politically. Either we engage in fruitless argument with people who refuse to see things our way or we retreat to our echo chambers where everyone agrees with us. But the real resistance, the kind that helps us grow, is learning to love others - especially those who disagree with us.
If you're tired of seeing your real-life and online communities in turmoil and you long to be an agent of peace, understanding, and reconciliation, it's time to join a new kind of resistance movement - one that pushes us toward personal transformation. Grounded in Scripture and illustrated with compelling true stories, this new book from Ashley Abercrombie will help you gain the confidence to communicate and connect with others, stop avoiding necessary tension, and resolve your internal and external conflicts.
When we make love our habitual reaction to the conflicts and divisions in our lives, we'll find that we can stay true to our convictions without sacrificing our relationships.
©2021 Ashley Abercrombie (P)2021 eChristianListeners also enjoyed...
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- Brianna Vandyke
- 05-10-22
Where do I begin?
The sheer wisdom in this book isn’t only something Ashley preaches, but she lives and breathes it. We can all glean from this and more. This speaks to the yearnings of my mind and heart that I don’t know how to voice.
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- J.
- 10-08-21
Woke Christian Moralism
Picked this title up after listening to a MOPS speech. Glad I did not pay for it.
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- Jo
- 11-05-23
Good to hear your opinion Ashley
I am so happy that you are able to share your opinion and for your voice to be heard.
I felt that you shared only your opinion though and felt uncomfortable when I didn’t see an open mind for the opposite opinion.
For that reason I would not recommend this book.
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