Don’t Put That There!
How Pornography Has Corrupted Male/Female Relationships
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Dan Hamel
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J.M. Evans
About this listen
Every day, women especially, say things like:
"You want to put what, where?"
"No, you can’t record this!"
"No, I don’t want you to do that to me!"
"No, you can’t put that on the internet!"
"No, I don’t want to have multiple partners!"
Unfortunately, the perception of a happy sex life is being turned into a pleasure fest without any real connections.
Thanks to the internet and the acceptance of the porn industry, this has become very difficult to find.
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