Summary

In this inspiring conversation, Shawn Lim shares his journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a queer individual growing up in a conservative environment. He discusses the challenges he faced, including bullying and identity struggles, and how these experiences shaped his path to authenticity. As a parent, Sean emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for his daughter and the impact of coming out on his life and relationships. He highlights misconceptions about the queer community and the significance of storytelling in fostering understanding and connection. Sean's journey is a testament to the power of embracing one's true self and the legacy of love and support he aims to leave for his daughter.

Who is our guest?

Shawn Lim is a queer, gender-fluid storyteller, parent to a neurodiverse daughter, and the founder of Human Algorithm, a one-person business built on the belief that stories create change. Shawn uses He/She/They pronouns.

Formerly a journalist and media editor, Shawn now coaches creators, solopreneurs, and founders to turn lived experiences into personal brands that connect and convert.

Through content, masterclasses, and public speaking, Shawn advocates for LGBTQIA+ visibility, mental health equity, and authentic leadership, especially in conservative societies like Singapore.

His work centers on one truth: if you don’t tell your story, someone else will.

Website and social media handles :

https://humanalgorithm.substack.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/mediumshawn/

https://www.instagram.com/mediumshawn/?hl=en

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-human-algorithm-podcast/id1794037498

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

02:42 Growing Up in a Conservative Environment

05:38 Struggles with Identity and Bullying

08:08 Turning Point: Arrests and Realizations

10:54 Finding a New Path and Self-Acceptance

13:28 Exploring Sexuality and Gender Identity

16:33 Becoming a Parent and Coming Out

19:21 Navigating Challenges of Gender Expression

22:01 Inspiration and Authenticity

24:38 Reflections on Personal Growth and Identity

27:47 Embracing Authenticity and Self-Worth

30:33 Navigating Parenthood and Neurodiversity

33:09 Understanding the Queer Community

36:56 The Importance of Authenticity

40:37 Building Human Algorithm and Personal Branding

52:28 Defining Self-Worth and Legacy

Who is our host - Nic Nierras?

🎙️ If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough… you’re not alone.

I created the You’re Worthless Podcast because I’ve been there—questioning my worth, stuck in toxic cycles, knowing deep down that I was meant for more.

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