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Recognize Manipulative and Emotionally Abusive People -- and Break Free
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Suehyla El Attar
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Stephanie Moulton Sarkis
About this listen
A mental-health expert sheds light on "gaslighting" - the manipulative technique used by sociopaths, narcissists, and others - offering practical strategies to cope and break free.
He's the charmer - the witty, confident, but overly controlling date. She's the woman on your team who always manages to take credit for your good work. He's the neighbor who swears you've been putting your garbage into his trash cans, the politician who can never admit to a mistake. Gaslighters are master controllers and manipulators, often challenging your very sense of reality. Whether it's a spouse, parent, coworker, or friend, gaslighters distort the truth - by lying, withholding, triangulation, and more - making their victims question their own reality and sanity. Dr. Stephanie Sarkis delves into this hidden manipulation technique, covering gaslighting in every life scenario, sharing:
- Why gaslighters seem so "normal" at first
- Warning signs and examples
- Gaslighter "red flags" on a first date
- Practical strategies for coping
- How to co-parent with a gaslighter
- How to protect yourself from a gaslighter at work
- How to walk away and rebuild your life
With clear-eyed wisdom and empathy, Dr. Sarkis not only helps you determine if you are being victimized by a gaslighter - she gives you the tools to break free and heal.
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In How to Have Impossible Conversations, Peter Boghossian and James Lindsay guide you through the straightforward, practical, conversational techniques necessary for every successful conversation—whether the issue is climate change, religious faith, gender identity, race, poverty, immigration, or gun control. Boghossian and Lindsay teach the subtle art of instilling doubts and opening minds.
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Important Skills Spoiled By Author Opinions
- By Robin on 02-27-20
By: Peter Boghossian, and others
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The Secret to Attracting Money
- By: Joe Vitale
- Narrated by: Joe Vitale
- Length: 6 hrs and 8 mins
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The potential to attract money and create abundant wealth doesn't reside in your job, your circumstances, or even the economy. It resides within you. Your mind is equipped with the natural ability to attract as much money as you want and need - at anytime, anyplace, in any financial climate, without struggle. You just have to know how to trigger it.
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What's blocking your from wealth?
- By Croix on 10-18-17
By: Joe Vitale
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Against Empathy
- The Case for Rational Compassion
- By: Paul Bloom
- Narrated by: Karen Cass
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
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Most people, including many policy makers, activists, scientists, and philosophers, have encouraged us to be more empathetic - to feel the pain and pleasure of others. Yale researcher and author Paul Bloom argues that this is a mistake. Far from leading us to improve the lives of others, empathy is a capricious and irrational emotion that appeals to our narrow prejudices. It muddles our judgment and often leads to cruelty. We are at our best when we are smart enough not to rely on it and draw upon a more distanced compassion.
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Starts strong, fizzles out.
- By Tristan on 04-04-17
By: Paul Bloom
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Shorter
- Work Better, Smarter, and Less-Here's How
- By: Alex Soojung-Kim Pang
- Narrated by: Alex Soojung-Kim Pang
- Length: 7 hrs and 53 mins
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Shorter tells the story of entrepreneurs and leaders all over the world who have discovered how to shrink the workweek without cutting salaries or sacrificing productivity or revenues. They show that by reducing distractions, eliminating inefficiencies, and creating time for high-quality focus and collaboration, four-day workweeks can boost recruitment and retention, make leaders more thoughtful and companies more sustainable, and improve work-life balance.
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Good premise that should be 40% shorter
- By Nicholas on 09-23-21
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Master of None
- How a Jack-of-All-Trades Can Still Reach the Top
- By: Clifford Hudson
- Narrated by: Clifford Hudson
- Length: 5 hrs and 2 mins
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Most people don't need to be experts in their field. Yes, the successful know more than the average person about a particular topic, and they often possess a better-than-average ability with a particular skill set; but not everyone who is successful is an expert, he makes clear. And yet we continue to deeply value the expertise ideal. In Master of None, Hudson turns expertise on its head and shows that by embracing variety and becoming more versatile, anyone can succeed and become more open to different opportunities in life.
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Not great, not bad
- By Brian Sachetta on 01-27-21
By: Clifford Hudson
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The Power of Neurodiversity
- Unleashing the Advantages of Your Differently Wired Brain
- By: Thomas Armstrong PhD
- Narrated by: Mike Lenz
- Length: 7 hrs and 31 mins
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From ADHD and dyslexia to autism, the number of diagnosis categories listed by the American Psychiatric Association has tripled in the last fifty years. With so many affected, it is time to revisit our perceptions of people with disabilities. Psychologist and educator Thomas Armstrong illuminates a new understanding of neuropsychological disorders. He argues that if they are a part of the natural diversity of the human brain, they cannot simply be defined as illnesses. Armstrong explores the evolutionary advantages, special skills, and other positive dimensions of these conditions.
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A Step in the Right Direction
- By Rowan Mendoza on 11-03-21
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Healing from Toxic Relationships
- 10 Essential Steps to Recover from Gaslighting, Narcissism, and Emotional Abuse
- By: Stephanie Moulton Sarkis PhD
- Narrated by: Suehyla El-Attar, Stephanie Moulton Sarkis PhD
- Length: 7 hrs and 43 mins
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Surviving and escaping a toxic or abusive relationship can often only be part of the struggle. Long after, survivors often struggle to heal; your self‑esteem may be damaged, you may feel rage and betrayal, and you may punish and/or blame yourself. The author of Gaslighting and specialist in toxic behavior, narcissistic abuse, and personality disorders, Dr. Stephanie Sarkis has seen it all—and she is here to help you understand how to move forward.
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Made sense
- By Amanda on 10-07-23
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Talk to Me
- How to Ask Better Questions, Get Better Answers, and Interview Anyone like a Pro
- By: Dean Nelson
- Narrated by: Michael David Axtell
- Length: 10 hrs and 9 mins
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From respected journalist, professor, and founder of the Writer's Symposium by the Sea, an audiobook that demystifies the art and science of interviewing, in the vein of On Writing Well or How to Read Literature like a Professor. Nelson walks listeners through each step of the journey from deciding whom to interview and structuring questions, to the nitty-gritty of how to use a recording device and effective note-taking strategies, to the ethical dilemmas of interviewing people you love (and loathe).
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Not just for journalist;great for Salespeople also
- By Eric D. Knowles on 03-28-19
By: Dean Nelson
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This Idea Is Brilliant
- Lost, Overlooked, and Underappreciated Scientific Concepts Everyone Should Know
- By: John Brockman
- Narrated by: Cassandra Campbell, Charles Constant
- Length: 16 hrs and 11 mins
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As science informs public policy, decision making, and so many aspects of our everyday lives, a scientifically literate society is crucial. In that spirit, Edge.org publisher and author of Know This, John Brockman, asks 206 of the world's most brilliant minds the 2017 Edge Question: What scientific term or concept ought to be more widely known?
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Condensed Brilliance in Digestable Chunks
- By Andrew on 02-15-18
By: John Brockman
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How We Change
- (And Ten Reasons Why We Don't)
- By: Ross Ellenhorn
- Narrated by: Nathan Agin
- Length: 11 hrs and 9 mins
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We all have something we want to change about ourselves. But whether it's quitting smoking, losing weight, or breaking some common bad habit or negative behavior pattern, we feel a sense of failure when we don’t succeed. This often sets off a cascade of negative feelings and discouragement, making it even harder to change. The voice in our head tells us: Why bother.
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Amazing! A must listen
- By greygreen on 03-26-21
By: Ross Ellenhorn
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Over the Top
- A Raw Journey to Self-Love
- By: Jonathan Van Ness
- Narrated by: Jonathan Van Ness
- Length: 5 hrs and 50 mins
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A laugh-and-cry-out-loud memoir from the beloved star of Netflix’s Queer Eye, Jonathan Van Ness, sharing never-before-told, deeply personal stories of growing up gay, transforming pain into positivity, and embracing what makes you gorgeously different.
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Everything I knew it would be and more.
- By Cookie2703 on 09-24-19
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Everything Beautiful in Its Time
- Seasons of Love and Loss
- By: Jenna Bush Hager
- Narrated by: Jenna Bush Hager
- Length: 5 hrs and 1 min
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Now the mother of three young children, Jenna pays homage to her grandparents in this collection of heartwarming, intimate personal essays. Filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable stories, Everything Beautiful in Its Time captures the joyous and bittersweet nature of life itself. Jenna reflects on the single year in which she and her family lost Barbara and George H. W. Bush, and Jenna Welch. Jenna reveals how they navigated this difficult period with grace, faith, and nostalgic humor, uplifted by their grandparents' sage advice and incomparable spirits.
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A True Love Story
- By Unglaza on 09-12-20
By: Jenna Bush Hager
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The F*ck It Diet
- Eating Should Be Easy
- By: Caroline Dooner
- Narrated by: Caroline Dooner
- Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
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From comedian and ex-diet junkie Caroline Dooner, an inspirational guide that will help you stop dieting, reboot your relationship with food, and regain your personal power. Our bodies are hardwired against dieting. But each time our diets fail, instead of considering that maybe our ridiculously low-carb diet is the problem, we wonder what’s wrong with us.
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I cannot believe this actually got published
- By w49859845 on 03-02-20
By: Caroline Dooner
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Little Things
- Why You Really Should Sweat the Small Stuff
- By: Andy Andrews
- Narrated by: Andy Andrews
- Length: 4 hrs and 24 mins
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The Little Things embodies Andy Andrews' own approach to life and work, detailing for the first time some of the exclusive material that he uses to teach and coach some of the most successful corporations, teams, and individuals around the world. In his unique humorous style, Andy shows how people succeed by actually going against the modern adage "don't sweat the small stuff". By contrast, Andy proves that it is in concentrating on the smaller things that we add value and margin.
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A homerun for Andy!!
- By JustDisGuy on 03-11-17
By: Andy Andrews
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Chapter 5 changed my life.
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This book is life changing (rare for me to say)
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Truly helpful. I’ll probably read it again.
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So when I had an assumption that something was off I began to call and worn my mom that he might call her and tell her lies because ro was planning to leave him little did I know he had already got to her and my aunt told them he’s worried about and scared to leave me alone with our kids. Smh my mom had just found out that she had Leukemia and was going through chemo at the time so I was doing everything in my power not to drag her into this stress her out knowing it and we didn’t have anybody else but so I broke down and called her she started telling me I was delusional I need to get help go to rehab and then I’m not thinking straight. Smh I could not believe this and felt defeated because he had been doing this for a while now and I never thought this to happen I felt I was in a movie when the plot switches and you weren’t expecting it and then the rest of the movie began time fall into place and it just gets more shocking Th we more you think back how it was happening when did they do this. He even ha sky sister turn against me. I had planned to go to a shelter and leave him the apartment with last month rent paid. I made the mistake of trying to be civil for out kids sake and he already turned my family against me no one was answering my calls. There was a coworker that even gave me the idea to go to the shelter and she was coming to pick me up and take me when he stopped her in the when she pulled up yelled and cussed her out telling her she’s helping me take the kids from me and he got a restraining order on me didn’t know this until he was beginning to scare me and the kids and was being unpredictable telling me I’m never going to see my kids again and he’s going to get custody i called the cops to help me remove him for the apartment as he was begging to show anger and I didn’t know what else to do. The cops case and served me with a restraining order he went and placed on me earlier that day an the cops said I need to stay to myself and not threaten him or they’ll come back to arrest me. I was still getting what felt like at the time punched in the stomach by his continuous betrayal. I could not let him have the chance to lie and say I was threatening him it didn’t have to be true he wanted to control me with it and thought he could. I went and got a Uber with my kids and got a restraining order on him the same commissioner was there that approved his order but she said he was acting weird and that she was not sure about his story and when she read my statement she felt bad and apologized to me she felt manipulated by him because he seems to be so upset and its not a good feeling when you realize someone had just played with your kindness and you fell violated by them it’s not her fault he did it to me but we went to court and he had letters from my aunt and sister saying I have been an using drugs and I’m unstable that he’s just trying to help me and I keep refusing his help. I’m crazy. The judge did not fall for his actions and rules in my favor he was not expecting that at all he went in court with the intent of getting my kids taken and told my family I was going to have my kids taken from by the judge and they were so confused when that wasn’t not what happened. My mom and ain’t lives in Texas far from where I live. They didn’t know what and resulted in cutting off communication with both of us because it became too much for them didn’t knew what was true or false. He does that well. I don’t believe in going to anyone and bad mouth him or dragging others into our problems but that gave him a wide window to manipulate my family and friends to not even answer or help me anymore and came to the apartment crying an saying he is done hurting each other that he wants to be with his family he loves me but I was in the very bad place and I felt like everyone had turned on me I felt betrayed by my family and he was once again back on my life knowing I now have no one left I j ugh st left my job because I was planning to be at the shelter not knowing anything about them or how they work. I had our 3 kids I hadn’t been on my own sense I was 19 and pregnant with our first son. And had no one in my life but him and he is a good dad just not a good person I made the worst mistake of my life and fell victim to him once again!
No one was giving me any advice. He called cps on me and she came when to question the kids and i. My daughter had said she was scared of him sometimes because he would yell a lot and she would hear him call me names. I did not know she was coming and I was in her site the whole time never bad mouthed him in front of her to have her say that. But we went to the shelter and some one called them with a new case against me saying I’m drugs and i took test for her she made a point to let me know she spoke their father and she said he sounded very concerned for my health he just wants me to get help and she felt the need to tell me she truly believes he loves and cares for me ( I was clean of drugs ). I wasn’t surprised by this and I felt gained up in by him using his ability to cry because he knows how he is wrong and he just truly was hurt he didn’t win the order in court so yes I’m sure even after everything u asked me abc my daughter. I confided in her to help when she was the only person that might be able help me to leave him with resources very much needed help to complete me leaving him for good and she took his side just like everyone else. I was scared and hurt but i had my kids with me and I could not let them know I was I. The verge of a break down and or so close to giving up that it scared me to think about how much I have lost and how my family chose to believe him over me never not nice did any of them call me to confirm his allocations against me they new where I was and that the thing she had stressed weren’t adding Up because it was all a tactic and he played them like pawn pieces in the game of chess then left the
Behind and was not Calling lien he did had Ben before. I’m very happy I had listened to this and to heard that i am not wrong about my actions and My feelings were not crazy but the author actually put this into words I would not have been able to and thought it was impossible. Thank
you so much for this I have not been able to speak about this or get over the trauma that had accrued then. You have changed my way of thinking. I’m always be great full for this but I have a slightly different kind I think I am may be dealing with a new hybrid species that people are not familiar with and that is not something that can be identified as only one of the mental health issues but all of them at once
I can not stress how much this has helped me
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it is a nice book
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Superb, verified understanding of gaslighting: how to recognize it, it’s deleterious effects, and effective strategy and tactics for avoiding and minimizing its devastating consequences.
HIGHLY RECOMMENDED.
The what how and so what? of gaslighting
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Life-Changing Information
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This audiobook is really good
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Goes Above and Beyond
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