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  • Keep Calm and Cut Him Off

  • 13 Reasons to "Go Silent" on Guys Who Reject or Break Up with You
  • By: Bruce Bryans
  • Narrated by: Mike Norgaard
  • Length: 1 hr and 15 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (585 ratings)

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Keep Calm and Cut Him Off

By: Bruce Bryans
Narrated by: Mike Norgaard
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A guy who rejects or breaks up with you should no longer exist in your life. Contacting him or allowing him to stay in touch with you will make you work harder and harder to convince him that you’re worth his love and attention, and it will compel you to play that ugly and unwinnable game called “Chase-a-Man”.

The best way to avoid this ugly game and break his spell over you is to cut the guy off (cease all communications and interactions) for a set period of time, or in some cases, keep him cut off out of your life indefinitely.

In this audiobook, you’ll learn the importance of silence after a breakup or rejection, how it benefits you, and the powerful influence it has on the man who rejects you. If you want to bounce back from a bad breakup or even just improve your relationships with men in the future, this short and insightful survival guide will help you rediscover your true self-worth.

Here's what else you’re going to learn:

  • The dangerous thought process that keeps many women trapped in an addictive cycle of unfulfilling sex, disappointment, and low self-esteem.
  • Why you should never relieve a guy of the guilt he feels for treating you poorly, and why allowing him to feel guilty is actually a good thing.
  • Exactly what men think and feel when you cut them off quickly.
  • Why forcing a man to live with his decision to leave you is crucial to reclaiming your power and potentially getting him back in the future.
  • The dangers of staying in touch with an ex, and how it tricks you into settling for a dead-end pseudo-relationship.
  • How you can better control the “mean girl” inside your head (the inner voice that likes to tell you that you’re not "good", "smart", or "pretty enough" in some way) by finally standing up for yourself.
  • And much, much more.

Get started right away, and discover the power and importance of silence after a breakup or rejection.

©2021 Bruce Bryans (P)2022 Bruce Bryans
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Empowering

Cut him off for only three days, he begged and came crawling back! I’ve been so miserable, anxious, and depressed by the way he treated me for almost two years. I did not want to let go, just kept on hoping that he would change because of my deep love for him. Now, I’ve never felt this good and exuberant! I’ve decided to cut him off for good. Thank you, Bruce, from the bottom of my heart, for saving me, and for all your books (I’ve purchased ALL of them)!

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All facts In this book

Great book everything was true and helpful and insightful. Glad I bought this book! It helped.

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Straight to the Point

Loved this book so much. It was a pretty quick listen and it told me exactly what I’ve been needing to hear. Going to listen 10 more times until it is burned into my head!!!!!

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This gave me strength...

I really needed these objective words of wisdom to begin acting in my best interests as it relates to a guy I was dating. In my gut, I knew what I had to do, but it's harder to make these decisions when the man in question is not "technically" an asshole. This book made me realize it's not about whether the guy is bad or good. It's about the fact that I'm not getting what I deserve, and so I should walk away. Period. I highly recommend this short read to any woman feeling emotionally neglected and/or rejected by a man.

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Life-changing. Valuable lessons!

I wish I listen to this 30 years ago. Life-changing! just hit the nail on the head! So very good. Now I will read his other books because I’m sure they’re right what I need to listen to.

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CONFIRMATION!!!!

So I got this book not thinking that it would apply to me a 100% but I still could relate!! Boy o boy I had no idea what I was in for!! This literally justified my decision on blocking and cutting off all communication on an unstable relationship!! It was refreshing to know I wasn’t be harsh and I was rite on track!! I highly recommend this book if you’re feeling uneasy, unsure , rejected or neglected on a current relationship! This book definitely confirmed that I was doing the right thing when it came down to protecting myself and no longer accepting negative behavior! Also put the power back in your hands to determine on whether that person is truly worth being in your life or not! GET THE BOOK!!

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Excellent book!!!

This book is just what I needed. It is concise and very insightful. It really resonated with me.

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Great points

Definitely a good read for any woman looking to gain her confidence and power back after a breakup. The author made some really great points in this book.

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Great advice

All made so much sense and at least confirmed that my moto to cut the time wasters off immediately is the right approach ! Thanks ‘

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Ladies, listen to this!

Invaluable insight and precious info every woman need to hear from time to time. We’ve all been there: holding our breath for that “special guy”, with this book, ladies, you will be breathing again with the full lungs capacity!

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