
Effective Self Regulation Strategies for Parents
Reduce Family Stress Through DBT Skills That Master Anger Management, Reduce Emotional Outbursts and Improve Parent-Child Relationships
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Shannon Snyder
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Discover how to transform family dynamics with actionable DBT and CBT methods for emotional mastery without sacrificing your sanity! Are you constantly feeling at your wit’s end, overwhelmed by emotional challenges both you and your child face?
Does handling your child’s outbursts feel like an uphill battle, leaving you exhausted and unsure of what steps to take next? Are you searching for a way to help your children navigate their strong emotions in a healthy way?
If you find yourself nodding along, you're not alone.
Many parents, just like you, struggle with managing their children's behavior and their own emotions. The truth is that mastering emotional self-regulation is a journey, not a destination, and it requires the right tools and techniques.
This comprehensive guide provides precisely that—a roadmap to minimize stress and foster a harmonious family environment through proven DBT and CBT strategies.
Here's a taste of what you will unlock inside this essential guide:
Quick calming techniques to implement in the heat of the moment
How to recognize and manage your own emotional triggers effectively
Positive Discipline to transform your child’s perspective and response patterns
Practical tips for handling public tantrums without embarrassment
Age-appropriate activities designed to cater to children and teens alike
Effective communication strategies that foster trust and understanding
Signs of anger by age and when to seek professional help
Bonus Calm Minds, Bright Future Workbook for Neurodiverse Children to help parents of children with ADHD, Autism, AuDHD, and ODD with self-regulation...and so much more!
Even if other parenting books have left you feeling short-changed, this guide was crafted to provide detailed, actionable strategies that empower you to tackle emotional challenges head-on, restoring harmony and unity within your home.
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- Hector J. Bordas
- 03-04-25
A must listen
This audiobook provided me with clear, practical strategies to handle emotional challenges within my family. The DBT and CBT techniques were easy to apply and made a real difference in managing both my child's emotions and my own responses. I especially appreciated the calming methods and communication strategies, which helped create a more peaceful and understanding home environment. A must-listen for any parent looking for real solutions.
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- Eric
- 03-11-25
encouraging more positive family relationships
There are a lot of hassles associated with raising a child. In addition to being personable, this book is well-researched and reliable in its assessment and suggestions. This book, in my opinion, may greatly assist a parent in creating a healthy atmosphere and example for the children in their lives by discussing emotional regulation and offering a variety of ways to attempt.
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- Dr. Ron
- 03-02-25
Really Helpful for Stressed-Out Parents!
I bought this audiobook for my sister, and it gave her exactly what she needed—real, practical strategies that actually work. She has struggled with managing her reactions when her kids have emotional outbursts, but the DBT and CBT techniques in this guide have been so helpful. The quick calming methods are easy to use in the moment, and the insights on emotional triggers have helped her parent with more patience. If you’re feeling overwhelmed and need a reset, this is a great audiobook to listen to!
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- Truthful
- 03-01-25
Family dynamics transformation!
Shannon Snyder’s audiobook was truly enlightening and transformative for my approach to parenting. As a parent constantly juggling with the endless responsibilities and emotions that come with raising kids, I found this book to be immensely practical and empowering.
The way Snyder integrates DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) skills into everyday parenting scenarios is nothing short of brilliant. The strategies for managing anger and preventing emotional outbursts have not only reduced stress within our household but have also strengthened the bond I share with my children. The book feels like a roadmap for navigating the complexities of family dynamics with grace and empathy.
What I appreciated most is its relatable tone, making it feel like a conversation with a wise friend rather than a lecture. Each chapter provides real-life examples and practical exercises that I could immediately apply, which made the whole learning experience engaging and effective.
I wholeheartedly recommend it to any parent seeking to cultivate a more harmonious family environment while nurturing deeper connections with their children.
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- Ellie
- 03-05-25
Clear strategies for managing emotions at home
This audiobook lays out real, effective ways to handle tough parenting moments, especially when emotions run high. The breakdown of DBT and CBT techniques makes it easy to understand how to stay calm and guide kids through their own feelings without constant power struggles. The section on handling public tantrums was particularly insightful, offering ways to respond without feeling judged or overwhelmed. A great listen for anyone looking to reduce family stress and improve connection.
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- Leil_
- 03-07-25
A Sanity Saver!
As a parent, I'm constantly juggling work, family, and everything in between. Stress is inevitable, but this audiobook has given me the tools to manage it more effectively. The DBT and CBT techniques are explained clearly and concisely, making them easy to implement into daily life. I've seen a significant improvement in my ability to handle stressful situations, and my relationship with my child has become stronger. The author's approach is empathetic and supportive, making the listening experience both informative and encouraging. This audiobook is not just a self-help book; it's a practical guide to creating a more peaceful and harmonious family environment. Highly recommend!
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- Dawn Morton
- 03-01-25
Finally, Practical Tools That Work!
I’ve read plenty of parenting books, but this one actually gave me tools I could use right away. The strategies helped me stay calm during my kid’s meltdowns instead of making things worse. I’ve noticed a real shift in how we communicate—less yelling, more understanding. The step-by-step approach made it easy to apply, even on tough days. If you struggle with staying patient and handling emotions, this is definitely worth reading.
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- Donesa Walker
- 03-03-25
Powerful and Useful Tools for Parents
This book conveys the importance of having an open line of communication with your children and provides real, practical tools that can be applied in everyday situations. The author’s advice and suggestions on how to prevent emotional outbursts from becoming a huge meltdown can be a powerful resource in creating a calmer environment. Parents can gain a lot of useful insights from this book. I would highly recommend it if you are looking for sound advice.
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- Mylady
- 03-01-25
Helpful Tools for Staying Calm as a Parent
Parenting can be overwhelming, and this book offers practical strategies to handle stress, manage emotions, and create a more peaceful home. The DBT techniques are easy to understand and apply, even for busy parents. I found the sections on anger management and improving parent-child communication especially useful. While some parts felt a bit repetitive, the overall guidance was clear and actionable. If you’re looking for ways to stay calm and strengthen your relationship with your child, this book is worth checking out.
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- The Fosters
- 03-02-25
Mastering emotions without losing it
I went into this book hoping for some practical strategies, and honestly, it delivered. The way it blends DBT and CBT techniques into everyday parenting situations made a lot of sense. I really liked how it didn’t just focus on kids but also addressed how parents can regulate their own emotions—because let’s be real, that’s half the battle. One thing that could’ve been better? Some examples felt a little generic, and I wish there were more real-life scenarios to make it even more relatable. If you’re a parent feeling overwhelmed by emotional outbursts (yours or your kid’s), this is worth a read.
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