
Kissing Girls on Shabbat
A Memoir
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Sara Glass
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“A searing testament to the strength in claiming one’s destiny.” —The Washington Post
A moving coming-of-age memoir in the vein of Unorthodox and Educated, about one young woman’s desperate attempt to protect her children and family while also embracing her queer identity in a controlling Hasidic community.
Growing up in the Hasidic community of Brooklyn’s Borough Park, Sara Glass knew one painful truth: what was expected of her and what she desperately wanted were impossibly opposed. Tormented by her attraction to women and trapped in a loveless arranged marriage, she found herself unable to conform to her religious upbringing and soon, she made the difficult decision to walk away from the world she knew.
Sara’s journey to self-acceptance began with the challenging battle for a divorce and custody of her children, an act that left her on the verge of estrangement from her family and community. Controlled by the fear of losing custody of her two children, she forced herself to remain loyal to the compulsory heteronormativity baked into Hasidic Judaism and married again. But after suffering profound loss and a shocking sexual assault, Sara decided to finally be completely true to herself.
Kissing Girls on Shabbat is not only a love letter to Glass’s children, herself, and her family—it is an unflinching window into the world of ultra-conservative Orthodox Jewish communities and an inspiring celebration of learning to love yourself.
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As a young girl growing up in a strict ultra-Orthodox family, Dassi's life was preordained - marry young, live a devout life and raise children within the Adass community's religious rules. This righteous path would keep her safe from the immodest, secular world just a few blocks away in suburban Melbourne. But the Adass community was not safe for Dassi. She was fifteen when her revered school principal, Malka Leifer, started to single her out. Dassi's cloistered and harsh upbringing meant she didn't have the words for what was happening to her, but she knew it was very, very wrong.
By: Dassi Erlich
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The Matchmaker's Gift
- A Novel
- By: Lynda Cohen Loigman
- Narrated by: Eva Kaminsky, Gabra Zackman
- Length: 9 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Even as a child in 1910, Sara Glikman knows her gift: she is a maker of matches and a seeker of soulmates. But among the pushcart-crowded streets of New York’s Lower East Side, Sara’s vocation is dominated by devout older men—men who see a talented female matchmaker as a dangerous threat to their traditions and livelihood. After making matches in secret for more than a decade, Sara must fight to take her rightful place among her peers, and to demand the recognition she deserves.
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Delightful
- By Little Ms Fun on 04-04-23
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The Outside World
- By: Tova Mirvis
- Narrated by: Emily Bauer
- Length: 12 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
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Tzippy Goldman was born for marriage. She and her mother had always assumed she'd graduate high school, be set up with the right boy, and have a beautiful wedding with white lace and pareve vanilla cream frosting. But at twenty-two, Tzippy's fast approaching spinsterhood. She dreams of escape; instead, she leaves for a year in Jerusalem.There she meets - re-meets - Baruch, the son of her mother's college roommate. When Tzippy last saw him, his name was Bryan and he wore a Yankees-logo yarmulke.
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A terrific read!
- By Sydney Culver on 04-13-15
By: Tova Mirvis
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Unorthodox
- The Scandalous Rejection of My Hasidic Roots
- By: Deborah Feldman
- Narrated by: Rachel Botchan, Cassandra Campbell
- Length: 10 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
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As a member of the strictly religious Satmar sect of Hasidic Judaism, Deborah Feldman grew up under a code of relentlessly enforced customs governing everything from what she could wear and to whom she could speak to what she was allowed to read. Yet in spite of her repressive upbringing, Deborah grew into an independent-minded young woman whose stolen moments reading about the empowered literary characters of Jane Austen and Louisa May Alcott helped her to imagine an alternative way of life among the skyscrapers of Manhattan.
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Narrator Problem
- By Phyllis on 04-24-20
By: Deborah Feldman
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This Much Is True
- By: Miriam Margolyes
- Narrated by: Miriam Margolyes
- Length: 15 hrs and 7 mins
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Award-winning actor, creator of a myriad of memorable characters from Lady Whiteadder to Professor Sprout, Miriam Margolyes is a national treasure. Now, at last, at the age of 80, she has finally decided to tell her extraordinary life story. And it's far richer and stranger than any part she's played.
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Simply Brilliant
- By Stuart Huddart on 09-21-21
By: Miriam Margolyes
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Ten Steps to Nanette
- A Memoir Situation
- By: Hannah Gadsby
- Narrated by: Hannah Gadsby
- Length: 13 hrs and 47 mins
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Gadsby grew up as the youngest of five children in Tasmania, where homosexuality was illegal until 1997. After moving to mainland Australia and receiving a degree in art history, they found themselves adrift, working itinerant jobs and enduring years of isolation punctuated by homophobic and sexual violence. When Gadsby was twenty-seven, a friend encouraged them to enter a stand-up competition. They won, and so began their career in comedy.
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An emotional connection
- By John on 04-23-22
By: Hannah Gadsby
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Dry
- A Memoir
- By: Augusten Burroughs
- Narrated by: Augusten Burroughs
- Length: 8 hrs and 42 mins
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At the request (well, it wasn't really a request) of his employers, Augusten lands in rehab, where his dreams of group therapy with Robert Downey Jr. are immediately dashed by grim reality of fluorescent lighting and paper hospital slippers. When Augusten is forced to examine himself, he finds himself in the worst trouble of all. Because when his thirty days are up, he has to return to his same drunken Manhattan life - and live it sober. Dry is the story of love, loss, and Starbucks as a Higher Power
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Sobriety with a sense of style....
- By heidi on 09-28-03
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We Have Always Been Here
- A Queer Muslim Memoir
- By: Samra Habib
- Narrated by: Parmida Vand
- Length: 5 hrs and 14 mins
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Samra Habib has spent most of their life searching for the safety to be themself. As an Ahmadi Muslim growing up in Pakistan, they faced regular threats from Islamic extremists who believed the small, dynamic sect to be blasphemous. From their parents, they internalized the lesson that revealing their identity could put them in grave danger.
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Wow.
- By Lannah E. on 05-19-21
By: Samra Habib
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An Observant Wife
- A Novel
- By: Naomi Ragen
- Narrated by: Gabra Zackman
- Length: 12 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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From the joy of their wedding day surrounded by supportive friends and family, Yaakov and Leah are soon plunged into the complex reality of their new lives together as Yaakov leaves his beloved yeshiva to work in the city, and Leah confronts the often agonizing restrictions imposed by religious laws governing even the most intimate moments of their married lives. Adding to their difficulties is the hostility of some in the community who continue to view Leah as a dangerous interloper, questioning her sincerity and adherence to religious laws and spreading outrageous rumors.
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Wonderful Story and Characters
- By M. Miller on 12-16-21
By: Naomi Ragen
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A Fortress in Brooklyn
- Race, Real Estate, and the Making of Hasidic Williamsburg
- By: Nathaniel Deutsch, Michael Casper
- Narrated by: Steven Jay Cohen
- Length: 13 hrs and 32 mins
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Hasidic Williamsburg is famous as one of the most separatist, intensely religious, and politically savvy communities. Less known is how the community survived in one of New York City's toughest neighborhoods during an era of steep decline, only to later oppose and also participate in the unprecedented gentrification of Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Nathaniel Deutsch and Michael Casper unravel the fascinating history of how a community of determined Holocaust survivors encountered, shaped, and sometimes fiercely resisted the urban processes that transformed their gritty neighborhood.
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Yiddish and Hebrew words butchered by narrator...
- By Michael on 08-05-24
By: Nathaniel Deutsch, and others
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A Well-Trained Wife
- My Escape from Christian Patriarchy
- By: Tia Levings
- Narrated by: Tia Levings
- Length: 10 hrs and 54 mins
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Recruited into the fundamentalist Quiverfull movement as a young wife, Tia Levings learned that being a good Christian meant following a list of additional life principles—a series of secret, special rules to obey. Being a godly and submissive wife in Christian Patriarchy included strict discipline, isolation, and an alternative lifestyle that appeared wholesome to outsiders. Women were to be silent, “keepers of the home.” A Well-Trained Wife is an unforgettable memoir about a woman's race to save herself and her family and details the ways that extreme views can manifest in a marriage.
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A review from a chronic non-reviewer
- By T. L. P. on 08-11-24
By: Tia Levings
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The Only Way Through Is Out
- By: Suzette Mullen
- Narrated by: Shawna Wolf
- Length: 9 hrs and 7 mins
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Suzette Mullen had been raised to play it safe—and she hated causing others pain. With college and law degrees, a kind and successful husband, two thriving adult sons, and an ocean-view vacation home, she lived a life many people would envy. But beneath the happy facade was a woman who watched her friends walk boldly through their lives and wondered what was holding her back from doing the same.
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Relatable, easy to listen to and honest
- By Beth Kolar on 09-15-24
By: Suzette Mullen
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The Safekeep
- By: Yael van der Wouden
- Narrated by: Stina Nielsen, Saskia Maarleveld
- Length: 9 hrs and 30 mins
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An exhilarating, twisted tale of desire, suspicion, and obsession between two women staying in the same house in the Dutch countryside during the summer of 1961—a powerful exploration of the legacy of WWII and the darker parts of our collective past.
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Beautiful. Unexpected.
- By cm on 01-15-25
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Angela Davis
- An Autobiography
- By: Angela Davis
- Narrated by: Angela Davis
- Length: 19 hrs and 28 mins
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Angela Davis has been a political activist at the cutting edge of the Black Liberation, feminist, queer, and prison-abolitionist movements for more than 50 years. Angela Davis: An Autobiography, first published and edited by Toni Morrison in 1974, is a powerful and commanding account of her early years in these struggles. Read by Angela Davis herself, this autobiography, told with warmth, brilliance, humor, and conviction, is a classic account of a life in struggle, with echoes in our own time.
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Good story of an interesting person
- By Antuane Brown on 03-17-22
By: Angela Davis
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The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern
- A Novel
- By: Lynda Cohen Loigman
- Narrated by: Gabra Zackman, Lynda Cohen Loigman
- Length: 9 hrs and 40 mins
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On the cusp of turning eighty, newly retired pharmacist Augusta Stern is adrift. When she relocates to Rallentando Springs—an active senior community in southern Florida—she unexpectedly crosses paths with Irving Rivkin, the delivery boy from her father’s old pharmacy—and the man who broke her heart sixty years earlier.
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Boring characters
- By Elisa Savva on 10-27-24
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- Jessica Lynn
- 06-15-24
A coming out story decades in the making
I love books about people, particularly women, who come out of oppressive religions and marriages and find their truest, most authentic selves. Dr Sara Glass is one such woman, and her story is captivating. Coming out is one of the most difficult things a person can do, especially when one believes that they will lose everything they hold dear by doing so. This book did not disappoint.
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- Anna R.
- 07-02-24
Inspirational
Dr. Glass completely draws the listener in to her struggles in her story. Her search for an authentic life is something that resonates with everyone in the LGBTQ+ community. Especially those from conservative and oppressively misogynistic backgrounds. This book is not to be missed, especially in these troubling political times.
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- Jeremy
- 01-04-25
Incredibly thoughtful story of bravery. A masterpiece
Sara tells her story in such an authentic and sophisticated way, that I was immediately drawn into her world. I felt the anxiety and utter fear that developed in her early world, and I felt the release that came as she shed each layer of her protective cocoon. I am so grateful to her for sharing her experiences in such a raw and vulnerable way, which is very difficult for therapists to do. Her kids were right in enthusiastically supporting her writing; this is the kind of book that saves lives. If you are Queer and/or know what it is to live in a high-demand religious community, you will especially benefit from Sara’s writing. I know both (and am also a therapist), and I feel completely moved and inspired by this book. I’m going to take some time to digest, and then can’t wait to read it again!
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- Denise Feldman
- 09-25-24
Absolutely amazing!
A tough but beautifully written memoir of finding and celebrating one’s own identity against all odds. Beautifully written (and read), I found myself gasping out loud at times, laughing at other times. Opened my eyes to the world of ultra-orthodoxy, and the ways we can be inspired by those willing to risk those people and values most dear to them to share their story. Thank you Sarah Glass! You have rocked my world (for the good).
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- Rikki SaNogueira
- 03-06-25
One of the best post-ortho stories available
Incredibly thoughtful, vulnerable, and exquisitely written. The authors reading was excellent. As a queer person raised as a frum girl in Monsey, this story spoke directly to my neshama ❤️. This and All Who Go Do Not Return are the two absolute best post-orthodox books out there.
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- Mandy
- 09-17-24
Wonderful book.
I loved this memoir. I resonated with a lot myself, and it was really incredible to hear about the things she dealt with and the way she found herself.
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- Sunny
- 07-04-24
Holy wow!
Of the 400+ titles in my Audible library, most of which are memoirs, this is one of my absolute favs of all time! I could not stop listening and did not want it to end. Such a compelling story, told beautifully and honestly. Sara, your courage to not only follow your heart and gut, but also to share the journey with us all through your book is healing your family and so many others generations forward and generations back. Thank you!!
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- Joy Hempel-Van Oss
- 09-12-24
Reads like a novel
While this is non-fiction, Sara Glass is an excellent storyteller. Coming out later in life myself, her story resonated deeply with me. Getting divorced was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life, but feeling whole on the other side has been worth it.
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-18-24
Fantastic work!
Beautifully written and honest story. It was so interesting to get a glimpse inside her religious community and to hear her personal struggles. I loved the book. We’re reading it as a Book Club selection, and I’m so glad we chose it!
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- Sophie Krupp
- 07-25-24
Incredible book
Even though the context this book takes place in may be foreign to people, the honest portrayal of what it means to feel human and begin to trust yourself is so relatable.
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