
Free Looks Good on You
Healing the Soul Wounds of Toxic Love
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Christy Johnson
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Christy Johnson
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How do you let go of the pain when love turns toxic, when rejection, betrayal, abuse, or addiction have shattered your soul? Love isn’t supposed to hurt, but if you’re tired of the heartache, it’s time to leave the past behind and find emotional freedom in relationships.
The truth is...letting go of the past is easier said than done. Those that mean well may have advised you to pray harder or give it to God, but these solutions are far too vague. You probably know you’re supposed to forgive, but where do you learn the how? How do you forgive him for that and let go of the pain that has left behind a trail of brokenness?
To add to the confusion, forgiveness alone isn’t always enough. If you don’t change the mindsets and behaviors that make you vulnerable to manipulation and control and toxic relationships in the first place, the past has a way of repeating itself. And then you stay stuck.
It’s time to destroy the sting of toxic love and find you again.
Through the book’s freedom blueprint, you’ll discover eight soul-strengthening secrets that will empower you to redefine who you are and be transformed into the strong and fearless woman you were created to be.
You’ll learn how to put a stop to manipulation and control, set effective boundaries so men can’t take advantage of you and invite God’s presence to help you heal.
You’ll also learn:
- What bitterness does to your body
- How to identify mental handicaps that make you vulnerable to toxic relationships
- Why you should trust your gut
- How to spot yellow flags in relationships (they always come before red flags)
- How to change the way you talk to yourself
- How to communicate effective boundary statements so he takes you seriously
- How to find God’s strength in the midst of conflict
- How to renew your mind and rewrite your life script
Armed with truth and effective tools to apply God’s word to your life, you’ll be able to lay down your offenses and walk into your future with the intoxicating power of confidence and forgiveness. Whether he deserves it or not, you deserve to be free!
©2020 Christy Johnson (P)2020 Christy JohnsonListeners also enjoyed...
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- Bridget L Franz
- 07-12-23
Awesome listen
Was so blessed to listen to this book. Struck so many chords with me. Will definitely be listening again.
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- 07-21-22
Amazing book
I finished this in a few days. Hearing about her experience and the experience of others helped me to see hurtful habits in my own life. It helped me to set goals for my future.
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- Up North
- 03-29-24
Absolutely spot on
Wonderful book! Loved all of it. Great insight into life’s difficulties. Would recommend to any woman.
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