Healing Codependency

The Iceberg Model is the core of the Thawing the Iceberg Series. As a unified model of addiction, codependency, and Adult/Child Syndrome the Iceberg Model provides a roadmap tracing the original pain of abandonment, the development of the survival skills that defend against that pain, and the sources of comfort & relief that become the addictions that cause even more pain. Maybe for the first time, see how it all fits together and what needs to happen to take this deadly combination apart.

Much like gravity, the law of attraction is a natural law of the universe, and one that governs every interaction you ever have. You can only attract into your experience those things that resonate with you on an emotional and or vibrational level. It is no coincidence that women who marry alcoholics had alcoholic fathers, grandfathers or uncles. What a child experiences in childhood determines that beings emotional set point; their point of attraction.

How to break free from a toxic relationship, and start reclaiming your sense of self, even if you feel trapped for years Is your relationship making you feel constantly on edge, emotional, and confused? If you're tired of questioning your own judgment, feeling manipulated, and struggling to break free from a toxic cycle, then The Complete Guide to Gaslighting Recovery is your roadmap to healing and empowerment. Imagine finally reclaiming your sense of self and setting healthy boundaries, see and feel yourself being confident, empowered, and surrounded by relationships that uplift and ...

Do you feel like relationships are more of a burden than a joy? Ever catch yourself pushing people away, despite yearning for closeness? Are you tired of feeling misunderstood, or worrying that you'll never find a connection that lasts? You're not alone. I've been there, feeling trapped by my own fears and uncertainties. Does any of these situations sound familiar? You can't seem to meet the right person. You're not feeling what you should feel. No one compares to your ex. Something's missing for you. Your relationship's making you feel trapped. Your partners are too needy. You've gone off ...

Breaking the Cycle is a direct, trauma-informed guide for individuals navigating the painful, often misunderstood journey of sex addiction recovery. Written by psychotherapist DJ Burr, this ebook offers practical tools, gentle reflections, and empowering truths for anyone ready to stop the cycle of secrecy, shame, and self-sabotage. Inside, you’ll find clear explanations of addiction and recovery concepts, daily check-ins and emotional tracking tools, guided reflection prompts, relapse prevention strategies, boundaries worksheets, and sober support planning—all offered in a ...

You don’t have to feel like your best isn’t good enough. Take back your voice and start leading a life that aligns with your own values instead of someone else’s. If you yearn to make a change and end years of abuse and toxicity, then you are already a step ahead of your abuser. Perhaps you question if there was something in you that attracted the narcissistic abuser to your life. Yet narcissists are attracted by strong, talented, empathetic people—and you were one of them. The good news is that they are powerless without you.

This is my second book of affirmations. I am a life coach who specializes in helping wounded adult children from dysfunctional homes move beyond their childhood brainwashing, so they can manifest beyond the limiting templates they were taught to believe were real. My agenda is to create a movement among wounded others that allows them to understand that until they confront the templates that were created through innocuous brainwashing as children, they will live their lives unaware as to their true potential.

You keep falling for the ones who need fixing. But who’s saving you? You give and give—your love, your time, your emotional labor—hoping he’ll see it, appreciate it, rise to meet you. But he never does. You tell yourself he just needs more time. More patience. More of you. Until there's nothing left. You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. You’re just exhausted from calling pain “passion” and chaos “connection.” This book is your wake-up call—and your soft landing. In I Wanted a Partner, Not a Project, author Eira Solen gently walks with you through the quiet ache of ...

Do you find yourself constantly drained in relationships, feeling like you're giving more than you receive? Are you struggling to understand why you keep ending up with partners who seem to care more about themselves than about you? Do you often feel manipulated, unappreciated, or even invisible in your own relationship? Have you ever wondered if you might be an empath caught in the web of a narcissist? I know how confusing and painful this can be. You're not alone in this struggle, and it's not your fault. You're here because you're seeking answers, healing, and a way to break free from ...

Through our guidance, you will explore and reintegrate aspects of your mind that have been shamed and repressed. Shadow Work teaches us to stop hiding from our true selves. By owning the truth of your feelings, regardless of how "bad" or "wrong" you judge them, you reclaim your power. Shadow Work is about confronting the truth and nothing but the truth.

You’re tired of being everything for everyone— and still feeling like you’re not enough. You say “yes” when you want to say “no.” You carry their emotions like they’re your responsibility. You feel guilty just for needing time alone. This isn’t love. It’s self-betrayal. In this emotionally powerful guide, Lena Hartley leads you back to yourself. Through stories, reflections, and gentle truth-telling, you’ll learn how to: Recognize the hidden ways you abandon yourself Break free from people-pleasing and emotional exhaustion Set boundaries without guilt or fear Let go of...

Lisa A. Romano escribió este libro para ayudar a liberar los recuerdos y las emociones de los adultos que han sido educados y vistos, y quienes tienen de codependencia, ansiedad, baja autoestima, autodeterminación paralizante y depresión. Romano es una entrenadora certificada en vida, una maestra de meditación, una facilitadora de talleres y creadora del Programa de Entrenamiento de 12 Semanas, y también una sobreviviente de depresión, ansiedad, trastornos de la alimentación y codependencia.

Do you tend to struggle in personal or professional relationships? Do you find it difficult preventing others from walking all over you? Or do you simply feel that people don't treat you with enough respect? If so, then it is likely that you have trouble establishing functional boundaries with the people in your life. This book will inform the listener of the basis of boundary setting, through visiting their past, healing it, and finally moving beyond. It will demonstrate how to develop emotionally by improving self-esteem, which is a necessity for a healthy personality.

Feeling addicted to a toxic ex or partner isn't about weakness. Being in an unhealthy relationship has changed your brain significantly, and you probably don't even know it. Hooked On Heartbreak: A Strategic Guide To Understand And Break Your Addiction To A Toxic Ex Or Partner invites you on a life-changing healing journey of understanding and transformation. After reading this book, your feelings for your toxic ex or partner will finally make sense. This book isn't just for those addicted to someone toxic, but for loved ones, therapists, and healers who support them. The authors are ...

If you were raised by emotionally immature parents, you know that unpacking your childhood isn’t easy. You were made to feel like your feelings didn’t matter, while your parent or parents’ feelings were of paramount importance. You may have been neglected emotionally, gaslit, or had your boundaries crossed time and time again. In Emotionally Immature Parents: A Recovery Workbook for Adult Children, you’ll work through all of these experiences and more as you unpack your childhood, and practice creating boundaries with your parents in the present day.

Does your loved one always rely on you for help, but refuse to reciprocate your efforts whenever you need them? Do you care so much about their feelings to the point where it impacts your life choices? These are just some of the signs that you might be in a codependent relationship. Other signs include disrespecting your decisions, blaming you for things that aren’t your fault, and making you hesitate to express your needs. Let this book help you recover from codependency, rebuild yourself, and live a life that is true to your values and beliefs.

Are you living in a relationship that doesn't make you happy? If you are also partially in the condition described, listen to this simple guide that will guide you step by step in understanding the situation. It will show you how to change situations that don't make you happy and how to move slowly but definitely towards fellowship and the love and authentic relationships we all deserve to have.

Had enough of relationships which are deficient in empathy? Had enough of people who are emotionally unavailable? In this audiobook, you'll learn why you're attracting them into your life and what to do about it. We'll talk about what codependents, empaths, and narcissists all have in common: childhood emotional neglect (CEN). We'll discover how to de-program from this faulty childhood programming to recognize and avoid toxic thinking that leads to toxic relationships.

When you look around you, you see all these people happily in love and singing poems about the wonders of love. And then you are confused why you are not able to feel anything on those lines. All you feel is a pit in your stomach, a sense of fear and of always being on edge, but all you did was love, right? You did or are doing everything right, yet this “love” does not seem to be magical or does not seem to be healing you; rather, it appears to be destroying you by driving you crazy, and you notice that you have changed not for good.

Are you a people pleaser and always feel the need to help others? Do you continue to hang on to relationships that cause you anxiety, depression, and sadness, even though you know you should let go? Do you have trouble setting boundaries? This is an addiction. This is codependency. In The Codependency Recovery Workbook, you’ll find everything you need to know about codependency and building healthy relationships. This is the only comprehensive guide that will take you step by step on this journey to a life without codependency.