
Beauty in Battle: Winning in Marriage by Waging a War
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Jason Benham
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Tori Benham
About this listen
Beauty in Battle is not just another marriage audiobook - it’s a blueprint for how to energize your relationship, give you purpose, and draw you close to your spouse by turning the tension that divides you into energy that fuels you.
In these sections, Jason and Tori Benham share their story of how they turned conflict and quarrels into passion and purpose by leaning into their struggles rather than trying to avoid them. As a result, they discovered that fighting together drew them together.
Their message is clear - you don’t need to stop fighting; you need to start fighting...the right way.
When you and your spouse choose to no longer fight against each other in a personal battle but alongside one another in a spiritual war, the results are amazing as you begin to recognize your God-given purpose together.
Laced with practical insights and easy-to-follow steps, Beauty in Battle will help you discover:
- The number one relationship killer and how to stay away from it
- How to combat negative thinking toward your spouse
- The one key that will magnetize you to your spouse and your spouse to you
- How to win your love back when “you’ve lost that lovin’ feeling"
- Why there was a wedding crasher at the first marriage in history and how he showed up at your wedding too
We all fight. The question is, will you discover the beauty in battle? Beauty in Battle will help you do just that.
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- Philip Gehman
- 11-15-23
Great perspective! Great listen!
I was very skeptical of this book starting out. What a breath of fresh air though to hear some honest vulnerable life experiences from Jason and Tori. Definitely worth the time to listen.
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- Jet Cowan
- 11-17-22
A good introduction to healthy fighting in marriage
A good introduction as to how to fight as a couple and how to work together in fighting your battles. Lots of good Bible verses spread through the book and they did well telling story together. I would not say I agree with everything they had to say but there’s definitely a lot of good points in there that make it worth reading
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- Amazon Customer
- 03-15-23
Super!!
This book is amazing…Jason & Tori do an excellent job in reading it, telling their personal story!!
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- Jacob
- 10-17-23
Excellent marriage book!
Great book! Highly recommend. Definitely a great mindset shift that the Benham’s layout in this book that will profit any marriage.
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- Nicole Estes
- 05-12-23
Excellent!!
Not only is this a great resource, but the authors did a fantastic job narrating their story, giving this a more personal touch. Sincerely appreciate the content, the message, and the resources.
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- Gina Tsague
- 12-14-22
Excellent
Jason and Tori did a wonderful job weaving biblical truths around their story. I love books with practical application of knowledge and this book does just that. This easy and practical book is a great guide for anyone struggling in their marriage. It serves as a great reminder of Gods original plan for marriage and offered me new insights on how to wage war alongside my husband against the wiles of the enemy.
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- Victor Matus
- 02-10-22
Wow! What an encouragement?!
Thank you Jason and Tori, for writing this book. So much biblical truths, quotes, and stories that apply to our marriage.
I am encouraged to change my views of my spouse, to build friendship in marriage, to have this beautiful teamwork, and being a blessing to my family. I believe with Holy Spirit’s help we can do better!
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- Rosa Smith
- 05-25-23
Wonderful book!
I really enjoyed the book, especially tools that can help a marriage. One point was to stay focused on the positive things versus the negative things.
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- J.pope
- 10-25-24
amazing!
I have read quiet a few books, this one is one of the best books on marriage! transformed!!!
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- Sarah Schieber
- 07-31-22
Great marriage book
This is one of the best marriage books I've read....and I've read a lot! I highly encourage couple to read/listen and apply their strategies!
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