Healing Relationship Trauma

Research shows that attachment patterns—our patterns of relating to others, which develop in early childhood—affect far more aspects of our lives than was previously thought. Given how crucial these patterns are to how every patient relates to the world and to their own selves, how can therapists harness attachment to provide more effective therapy? Using accelerated experiential dynamic psychotherapy AEDP® theory and methodology as a foundation, the authors present an innovative approach that tailors treatment to attachment patterns.

After more than 10 years of research and study, Dr. Kevin Skinner's Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal offers valuable insight into why a partner's sexual behaviors outside of a committed relationship creates symptoms that match post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). This book provides an in-depth view into the lives of individuals suffering from trauma after sexual betrayal. Using his research data from more than 5,000 individuals who have experienced betrayal, Dr. Skinner outlines why betrayal triggers trauma and then provides the essential tools for healing.

Your past doesn't define you — carve a path toward self-awareness and self-discovery with this transformative guidebook on recovering from unresolved childhood trauma. Were you on the receiving end of hurtful events in the past and now feel unable to escape the painful effects of trauma constantly, every day of your life, no matter what you try? Are you tired of the internal battle between your past and your current self — the ones that exhaust and drain the life out of you just so you can survive and make it through another day? You're not alone in this struggle. Millions of adults ...

"The Trauma Bonding" is a compelling exploration of the complex dynamics of trauma bonding and the journey toward liberation. Written with compassion and insight, this book delves into the intricate web of emotions and behaviors that ensnare individuals in toxic relationships, offering a roadmap for breaking free and reclaiming autonomy and self worth. At its core, "The Trauma Bonding" shines a light on the psychological phenomenon of bonding with those who have caused us harm, often as a result of repeated cycles of abuse or manipulation. The readers gain a deep understanding of how trauma...

Drawing on the mind-body techniques of somatic therapy, The Healing Sexual Trauma Guided Journal offers insightful writing prompts to help you explore your emotions, overcome internalized shame, and heal your traumatized nervous system.

Break free from the chains of your past, reclaim your life, and embrace a future filled with resilience, growth, and happiness. Do you tend to avoid getting too close to others, because you have this overwhelming dread and fear that they are going to leave you? Or perhaps you gravitate toward unhealthy relationships, because it’s what you’ve seen growing up?

Self-healing through self-parenting, a concept introduced a generation ago, has helped thousands of adult children of alcoholics who are codependent and have conflicts in their primary relationships. Now Patricia O'Gorman, PhD, and Phil Diaz, MSW, authors of the classic book The 12 Steps to Self-Parenting for Adult Children and its companion workbook, expand the reach of that successful healing paradigm to anyone who has suffered from any kind of trauma.

Shadow work—the process of exploring your pain, trauma, and imperfections—is a powerful tool to help you embrace and accept yourself, even the parts that are difficult. Shadow Work gives you everything you need to get started with a clear explanation of what shadow work is, how it works, and how it helps you, as well as guided meditations and affirmations to walk you through your own shadow work. Written by licensed therapist Jor-El Caraballo, this book is the perfect companion for your self-exploration journey.

In Understanding Anger After Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI), mTBI or Concussion: Learn Symptoms, Triggers, Anger Management Strategies, Techniques, Therapy, Relationship Concerns, What Can Be Expected, Resources Are you or a close one struggling to manage anger after a brain injury? This book provides a comprehensive overview of anger, its impact on individuals with traumatic brain injury or TBI, and practical tips and tools to manage anger and other mood disorders. Written for TBI survivors, mTBI or concussion survivors, their families, health professionals and caregivers, this book will ...

Are the whispers of insecurity a constant in your relationships? Does the specter of abandonment loom large in your mind? Do you constantly seek validation? Fear being left behind? If you see yourself in these words, take heart—you are far from alone. Living with anxious attachment can feel like a never-ending cycle of uncertainty and self-doubt, casting shadows on relationships that should bring joy and fulfillment. But there's a way out. "Anxious Attachment Recovery" is your compass through the tumultuous seas of emotional insecurity. It's more than a book—it's a beacon for those ...

Those echoes of childhood memories—both tender and painful—shape your present in ways you might not even realize. Through patterns of people-pleasing, feelings of not being enough, or walls built for protection, your inner child speaks, asking to be heard and understood. Healing Your Inner Child isn't just another self-help manual—it's a heartfelt companion for your healing journey, offering both gentle wisdom and practical guidance.

She carried the relationship. He carried nothing. And now, she’s carrying the pain. This is not a book about anger. It’s a soft but honest journey back to yourself — for every woman who gave her all and was still left empty. If you’ve ever stayed too long, loved too hard, or silenced your needs just to keep someone from leaving, this book is for you. Inside, you’ll find 10 soul-touching chapters that walk you through the emotional weight of one-sided love and guide you toward reclaiming your peace, your power, and your worth — without becoming bitter or hard. ✧ Learn to set ...

You are not alone. In Betrayed by Work, authors Julia Erickson, MBA, and Suzanne Vosburg, PhD, bear witness to the stories of women just like you - and just like them. This book shows how women lost their jobs, describes what happened to them immediately and in the aftermath, validates women's feelings about being fired, and offers a source of hope and companionship to those of us coping with either our own job loss or the sudden job loss of someone we know or love.

Malignant Narcissist: His Roots of Evil NarcissismHave you ever felt like you were drowning in a relationship—trapped in a cycle of manipulation, deceit, and emotional chaos? Imagine being suffocated by a darkness so deep it feels impossible to escape, a darkness spun by the charm of someone who once seemed perfect. You’ve tried everything to break free, yet the more you struggle, the deeper you sink. But what if I told you that buried beneath your fear and pain is a force—an untapped power that could pull you out of the abyss and help you rise stronger than ever before? Malignant ...

Are you trapped in a relationship that hurts more than it heals—yet you still can’t walk away? You know they’re not good for you. You’ve cried, questioned, and convinced yourself to leave… yet something always pulls you back. This isn’t love. This is emotional addiction—and it’s not your fault. In You’re Not Addicted to Them. You’re Addicted to the Pain, Lena Hartley gently untangles the roots of trauma bonding, revealing why so many strong, self-aware women find themselves stuck in cycles of hurt, hope, and heartbreak. This isn’t just a book about letting go. It’s a...

By now, many of us understand that our childhoods play a vital role in our behavior, especially in our closest & most intimate relationships. BUT! This doesn’t mean these behaviors are now set in stone forever. In fact, by taking the time to understand their cause, uncover their roots & truly work through them, you can not only heal your inner child & anxious attachment style, but start living your best life. With the practical strategies, tips & exercises you can start your journey to FREEDOM.

The Love Cage: How Emotional and Psychological Abuse Controls You and How to Escape and Heal Quickly is a powerful and compassionate guide for anyone trapped in a relationship that looks like love on the surface but feels like silent suffering underneath. Written with empathy, clarity, and a deep understanding of emotional trauma, this book uncovers the hidden dynamics of emotional and psychological abuse, including gaslighting, love bombing, trauma bonding, and control masked as care. Through relatable storytelling and science-backed insights, author Sharon Brandon walks you through the ...

A masterful synthesis of relational and attachment theory, neurobiology, and contemporary psychoanalysis, Understanding and Treating Chronic Shame: Healing Right Brain Relational Trauma has been internationally recognized as an essential text on shame. Integrating new theory about trauma, shame resilience, and self-compassion, this second edition further clarifies the relational, right-brain essence of being in and with the suffering of shame. New chapters carry theory further into praxis.

Are you tired of feeling like your emotions control your life instead of the other way around? If you're living with Complex PTSD from childhood trauma, you know the struggle of overwhelming emotions that seem to hijack your relationships, career, and daily life. While everyone else tells you to "feel your feelings," you're already feeling them—TOO much, TOO intensely, at ALL the wrong times. This book is for those who don't need to get MORE in touch with their emotions—you need to learn how to regulate them.What You'll Discover: 🧠 Understanding Your Nervous System Why your emotional...

This is the workbook! You have to do the work to get results! Full of Q&A to help you recover from your toxic relationship. Includes full copy of “Don’t You Dare Text Him Back” Extended and Remastered!!! You deserve happiness, love, and joy—You can’t have those with an abuser! It’s time to break the cycle of abuse! Take back your life, learn the steps you need to take to be strong enough to rely on only yourself, and sever the bonds of a toxic relationship. You can let go. You can cope. You can get through this. And above all, you can heal, grow, and find real love when you’re...