
Differently Wired
Raising an Exceptional Child in a Conventional World
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Deborah Reber
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Deborah Reber
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Today millions of kids are stuck in a world that doesn't respect, support, or embrace who they really are - these are what Deborah Reber is calling the “differently wired” kids, the one in five children with ADHD, dyslexia, Asperger’s, giftedness, anxiety, sensory processing disorder, and other neurodifferences. Their challenges are many. But for the parents who love them, the challenges are just as hard - struggling to find the right school, the right therapist, the right parenting group while feeling isolated and harboring endless internal doubts about what’s normal, what’s not, and how to handle it all.
But now there’s hope. Written by Deborah Reber, a best-selling author and mother in the midst of an eye-opening journey with her son who is twice exceptional (he has ADHD, Asperger’s, and is highly gifted), Differently Wired is a how-to, a manifesto, a book of wise advice, and the best kind of been-there, done-that companion.
On the one hand it’s a book of saying NO, and how it’s time to say no to trying to fit your round-peg kid into society’s square holes, no to educational and social systems that don’t respect your child, no to the anxiety and fear that keep parents stuck. And then it’s a book of YES. By offering 18 paradigm shifts - what she calls “tilts” - Reber shows how to change everything. How to “Get Out of Isolation and Connect.” “Stop Fighting Who Your Child Is and Lean In.” “Let Go of What Others Think.” “Create a World Where Your Child Can Feel Secure.” “Find Your People (and Ditch the Rest).” “Help Your Kids Embrace Self-Discovery.” And through these alternative ways of being, discover how to stay open, pay attention, and become an exceptional parent to your exceptional child.
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Over her decades as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Mona Delahooke has routinely counseled distraught parents who struggle to manage their children’s challenging, sometimes oppositional behaviors. These families are understandably focused on correcting or improving a child’s lack of compliance, emotional outbursts, tantrums, and other “out of control” behavior. But, as she has shared with these families, a perspective shift is needed. Behavior, no matter how challenging, is not the problem but a symptom; a clue about what is happening in a child’s unique physiologic makeup.
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Groundbreaking
- By bug on 05-16-22
By: Mona Delahooke
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Your Child Is Not Broken
- Parent Your Neurodivergent Child Without Losing Your Marbles
- By: Heidi Mavir
- Narrated by: Heidi Mavir
- Length: 3 hrs and 5 mins
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An unapologetic, deeply moving manual for parents of neurodivergent children from Heidi Mavir, a late-identified, neurodivergent adult and parent to an autistic/ADHD teenager. This updated edition includes information on Pathological Demand Avoidance, Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, an interview with Heidi's son Theo and more. Follow Heidi's irreverent and brutally honest story of her fight to be seen, heard and supported, while swimming against a tide of parent blame, ableist stereotypes and the weight of other people’s opinions.
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F$&kery is my new favorite word
- By Alicia on 09-20-24
By: Heidi Mavir
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Bright Kids Who Can't Keep Up
- Help Your Child Overcome Slow Processing Speed and Succeed in a Fast-Paced World
- By: Ellen Braaten PhD, Brian Willoughby PhD
- Narrated by: Lisa Cordileone
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
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Do you find yourself constantly asking your child to "pick up the pace"? Does he or she seem to take longer than others to get stuff done - whether completing homework, responding when spoken to, or getting dressed and ready in the morning? Drs. Ellen Braaten and Brian Willoughby have worked with thousands of kids and teens who struggle with an area of cognitive functioning called "processing speed" and who are often mislabeled as lazy or unmotivated.
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Great Information
- By Terry R. on 09-11-16
By: Ellen Braaten PhD, and others
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Self-Reg
- How to Help Your Child (and You) Break the Stress Cycle and Successfully Engage with Life
- By: Dr. Stuart Shanker
- Narrated by: Robert Fass
- Length: 9 hrs and 2 mins
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Self-Reg is a groundbreaking book that presents an entirely new understanding of your child's emotions and behavior and serves as a practical guide for parents to help their kids engage calmly and successfully in learning and life. Rooted in decades of clinical practice and research by leading child psychologist Dr. Stuart Shanker, Self-Reg realigns the power of the parent-child relationship for positive change.
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Phenomenal
- By W. White on 09-28-16
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Divergent Mind
- Thriving in a World That Wasn’t Designed For You
- By: Jenara Nerenberg
- Narrated by: Tegan Ashton Cohan
- Length: 6 hrs and 37 mins
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A paradigm-shifting study of neurodivergent women - those with ADHD, autism, synesthesia, high sensitivity, and sensory processing disorder - exploring why these traits are overlooked in women and how society benefits from allowing their unique strengths to flourish.
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Provided no insight
- By Somebody on 06-24-20
By: Jenara Nerenberg
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PDA in the Family
- Life After the Lightbulb Moment
- By: Steph Curtis
- Narrated by: Chris Curtis, Steph Curtis
- Length: 7 hrs and 21 mins
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In this honest and open account of life with her PDA daughter, Sasha, Steph Curtis reveals the everyday struggles and explores the milestones of raising a child diagnosed with Pathological Demand Avoidance. This book guides you through the Curtis family's 'lightbulb moment' of recognising Sasha's PDA profile following her autism diagnosis at the age of two, their experiences of various education settings and attempts to access support, everyday life at home and relationships with family and friends.
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Willingness of author to be honest and authentic.
- By Darlene Le Fort on 02-25-25
By: Steph Curtis
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Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are at Their Worst
- Practical Compassion in Parenting
- By: Kim John Payne MED
- Narrated by: Paul Brion
- Length: 4 hrs and 28 mins
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When children "push our buttons", we find ourselves reacting in ways that are far from our principles, often further inflaming a situation. When our children are at their worst, they need us to be at our best - or as close to it as we can be. Educator and family counselor Kim John Payne, author of Simplicity Parenting, offers techniques that simply and directly shift these damaging patterns in communication and parental behavior.
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Real useful guidance for parents-a MUST read
- By Sarah on 05-01-22
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Parenting Without Power Struggles
- Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids While Staying Cool, Calm, and Connected
- By: Susan Stiffelman
- Narrated by: Susan Stiffelman
- Length: 8 hrs and 36 mins
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While most parenting programs are designed to coerce kids to change, Parenting Without Power Struggles does something innovative, showing you how to help your children awaken their natural instincts to cooperate, rather than employing threats or bribes, which inevitably fuels their resistance. By staying calm and being the confident "captain of the ship" your child needs, you will learn how to parent from a place of strong, durable connection, and you'll be better able to help your kids navigate the challenging moments of growing up.
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Highly recommended.
- By Nothing really matters on 10-13-13
By: Susan Stiffelman
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The Out-of-Sync Child Has Fun, Revised Edition
- Activities for Kids with Sensory Processing Disorder (The Out-of-Sync Child Series)
- By: Carol Stock Kranowitz
- Narrated by: Beth Hicks
- Length: 9 hrs and 3 mins
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The first accessible guide to examine Sensory Processing Disorder, The Out-of-Sync Child touched the hearts and lives of thousands of families. Carol Stock Kranowitz continues her significant work with this companion volume, which presents more than one hundred playful activities specially designed for kids with SPD.
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It seems like a great book but it should definitely come with a printable PDF. At least for the recipes.
- By Veronica on 02-09-23
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Raise Your Gifted Child
- With the Knowledge of How They are Special and Different. Help Your Gifted Child Excel by Learning Their Needs and Wants
- By: Cynthia Webson
- Narrated by: Susan Kennedy
- Length: 3 hrs and 37 mins
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Gifted children are as special as any other child. The difference is how they progress faster and need more challenges in their life. Most parents do not have the knowledge of what to do to help their gifted child excel to their fullest potential. We want our kids to be kids, but what we also want for them is to be the best that they can be while growing up as a child.
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hard to find resources
- By Sharon Ali on 01-30-25
By: Cynthia Webson
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Positive Parenting for Autism
- Powerful Strategies to Help Your Child Overcome Challenges and Thrive
- By: Victoria M. Boone MA BCBA
- Narrated by: Allyson Johnson
- Length: 3 hrs and 46 mins
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Positive Parenting for Autism delivers practical guidance that will empower parents to implement the techniques used by professionals to help their child with autism build essential social and life skills in an encouraging, affirming way. Raising a child with autism is one of the most challenging responsibilities any parent can face. It can be difficult to manage the commitments of daily life and also feel as though you’re doing all you can to support the development of your special needs child.
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Amazing
- By J. S on 02-02-20
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Sincerely, Your Autistic Child
- What People on the Autism Spectrum Wish Their Parents Knew About Growing Up, Acceptance, and Identity
- By: Emily Paige Ballou, Sharon daVanport, Morénike Giwa Onaiwu, and others
- Narrated by: Stephanie Mounce
- Length: 6 hrs and 10 mins
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A diverse collection of autistic voices that highlights how parents can avoid common mistakes and misconceptions, and make their child feel truly accepted, valued, and celebrated for who they are. Most resources available for parents come from psychologists, educators, and doctors, offering parents a narrow and technical approach to autism. Sincerely, Your Autistic Child represents an authentic resource for parents written by autistic people themselves.
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Excludes cis-gendered boys
- By Alyssa Snider on 11-30-22
By: Emily Paige Ballou, and others
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NeuroTribes
- The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity
- By: Steve Silberman
- Narrated by: William Hughes
- Length: 18 hrs and 46 mins
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What is autism: a lifelong disability or a naturally occurring form of cognitive difference akin to certain forms of genius? In truth, it is both of these things and more - and the future of our society depends on our understanding it. Wired reporter Steve Silberman unearths the secret history of autism, long suppressed by the same clinicians who became famous for discovering it, and finds surprising answers to the crucial question of why the number of diagnoses has soared in recent years.
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The long hard road to proper identity on the Autistic spectrum.
- By Lorijorn on 10-29-15
By: Steve Silberman
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Living with Intensity
- Understanding the Sensitivity, Excitability, and the Emotional Development of Gifted Children, Adolescents, and Adults
- By: Susan Daniels PhD, Michael Piechowski PhD
- Narrated by: Camille Mazant
- Length: 12 hrs and 13 mins
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Gifted children and adults are often misunderstood. Their excitement is viewed as excessive, their high energy as hyperactivity, their persistence as nagging, their imagination as not paying attention, their passion as being disruptive, their strong emotions and sensitivity as immaturity, their creativity and self-directedness as oppositional.
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Invaluable Read
- By Tammy Y. Chen on 01-21-25
By: Susan Daniels PhD, and others
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- D Hayden
- 08-02-20
loved this book.
I enjoyed hearing about these parenting situations and strategies . It's so easy to assume it's all your fault and it will never get better. Wrong!
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- Satoshi Tsurusaki
- 01-27-22
Thoroughly enjoyed this book
Raising a twice exceptional child is not easy. This book gives me the courage to homeschool if we need to take that route down the road. I enjoyed the story and performance and recommend it to other parents.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-03-23
Debbie Reber is my hero
Debbie Reber does it again! Masterfully written and eloquently spoken. Her podcast and this book has helped me so much raising my differently wired son. We need more people like her on this planet. I truly worship the ground that Debbie walks on! Well done to say the least.
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- A. Emre Ersahin
- 07-20-23
compelling journey into the realm of neurodiversity
"Differently Wired" by Deborah Reber is a compelling journey into the realm of neurodiversity, illuminating the path for parents and caregivers of neurodiverse children with deft precision and a tender touch.
Reber's prose shines, interweaving enlightening anecdotes with research-based insights. This book serves as a wellspring of hope and confidence, especially for parents navigating this complex terrain. Reber assures parents that they have the power to create a nurturing environment for their neurodiverse children, a message conveyed with palpable empathy and optimism.
The true brilliance of "Differently Wired" is its ability to shift perspectives - rather than focusing on 'fixing' these children, Reber encourages readers to celebrate their unique abilities and adapt to their needs. This pivotal message resonates long after the book is closed.
"Differently Wired" stands out as a transformative guide that helps parents foster a supportive environment for neurodiverse children. Reber not only offers invaluable guidance but also builds a community where understanding, acceptance, and love flourish. Through this book, she encourages us all to embrace neurodiversity, offering a fresh lens through which to view human diversity in all its splendor.
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- Amazon Customer
- 02-25-19
Inspirational
I related so much to Deborah and Asher' s story and found so much inspiration in knowing that tilting my perspective as a parent and leaning in, we could find the right path for our differently wired girl. I highly recommend this book to any parents who are struggling to find the right path for their differently wired child.
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-03-21
Love this book.
All parents of twice exceptional children need this book. It’s motivating and empowering. Deborah is so real too. I just loved it!!
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- Kristina M Ingvarsson
- 06-23-21
Mom to a 7 year boy with ADHD
This book was exactly what I was looking for. This speaks to the struggles of being a parent to a differently wired child and helps with coping with it. It gave me security in what I am doing for my son and encouragement to continue the fight. It helps you recognize what is not and what is. Much love for this book! Definitely recommended!
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- Marc B.N. Heim
- 09-30-23
EXCELLENT!!!
It makes me reflect on my own school-life, that of our kids, and all that we did wrong!
If only we had read this book 50 years ago…!!
Thank you! Am sure that many parents and kids will benefit from it now!
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- Kel
- 03-10-25
Differently wired
Good information to manage challenging situations and understand how our kids brain works. Also easy to listen and understand.
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- A.L.K.
- 06-19-20
Incredibly helpful for all kinds of neurodiversity
I'll admit this book sat in my library for many, many months before I finally tackled it, but I am so very glad that I did. At some point I had gotten the idea that maybe the focus was on twice exceptional, "2E," kids. I am happy to report this is not at all the case, despite the author's son's 2E status. As a mom of two autistic kids (and one tbd) with many varied abilities, but a lot of academic and other struggles, I still found the advice and perspective shifts immensely helpful. At the same time as my middle child's "ASD level 3" diagnosis, I was also diagnosed with "level 1" autism (formerly Asperger's), and I anticipate using many of the strategies in my own life as well as my kids'. Truly cannot recommend this listen highly enough. This is my first time writing a review, it's so good!!
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