Episodios

  • A Raw Talk with Dr. Stuart Fischbein- VBAC, Ultrasounds, C-sections & the Lies We’ve Been Told // S4E34
    Jul 7 2025

    Is hospital birth really the safest—or just the most profitable? Dr. Stuart Fishbein, OB-GYN turned homebirth advocate and co-host of the Birthing Instincts Podcast, joins us for one of the most important conversations we’ve ever had. With over four decades of experience—from high-intervention hospital wards to peaceful homebirth rooms—Dr. Stu brings truth, history, and a whole lot of passion to this explosive and eye-opening episode.

    We talk about the medicalization of birth, the overuse of interventions like ultrasounds and inductions, and why the system isn’t broken—it’s working exactly as designed. Dr. Stu explains the cascade of interventions, how VBAC risks are distorted, why informed consent is often missing, and why so many mothers feel disempowered. He also shares how the birth world is changing—and what gives him hope.

    If you've ever felt something was “off” about the way birth is handled today, this episode will validate that instinct. And if you're navigating your own birth choices, it may just change everything.

    Key Highlights:
    •  What really made Dr. Stu leave the hospital system after 24 years • Why most doctors have NEVER seen a normal labor • The truth behind the cascade of interventions • How fear and language shape a mother’s entire experience • Why the system isn’t broken—it’s just working for someone else • The risks of VBAC, explained clearly and honestly • The overuse (and hidden dangers) of routine ultrasounds • Why denying women food in labor is outdated and harmful • How the system rewards C-sections—and punishes physiological birth • What OBs are really taught in training (spoiler: it’s not about trust) • Why informed consent in pregnancy is often an illusion • How doctors who speak out are silenced or punished • What gives Dr. Stu hope for the future of birth
    About the Reclaiming Birth Conference

    This powerful in-person gathering brings together voices from around the world who are reclaiming birth, autonomy, and truth. Designed for parents, birth workers, and changemakers, the conference is about honoring physiology, challenging the status quo, and reclaiming your birthright.

    📍 Ontario – September 19 & 20, 2025 🌐 reclaimingbirthconference.com 📸 @reclaimbirthconference

    📍 Montreal – October 25, 2025 🌐 reclaimingbirthmontreal.ca 📸 @reclaiming.birth.montreal

    Connect with Dr. Stu Fishbein:
    •  Instagram:@birthinginstincts
    •  Podcast: Birthing Instincts
    •  Website: birthinginstincts.com
    Connect with Melania & Ally:
    •  Instagram: @rawmomversations • Website: rawmomversations.com

    Podcast Disclaimer:

    The Raw MOMversations podcast is for entertainment purposes only and not a substitute for professional or medical advice. The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own. Consult professionals for individual needs. We strive for accuracy but make no warranties. Any views or opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or contributors are solely their own and do not represent the views of Raw MOMversations, its sponsors, or affiliated organizations. Raw MOMversations is not liable for any losses. By listening, you agree to these terms. Thank you for tuning in!

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  • Home, Hospital, Birth Center: Choosing the Birth That Fits You with Rivka Cymbalist // S4E33
    Jun 24 2025

    Can birth really be sacred in today’s world? Rivka Cymbalist, longtime birth attendant, teacher, and founder of The Mysteries Birth School, says absolutely—and reminds us that physiological birth is not only possible, but powerful. With over two decades of experience and a heart rooted in storytelling and herbal wisdom, Rivka brings reverence, gentleness, and grounded truth to the conversation.

    In this soulful and inspiring episode, Rivka unpacks what it means to truly reclaim birth. We talk about navigating birthing choices, the emotional terrain of becoming a mother, and how to trust our instincts in a world that often tells us not to. She shares insight into “the mysteries” of birth, why not all OBs are created equal, and how sacredness can still exist—no matter where or how you birth.

    If you’ve ever felt pulled toward a deeper, more intuitive path to birth, this episode will affirm what your body already knows: You were made for this.

    Key Highlights:

    • What physiological birth really means (and how to access it) • Why understanding your OB or midwife’s philosophy matters • How Rivka’s five births shaped her work as a mentor and guide • The role of intuition in decision-making around birth • The deeper meaning behind “the mysteries” of birth • How to reclaim agency, even in hospital settings • Why birth is a spiritual rite—not just a medical event • The surprising ways fear can shape birth outcomes • How to stay soft and strong when navigating your birth plan • The beauty of holding space without judgment

    About the Reclaiming Birth Conference

    This powerful in-person gathering brings together voices from around the world who are reclaiming birth, sovereignty, and truth. A space for parents, birth workers, and changemakers, this conference is about unlearning, remembering, and rising.

    Catch Rivka Cymbalist and other featured speakers at:

    📍 Montreal – Oct 25, 2025 attune.studio/reclaimingbirth-montreal 📸 @reclaiming.birth.montreal

    Connect with Rivka Cymbalist:

    • Podcast: Baby Magic Podcast • Website: rivkacymbalist.com • The Mysteries Birth School: rivkacymbalist.com/the-mysteries-birth-school

    Connect with Melania & Ally:

    • Instagram: @rawmomversations • Website: rawmomversations.com

    For partnership and collaboration inquiries:

    Email: rawmomversations@gmail.com

    Podcast Disclaimer:

    The Raw MOMversations podcast is for entertainment purposes only and not a substitute for professional or medical advice. The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own. Consult professionals for individual needs. We strive for accuracy but make no warranties. Any views or opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or contributors are solely their own and do not represent the views of Raw MOMversations, its sponsors, or affiliated organizations. Raw MOMversations is not liable for any losses. By listening, you agree to these terms. Thank you for tuning in!

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  • Billie Harrigan - Birth Trauma Isn’t Rare. It’s Just Underdiagnosed. Why so many women walk away from birth feeling broken // S4E32
    Jun 12 2025

    Can you really heal from birth trauma? Billie Harrigan, traditional birth companion, educator, and founder of Birth Trauma Ontario, says yes—when we name what really happened and reclaim our stories. With over 40 years of experience, Billie has supported countless women through birth, postpartum, and the long road of healing after difficult or traumatic experiences.

    In this raw and deeply validating episode, we dive into the nuances of birth trauma, the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways obstetric violence shows up, and why so many mothers are left feeling silenced or dismissed after birth. Billie brings clarity, compassion, and fierce truth-telling to a topic that desperately needs to be spoken about.

    If you’ve ever walked away from your birth feeling confused, hurt, or like something just wasn’t right—this conversation is for you. You are not broken. Your feelings are valid. And healing is possible.

    Key Highlights:
    •  What counts as birth trauma—and why it’s more common than we think • How narcissistic abuse patterns show up in obstetric care • The physiological impact of trauma on the nervous system • Why validation and storytelling are essential to healing • How the current system erodes maternal instincts • The power of traditional birth work in reclaiming autonomy • Why women need community, not correction • How to gently reprocess a birth experience that didn’t feel right • Billie’s tips for choosing support that centers you • What recovery can look like—even years later
    About the Reclaiming Birth Conference

    This powerful in-person gathering brings together voices from around the world who are reclaiming birth, sovereignty, and truth. A space for parents, birth workers, and changemakers, this conference is about unlearning, remembering, and rising. Catch Billie Harrigan and other featured speakers at:

    Ontario – Sept 19 & 20, 2025 reclaimingbirthconference.com @reclaimbirthconference

    Montreal – Oct 25, 2025 attune.studio/reclaimingbirth-montreal @reclaiming.birth.montreal

    Connect with Billie Harrigan:

    • Instagram: @billieharrigan • Website: billieharrigan.com • birthtraumaontario.ca

    Connect with Melania & Ally:

    • Instagram: @rawmomversations • Website: rawmomversations.com

    For partnership and collaboration inquiries:

    • Email: rawmomversations@gmail.com

    Podcast Disclaimer:

    The Raw MOMversations podcast is for entertainment purposes only and not a substitute for professional or medical advice. The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own. Consult professionals for individual needs. We strive for accuracy but make no warranties. Any views or opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or contributors are solely their own and do not represent the views of Raw MOMversations, its sponsors, or affiliated organizations. Raw MOMversations is not liable for any losses. By listening, you agree to these terms. Thank you for tuning in!

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  • Doing Birth Differently: Melania’s Journey to Natural Confidence // S3E31
    May 30 2025

    Melania is just weeks away from welcoming her second baby—and in this intimate, emotional, and often hilarious episode, we sit down for a real, raw conversation about everything she’s doing differently this time around. From preparing Markus for big brotherhood to confronting her fears from her first birth, Melania opens up about how choosing a holistic path has transformed her mindset and confidence.

    Together, we unpack what it really means to prepare for a physiological birth, why education is power (especially for second-time moms!), and how postpartum healing begins with honoring your instincts. Whether you’re pregnant with your first or your fourth, this episode will remind you of the strength you already carry—and why your birth experience matters just as much as your baby’s arrival.

    Key Highlights: • How Melania is preparing emotionally and physically for her second birth • The differences between her first hospital birth and her upcoming midwife-assisted birth • Tips for easing your older child into becoming a sibling • The value of childbirth education—especially with a good doula • Letting go of perfection (and Pinterest nurseries) to focus on what really matters • How fear impacts instinct—and how to rebuild trust in your body • Navigating decisions like GBS testing and glucose screenings without judgment • Creating a strong postpartum support system before baby arrives • Funny, heartfelt moments like best friend birth bag must-haves, code words, and more • Why this birth will be different—and how Melania plans to say, “I did it!”

    Connect with Melania & Ally: • Instagram: @rawmomversations • Website: www.rawmomversations.com

    Podcast Disclaimer: The Raw MOMversations podcast is for entertainment purposes only and not a substitute for professional or medical advice. The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own. Consult professionals for individual needs. We strive for accuracy but make no warranties. Any views or opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or contributors are solely their own and do not represent the views of Raw MOMversations, its sponsors, or affiliated organizations. Raw MOMversations is not liable for any losses. By listening, you agree to these terms. Thank you for tuning in!

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  • Is Induction Always Necessary? A Raw Look at Hospital Policies, Pitocin, and Your Rights with HeHe Stewart // S3E30
    May 1 2025

    Are all inductions necessary—or even helpful? HeHe Stewart, doula, childbirth educator, and the powerhouse behind The Birth Lounge. Known for her unapologetic advocacy and evidence-based insights, HeHe unpacks the truth about medical inductions and empowers moms to make informed, confident choices about their births.

    Together, we explore the myths and realities around due dates, elective vs. medical induction, and why many women feel pressured or coerced into choices they later regret. From understanding the flawed ARRIVE trial to navigating Pitocin protocols, this episode is a deep dive into what every mom should know before walking into a hospital birth.

    If you’ve ever been told “a healthy baby is all that matters,” this conversation will open your eyes to why you matter just as much—and how advocating for yourself starts with being informed!

    Key Highlights: • Understanding medical vs. elective induction • The ARRIVE trial and why it’s problematic • Why hospital policy often puts ROI over maternal wellness • Bishop scores: what they are and what they don’t guarantee • The emotional toll of long, unplanned inductions • How Pitocin really works—and why “how” it’s used matters more than the drug itself • Recognizing coercive medical language and asserting your autonomy • Counting kicks: the free app that could save your baby’s life • What to do if you regret your induction experience • Why your next birth can be radically different

    Connect with HeHe Stewart: • Instagram: @tranquilitybyhehe • Website: www.thebirthlounge.com • Podcast: The Birth Lounge • App: The Birth Lounge (Available on major app stores)

    Connect with Melania & Ally: • Instagram: @rawmomversations • Website: www.rawmomversations.com

    For partnership and collaboration inquiries: • Email: rawmomversations@gmail.com

    Podcast Disclaimer: The Raw MOMversations podcast is for entertainment purposes only and not a substitute for professional or medical advice. The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own. Consult professionals for individual needs. We strive for accuracy but make no warranties. Any views or opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or contributors are solely their own and do not represent the views of Raw MOMversations, its sponsors, or affiliated organizations. Raw MOMversations is not liable for any losses. By listening, you agree to these terms. Thank you for tuning in!

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  • Spinning Babies - Changing Birth On Earth // S3E29
    Feb 27 2025

    Can Spinning Babies truly transform your birth experience? Join us in this eye-opening episode featuring Cris, The Passionate Doula and the only certified Spinning Babies parent educator in Canada. Cris shares her journey and expert insights into how simple movements, mindful positioning, and the revolutionary Spinning Babies techniques can prepare your body for a shorter, less painful labor. Discover the power of techniques like the "flashlight game," forward leaning inversion, and the three balances that work together to optimize your baby’s positioning in the uterus.

    In this candid conversation, hosts Ally and Melania explore how understanding fetal positioning can empower you and your birth partner to take control of the birthing process. Cris explains why having your baby in the right position of your uterus isn’t just a lucky coincidence but a crucial factor for smoother labor, and how these techniques can change the entire course of your birth—from preventing prolonged labor to ensuring a more comfortable postpartum recovery.

    Key Highlights: • Understanding the Spinning Babies Method • The importance of fetal positioning for labor success • Practical techniques like the “flashlight game” and forward leaning inversion • The three balances and how they create optimal space in your pelvis • Real-life stories of dramatically shortened labor experiences • Empowering birth partners through education and teamwork • Challenging the conventional, medicalized view of childbirth

    Connect with Cris The Passionate Doula: • Instagram: @thepassionatedoula  Website: The Passionate Doula

    Connect with Melania & Ally: • Instagram: @rawmomversations • Website: www.rawmomversations.com

    Resources:

    www.spinningbabies.com

    Home Birth VS Hospital Birth Episode

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    For partnership and collaboration inquiries: • Email: rawmomversations@gmail.com

    Podcast Disclaimer: The Raw MOMversation podcast is for entertainment purposes only and not a substitute for professional or medical advice. The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own. Consult professionals for individual needs. We strive for accuracy but make no warranties. Any views or opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or contributors are solely their own and do not represent the views of Raw MOMversations, its sponsors, or affiliated organizations. Raw MOMversations is not liable for any losses. By listening, you agree to these terms. Thank you for tuning in!

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  • Baby on Board! A Natural Birth Story Begins // S3E28
    Jan 30 2025
    Baby on Board! But… Who’s Expecting?!

    RawMOMversations is BACK, and we’re kicking off 2025 with a BIG surprise! 🎉 One of us has a baby on board… but who?! In this episode, we’re catching up after the holiday season and sharing some major life updates.

    Key Highlights:

    • A special pregnancy announcement—but we’re keeping you guessing!
    • Choosing a midwife & holistic birth—why this time is different
    • Preparing mentally & emotionally for an empowered, natural birth
    • The shift in public conversations around birth, parenting & holistic health
    • What’s next for the podcast & how we’re bringing YOU along for the journey

    Connect with Us: Instagram: @rawmomversations Website: www.rawmomversations.com

    For partnership and collaboration inquiries: Email: rawmomversations@gmail.com

    Podcast Disclaimer: The Raw MOMversations podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional or medical advice. The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own. Always consult professionals for individual needs. We strive for accuracy but make no warranties. The hosts, guests, and contributors share their own opinions, which do not necessarily reflect those of Raw MOMversations, its sponsors, or affiliates. By listening, you agree to these terms. Thank you for tuning in!

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  • The Politics of Parenting: Party Lines, Public Policies, and Parenting Platforms // S3E 27
    Nov 1 2024

    Parenting can sometimes feel like Politics- On this episode, we introduce you to our four unique and imaginary parenting parties: the Attachment Party, Free Range Alliance, Structured Society, and Evidence-Based Parenting Coalition. Which one are you?!

    We reveal how our parenting styles often blend elements from these parties and discuss how differing parenting philosophies can sometimes be as polarizing as political opinions. Listen in as we unpack how parenting choices are introduced through birth stories and how they can lead to judgment rather than curiosity and support.

    Key Highlights:

    • 4 Parenting “Parties”
    • Judgments in Parenting Choices
    • Parenting like Politics can be Polarizing
    • Building Parenting Alliances and Communities
    • Effective and Modern Parenting Principles

    Connect with Melania & Ally:

    • Instagram: @rawmomversations
    • Website: www.rawmomversations.com

    Podcast Disclaimer:

    The raw MOMversation podcast is for entertainment purposes only and not a substitute for professional or medical advice. The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own. Consult professionals for individual needs. We strive for accuracy but make no warranties. Any views or opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or contributors are solely their own and do not represent the views of rawMOMversations, its sponsors, or affiliated organizations. Raw MOMversations is not liable for any losses. By listening, you agree to these terms. Thank you for tuning in!

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