Episodios

  • It Ain't All Sunshine and Rainbows
    May 20 2025

    After Tom and Blake got into yet another fight about their (distracting) writing process, producer Sam Small hops on the mic to mediate and get to the bottom of their communication problems.

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    42 m
  • Can’t Get You Out of My Head Because I’m Not Insured
    May 13 2025

    Gay Devastation: Tom missed the Kylie Minogue concert because he had COVID, so, naturally, a conversation about all things healthcare and Luigi Mangione ensues.

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    42 m
  • The Operative Word is Cheney
    May 6 2025

    What was once the title of Blake’s radio show is now, unofficially, chapter one of the forthcoming memoir and the guiding question for this week’s episode. Words like “fairness” and “justice” were brought up, and incidentally so was “Cheney.”

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    45 m
  • Al Fresco?
    Apr 29 2025

    Blake and Tom take their relationship to the next level on a work-cation in Culebra, Puerto Rico.

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    43 m
  • Forks in the Road of the Multiverse
    Apr 22 2025

    If Tom hadn’t gone into politics and Blake hadn’t been mean to his dad that one time, what would’ve happened? These hypotheticals, along with other major and minor decisions made when brought to a "fork in the road” are investigated — but not like scientifically.

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    42 m
  • Back in My Day and Into the Future
    Apr 15 2025

    Blake's quest for more of Tom's stories continues. In an effort to remain on task, Blake asks Tom one question: if you could go back in time, what advice would you give to your younger self?

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    47 m
  • Boner Pills: To Spit or To Swallow Trauma
    Apr 8 2025

    Tom interrogates Blake on his history ghostwriting for conservatives, Blake interrogates Tom about always being f***ing late. They make amends though, and continue their candid conversation about sex, love, and trauma. What does this all have to do with communication? I don't know ask your therapist, they're just two nice gays from New York. Actually, I do know — listen to find out!

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    45 m
  •  Immediately to the Sex
    Apr 2 2025

    Some things to know about our two hosts, Thomas K. Duane and his ghostwriter, Blake Newhem Valenzuela: they've both got trauma, they've had one or two crazy sexual escapes, and they're both "hot and hung." Listen to the very first episode of "You Don't Say" as they two dive headfirst into juicy conversations about sex, politics, and personal secrets. They definitely do not get mad at each other — ever!

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    45 m
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