Healing Codependency

Your past holds power over your present. Childhood experiences shape your beliefs, actions, and relationships more than you realize. Do you struggle with self-doubt, insecurity, or uncontrollable emotions? These are echoes of unresolved childhood trauma, staining your adult life like unseen residue on a canvas. But there's hope. This book offers a compassionate approach to healing your inner child while equipping you with practical tools for emotional growth.

The Iceberg Model is the core of the Thawing the Iceberg Series. As a unified model of addiction, codependency, and Adult/Child Syndrome the Iceberg Model provides a roadmap tracing the original pain of abandonment, the development of the survival skills that defend against that pain, and the sources of comfort & relief that become the addictions that cause even more pain. Maybe for the first time, see how it all fits together and what needs to happen to take this deadly combination apart.

Self-healing through self-parenting, a concept introduced a generation ago, has helped thousands of adult children of alcoholics who are codependent and have conflicts in their primary relationships. Now Patricia O'Gorman, PhD, and Phil Diaz, MSW, authors of the classic book The 12 Steps to Self-Parenting for Adult Children and its companion workbook, expand the reach of that successful healing paradigm to anyone who has suffered from any kind of trauma.

The pain of being cheated on is an emotional trauma that's incredibly difficult to endure, let alone heal from. The shattering realisation that your partner has strayed and given themselves to another is heartbreaking. You think your life is over, you doubt you'll ever be happy again, and you just want things to go back to how they were before. Perhaps you wish you could go back in time and do something - anything - to stop the affair ever taking place. Maybe you’re praying that you’ll wake up one day and this is all one big horrible nightmare.

Most people give so much importance to their relationships, whether it's with their family, significant other, friends, or co-workers. Relationships bring people either the greatest joys or the greatest challenges in their lives. One of the greatest challenges in any relationship is codependency - that feeling of not being able to exist without the other person. Most romantic relationships fall prey to this kind of challenge. In most relationships, one's existence and validation is needed for the other person to feel happy and complete.

Done Being Nice: A Book of Affirmations is not your average self-help fluff. This is for those who’ve swallowed their rage, smiled through abuse, and been told to “be nice” while being torn apart. Anger IS an appropriate response to abuse. This is not a book of spiritual gaslighting, toxic positivity, or pretending it didn't happen. This is for the truth tellers, the ones who don't gloss over abuse for appearances, because only the truth can set you free. This is your permission slip to burn the rulebook, reclaim your voice, and say the things you weren’t allowed to say out loud—...

Are you constantly seeking approval, bending over backward to meet the needs of others, even at the expense of your own well-being? If your answer is yes, then you may form part of one or more codependent relationships. The main sign of codependency is consistently elevating the needs of others above your own. It can manifest in various relationships, whether with a partner, family member, friend, or coworker. Codependency is a challenging cycle of give and take… and the only way out is through.

Are you a people pleaser and always feel the need to help others? Do you continue to hang on to relationships that cause you anxiety, depression, and sadness, even though you know you should let go? Do you have trouble setting boundaries? This is an addiction. This is codependency. In The Codependency Recovery Workbook, you’ll find everything you need to know about codependency and building healthy relationships. This is the only comprehensive guide that will take you step by step on this journey to a life without codependency.

Do you give and give—yet still feel invisible? You're the one who remembers birthdays, who shows up even when no one else does. The one who listens without interrupting, forgives without being asked, and carries everyone’s pain like it’s your own. You've been called “strong,” “dependable,” “so kind”… but inside, you’re exhausted. Because while you’ve been saving everyone, no one has been saving you. This book is for the silent givers. For the emotionally exhausted caretakers. For the ones who love hard but keep getting overlooked, used, or forgotten. If you've ever ...

This is my second book of affirmations. I am a life coach who specializes in helping wounded adult children from dysfunctional homes move beyond their childhood brainwashing, so they can manifest beyond the limiting templates they were taught to believe were real. My agenda is to create a movement among wounded others that allows them to understand that until they confront the templates that were created through innocuous brainwashing as children, they will live their lives unaware as to their true potential.

Lisa A. Romano escribió este libro para ayudar a liberar los recuerdos y las emociones de los adultos que han sido educados y vistos, y quienes tienen de codependencia, ansiedad, baja autoestima, autodeterminación paralizante y depresión. Romano es una entrenadora certificada en vida, una maestra de meditación, una facilitadora de talleres y creadora del Programa de Entrenamiento de 12 Semanas, y también una sobreviviente de depresión, ansiedad, trastornos de la alimentación y codependencia.

When you look around you, you see all these people happily in love and singing poems about the wonders of love. And then you are confused why you are not able to feel anything on those lines. All you feel is a pit in your stomach, a sense of fear and of always being on edge, but all you did was love, right? You did or are doing everything right, yet this “love” does not seem to be magical or does not seem to be healing you; rather, it appears to be destroying you by driving you crazy, and you notice that you have changed not for good.

This was a process level - how to - book about the inner child healing approach discovered by Robert Burney in his recovery from codependency. It is a follow up to his book Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls which has been described as one of the most transformational books of our times - and as taking inner child healing to a new level. This compilation of writings from his website is about healing.

Are you living in a relationship that doesn't make you happy? If you are also partially in the condition described, listen to this simple guide that will guide you step by step in understanding the situation. It will show you how to change situations that don't make you happy and how to move slowly but definitely towards fellowship and the love and authentic relationships we all deserve to have.

Much like gravity, the law of attraction is a natural law of the universe, and one that governs every interaction you ever have. You can only attract into your experience those things that resonate with you on an emotional and or vibrational level. It is no coincidence that women who marry alcoholics had alcoholic fathers, grandfathers or uncles. What a child experiences in childhood determines that beings emotional set point; their point of attraction.

Do you feel insecure, jealous, or anxious in your relationships? Do you have a deep fear that people will abandon you? Have you stayed in a toxic situation because you didn't believe you deserved better? If so, you may have an anxious attachment style—a way of coping with difficult situations or emotions that is often rooted in an adverse childhood experience (ACE), such as neglect or abuse. Fortunately, there are ways to heal this anxious attachment, and even transform it into an earned secure attachment.

Stop feeling not good enough, stop believing everything is always your fault, stop telling yourself you don't deserve to be loved. If this sounds like you there is a good chance you were raised by a parent on the "Continuum of Narcissism." Parents who either had to always be right, appear perfect, were self-absorbed, or thrived on power and control.

Do you feel like relationships are more of a burden than a joy? Ever catch yourself pushing people away, despite yearning for closeness? Are you tired of feeling misunderstood, or worrying that you'll never find a connection that lasts? You're not alone. I've been there, feeling trapped by my own fears and uncertainties. Does any of these situations sound familiar? You can't seem to meet the right person. You're not feeling what you should feel. No one compares to your ex. Something's missing for you. Your relationship's making you feel trapped. Your partners are too needy. You've gone off ...

If you were raised by emotionally immature parents, you know that unpacking your childhood isn’t easy. You were made to feel like your feelings didn’t matter, while your parent or parents’ feelings were of paramount importance. You may have been neglected emotionally, gaslit, or had your boundaries crossed time and time again. In Emotionally Immature Parents: A Recovery Workbook for Adult Children, you’ll work through all of these experiences and more as you unpack your childhood, and practice creating boundaries with your parents in the present day.

Do you find yourself constantly drained in relationships, feeling like you're giving more than you receive? Are you struggling to understand why you keep ending up with partners who seem to care more about themselves than about you? Do you often feel manipulated, unappreciated, or even invisible in your own relationship? Have you ever wondered if you might be an empath caught in the web of a narcissist? I know how confusing and painful this can be. You're not alone in this struggle, and it's not your fault. You're here because you're seeking answers, healing, and a way to break free from ...