
Bisexuality: The Basics
Your Q&A Guide to Coming Out, Dating, Parenting and Beyond
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Lewis Oakley
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How should I approach sex with someone of a different gender for the first time?
Can I reconcile being bisexual with wanting a biological child?
Identifying as bisexual can be a pretty confusing experience - navigating experimentation versus orientation, at times presenting as a straight-passing member of a queer community, at other times having people discredit your attraction to multiple genders. Lewis Oakley, creator of the Ask A Bi Dad column, knows every trick in the book - and he's here to answer your most burning questions...
Warm, chatty, wise and startlingly honest - this is your new bi bible.©2024 Lewis Oakley (P)2024 Hodder & Stoughton Limited
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I loved how he explores how these misconceptions contribute to the erasure and invisibility of bi people, leaving us feeling unseen, misunderstood, and alone in both the straight community AND the lgbtq+ community. Yet, while reading this book, I felt a profound sense of relatability and validation. The book doesn’t just answer questions; it helps bi individuals like myself feel understood and valued.
I am deeply grateful for this book and wish it had been available to me when I was younger, but at the same time, it came at the perfect time. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking to understand bisexuality better and for bi individuals who want to feel seen and supported.
I Felt So Seen
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Amazing
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