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  • Fat, Crazy, and Tired

  • Tales from the Trenches of Transformation
  • By: Van Lathan Jr.
  • Narrated by: Van Lathan Jr.
  • Length: 3 hrs and 57 mins
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (376 ratings)

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Fat, Crazy, and Tired

By: Van Lathan Jr.
Narrated by: Van Lathan Jr.
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Podcaster and former TMZ host Van Lathan Jr. writes a sharp, funny, and brutally honest, cultural critique of the unspoken obstacles and extreme anxiety that keep us from maintaining good health in America’s “wellness waistland,” explored through vignettes about his mental health and weight loss journey as a Black man.

A formerly chubby kid who self‑identified for much of his life as “the fat friend,” media personality and podcast host Van Lathan Jr. has struggled with physical and mental health his entire life. He was used to being his besties' wing man on the dating scene, the slack bench‑dweller at the gym, and his mother's biggest fan at every meal, especially whenever she served up her infamous mac and cheese with five different kinds of cheese. At 365 lbs, Van hated being fat so much, he found it harder than being Black! After dedicating years to improving his physical and mental health, with many ups and downs, in 2020 Van found himself in a shared slump with other Americans when the COVID-19 pandemic hit and the George Floyd video was released—suddenly he was surrounded by carbs galore, bingeing everything, feeling non‑stop exhaustion, and crippling waves of anxiety and depression.

Fat, Crazy, and Tired isn't just about Van's ultimately unsuccessful journey to an Instagram‑able body and zen; it's about the unspoken personal battlefield of attaining and maintaining what Americans deem as good health. He explores the real reasons behind our unending physical and mental health battles—culture, family, and the baggage of life—and demonstrates how we can better understand our bodies by better understanding ourselves. He takes it back to his southern upbringing in Baton Rouge, opens up about how being “the Black guy” at work at TMZ overshadowed his identity, and shares how he holds up to survive the madness.
“Detox” cleanses? Weight loss pills? Celery juice? No, thank you. Unlike the self‑help gurus that push you to go “all or nothing” and “keep it 100,” Van wants you to be happier and healthier at 50% without totally admonishing yourself to get there. Packed with double doses of humor Fat, Crazy, and Tired shares a brutally honest cultural critique of mental health and our weight loss obsession in what he dubs America’s “wellness waistland.”

©2022 Van Lathan, Jr. (P)2022 Legacy Lit
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Fan-F******-Taskic

I needed this! so good I've shared it to all my cousin!!!!! I want to live not just survive.

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good listen

heard his TBC interview and was excited to listen, it didn't disappoint. more like a good conversation with a friend than life advice and I appreciate that

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I really enjoyed the book

Van"s truth was relatable. I enjoyed his story telling, humor and realities of life. I look forward to reading/ listening to his next book.

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moved to pieces

it is the first time I heard someone say out loud exactly how I had felt since the moment I found out my dad died. this book was a complete reminder that one we are not along on our journey in life and that we will encounter simultaneously emotions in people that will provoke growth understanding and the empathetic parts of ourselves we need to feel alive. thank you

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Love Van even more than I already did!

This book was a touch of most Black men in this flawed racist america! Van's authentic, revealing challenges allowed me to feel a true connection. I've struggled with my weight, depression, the loss of your parent, living in a world that shows up in hate a disgust for you as a Black human being. Thank You, and I look forward to reading your next book. Congrats, keep on pushing for your peace we got yo back.

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Set aside political views it was good book

Don't particularly like the author views on certain topics but in life you don't agree with everyone on everything. on the topics of health and being overweight I can completely relate. That and his take on having peace really resonates with me.

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Fantastic storytelling

Emotional, beautiful and hilarious as always. Van delivered a fantastic book and it was a absolute pleasure listening to it in his voice.

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A much needed book about mental health and black men

What an amazing book. Full of humor, insights, and honesty. Van Lathan is a national treasure.

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Incredibly inspiring story

A story that through one man’s vulnerability allows you to take a look at your own mind! Each chapter allows you to examine a part of yourself through Van’s ability (and inability) to deal with the emotional toll of life.

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Great listen for anyone

I am an Asian American female living in Hawaii and found so much to relate to in this book. Love Van from the Midnight Boys Ringer Verse podcast. It’s a treat to hear him read his book. Thank you Van for sharing your real experiences - I learned so much about you that I wouldn’t have known from just hearing the podcast.

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