Self Change

Why is it so hard to change problem behavior - in our kids, our colleagues, and even ourselves? Conventional methods often backfire, creating a downward spiral of resentment and frustration, and a missed opportunity for growth. What if the thinking behind these old methods is wrong? What if people don’t misbehave because they want to, but because they lack the skills to do better? Or as renowned psychologist J. Stuart Ablon asks, what if changing problem behavior is a matter of skill, not will?

Resilience isn’t superhuman internal strength. True resilience is letting go of the “old way of doing things” and rewriting a script for success that gives you the fastest and best path from where you are to where you’re going. Backed by data-driven research, ReVisionary Thinking offers concrete strategies for blazing a new path to achieve your goal when the goalposts move on you. You will learn to acquire resilience through adaptive thinking, a three-part process involving flexibility, creativity, and openness to possibility.

This article is written by Tatum Hopper, a registered lifestyle coach, nutrition counsellor, and personal trainer. ANOTHER NEW YEAR is on its way. WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING ON CHANGING THIS TIME? HERE ARE some true strategies for recognizing what you truly can and cannot do. If you want the truth about how you can indeed change the things which are keeping you dissatisfied, this article will help you focus in on the important factors.

In Generation Dread, Britt Wray seamlessly merges scientific knowledge with emotional insight to show how these intense feelings are a healthy response to the troubled state of the world. The first crucial step toward becoming an engaged steward of the planet is connecting with our climate emotions, seeing them as a sign of humanity, and learning how to live with them. We have to face and value eco-anxiety, Wray argues, before we can conquer the deeply ingrained, widespread reactions of denial and disavowal that have led humanity to this alarming period of ecological decline.

Dr. Jeffrey Gurian shares in his book Healing Your Heart, By Changing Your Mind - A Spiritual and Humorous Approach to Achieving Happiness how he has learned through his own personal experience and years of study to overcome all the above and more. Burdened with a severe stutter until he was in his 20's and beyond, seemingly unable to be helped by therapy, and combined with the confusion of A.D.D. and a bit of O.C.D. thrown in, he was faced with having to deal with that for the rest of his life.

Unlock the Power of AI to Transform Your Habits and Achieve Lasting Change. In today’s fast-paced, tech-driven world, habits shape our lives more than ever. AI-Driven Habits: Unlocking Lasting Change with Technology reveals how artificial intelligence and cutting-edge behavioral science can revolutionize the way we build, sustain, and optimize habits for long-term success. Dr. Harvey Castro, a leading AI futurist and physician, introduces The FOCUS Framework, The CLEAR Model, and The 9-Week Habit Shift Program—proven strategies enhanced by AI tools that help individuals overcome bad ...

When we can live our lives first guided by what we believe and by who in our essence we are, it is much easier to know how to live and what to do. Riveted explores the importance of understanding your unique core values, and through 44 stories about real-life individuals who have embodied timeless values in exceptional ways, it helps you deepen your understanding of these essential values. In this way, you can solidify your own core values and lead a riveted life - one that is held together by purpose, passion, and principle.

"This book is a page turner! Once I picked it up, I couldn't put it down. One of the most interesting books I've read in a while." - Josephine, Amazon UK Review "Mekdela effectively dissects the intersections between race, colonialism, sexism, and fatphobia...this was so easy to read whilst effectively teaching me so much about the ways that fatphobia is ingrained into every aspect of society" - Charlie, Amazon UK Review "Well-thought out, well-researched ideas...like any good activist, Mekdela doesn't just throw out a tale or two, she offers samples, examples, and perhaps, a solution or ...

After 25 years of achieving what he thought were his dreams of being a headlining touring comedian and actor, Kyle Cease suddenly discovered that the belief that "when something happens, I will be happy" is a complete lie. With nothing more than an intuition, he decided to quit his stand-up career at its peak, and now - as a transformational comedian - he brings his one-of-a-kind self-help wisdom to sold-out audiences in his Evolving Out Loud Live stage show.

At age 35, Cami Walker was burdened by a battle with multiple sclerosis, a chronic neurological condition that made it difficult for her to walk, work, or enjoy her life. Seeking a remedy for her depression after being hospitalized, she received an uncommon prescription from an African medicine woman: give to others for 29 days.

This compassionate guided journal offers a personalized, constructive, and healing approach to managing your symptoms. Through the act of writing, you'll gain insight into the four elements of BPD-emotions, thoughts, behaviors, and relationships-and find powerful tools to balance your emotions, reverse unhealthy habits that get in the way of meaningful relationships, and move past feelings of shame and regret to cultivate self-compassion.

Companies everywhere face two major challenges today: getting noticed and getting paid. To confront these obstacles, Bharat Anand examines a range of businesses around the world, from The New York Times to The Economist, from Chinese Internet giant Tencent to Scandinavian digital trailblazer Schibsted, and from talent management to the future of education.

What if the only thing holding you back isn’t your circumstances, but your mindset? In Mindset Determines Success, author and transformational guide Asmau Ahmad takes you on a life-changing journey into the power of thought, belief, and self-leadership. This isn’t just another motivational book filled with clichés—it’s a clear, practical blueprint for rewiring your mind and redefining what success means to you. With compassion and clarity, she reveals how to identify and break free from the internal scripts that keep you stuck. You’ll learn how to overcome fear, silence self-...

This eye-opening book is for people who lacks self-discipline and that are ready to transform their lives by following tips outlined in this book on how to change your mindset and behavior to become a self-disciplined and highly effective person. Many guides are going to offer advices and suggestions on what you can do in order to develop self-discipline and lead your life, but many of them are not true, provides wrong information, and they are very difficult to understand. This book is second to none, and I advise you to read through it and act immediately, I am sure it will help ...

This book brings menopause out into the light where it belongs. It redefines what it means to be a woman in the second half of life and arms you with the guts and gusto to seize this chapter with both hands. Because your story is far from over. Despite what you might believe or what you’ve been told, the clock hasn’t run out. You have time… Time to explore… time to redefine who you are and what you want out of life… time to blossom into the woman the little girl inside you always dreamed of becoming.

Imagine that you live your entire life in one room. Inside are all the people with whom you have ever had a relationship. The room is infinitely large, and anyone you let in will be in your room for the rest of your life. Neurologists report that as far as your brain is concerned, the metaphor is real—memories and emotions continue to influence you, for better or worse, long after their external cause has disappeared. So who do you want in your room?

How can you best use your skills to help people and make a positive impact on the world? Are limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns holding you back? Are you struggling to find the motivation and focus to achieve your goals? Coach and author Lola Steven has dedicated her career to helping people unlock their potential and live happier, more fulfilling lives. In her groundbreaking book, Powerful Mind she shares powerful tools and techniques based on the latest scientific research and her coaching experience. This life-changing book is your roadmap to unleashing your full potential ...

Have you ever felt stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from the life you truly want? You're not alone. In Embrace Empower Evolve, Kendra Cooke shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming self-doubt, peeling back the layers of perfectionism, and learning to live authentically. With honesty and vulnerability, Kendra reveals the hard-earned lessons that shaped her into a successful coach, empowering others to reach their full potential. Through stories of disappointment, growth, and breakthrough moments, she offers listeners the tools to align their inner truth with their outer lives.

You set goals. You make plans. You tell yourself this time will be different. But days, weeks, or even years pass—and you’re still stuck. It’s frustrating, isn’t it? Here’s the truth: It’s not about talent. It’s not about luck. And, it’s not even about discipline. After interviewing 500+ successful entrepreneurs on my podcast, I noticed something shocking. The people who consistently win aren’t just trying harder—they’re playing by a different set of rules. They follow a series of specific principles and attack every challenge using a single, powerful method that keeps...

From Negative Thoughts to Positive Actions: A Guide to Transformative Growth is your essential companion for overcoming negativity and creating a life of purpose, fulfillment, and resilience. In a world filled with challenges, it's easy to become overwhelmed by negative thoughts and emotions. This book offers a powerful roadmap to help you break free from the grip of negativity and turn those thoughts into a driving force for positive change. Through practical strategies, real-life stories, and insightful advice, you will learn how to: Reframe negative thoughts to see opportunities instead ...