It’s wedding chaos (as always) on this episode of Wedding Mayhem — and this time, we’ve dragged Lottie straight from the green room to co-host with zero warning. Joining us is the brilliant Ben Soyza-Montague: presenter, comedian, social media consultant, and fresh-off-the-altar groom. From flashmob proposals at Spitalfields Market to officiating his friend’s wedding with no training, Ben takes us inside the highs, lows, and total madness of modern matrimony.

We’re talking everything from stag do disasters (hello, surprise tattoo of your mother-in-law) to whether you really need a tux and tie to stand at the altar. Lottie opens up about planning three weddings thanks to COVID, and Sharon drops some unfiltered truth about grooms who just don’t show up. Plus, we dig into the emotional stuff — cold feet, writing your vows, and the moment Ben realised marriage was everything he never knew he needed.

If you’re planning a wedding, dodging one, or just love a good story about inflatable boobs and emergency speeches over dessert — this one’s for you. Hit play, grab a prosecco, and prepare for mayhem.

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Bride Met her Husband at her First Wedding… While Marrying Someone Else! | Wedding Mayhem Podcast

Ben Soyza-Montague

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Lottie

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Meet The Hosts of the Wedding Mayhem Podcast.

THE HEART & STYLE OF WEDDING MAYHEM

SHARON:

Sharon, the spirited owner of a popular wedding boutique, shares more than just trends. Her tales, from heartwarming to hilarious, offer a genuine peek into the bridal world. She’s here to inspire and ensure your wedding journey is as fabulous as it is memorable.

LAUREN:

Lauren brings a flair for fashion and a wealth of styling experience to “Wedding Mayhem.” With an eye for detail and a heart full of stories, she’s your go-to for all things bridal beauty and style. Her anecdotes are not just insightful; they’re a celebration of love’s stylish journey.

Bridal Bliss and Blunders: Wedding Mayhem
Dive into the heart of weddings – from stunning styles to hilarious mishaps.

SHARON & LAUREN - THE DYNAMIC DUO OF WEDDING WONDERS

Dive into “Wedding Mayhem” with Sharon and Lauren, the dynamic pair turning wedding planning into an adventure of laughs and learning. Sharon, the spirited boutique o...

This week on Wedding Mayhem, things get boxed up — literally and figuratively. We’re joined by the fabulous family team behind The Empty Box Company, creators of the beautifully handmade (and hilariously storied) wedding dress boxes seen in Bridgerton, Downton Abbey, and even EastEnders. From accidentally outrageous brides to a tortoise with a libido and a suitcase full of lace, this episode is as unexpected as it is entertaining.

Discover how one bride booked a registrar… but forgot to book the venue. Or how a historic veil turned bright orange after decades stored in a Sainsbury’s bag. We also hear how packing a dress isn't just about acid-free tissue — it’s about preserving memories, avoiding attic disasters, and sometimes, making space big enough to fit Colleen Rooney’s gown or her husband.

Expect real talk, plenty of laughs, behind-the-scenes stories from TV and film sets, and surprisingly useful tips on how to care for your dress post-wedding. Oh — and don’t miss the part where Turbo the tortoise escapes in search of a girlfriend.

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Bridgerton, Downton, and EastEnders? We Boxed Them All!

The Empty Box Company

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Meet The Hosts of the Wedding Mayhem Podcast.

THE HEART & STYLE OF WEDDING MAYHEM

SHARON:

Sharon, the spirited owner of a popular wedding boutique, shares more than just trends. Her tales, from heartwarming to hilarious, offer a genuine peek into the bridal world. She’s here to inspire and ensure your wedding journey is as fabulous as it is memorable.

LAUREN:

Lauren brings a flair for fashion and a wealth of styling experience to “Wedding Mayhem.” With an eye for detail and a heart full of stories, she’s your go-to for all things bridal beauty and style. Her anecdotes are not just insightful; they’re a celebration of love’s stylish journey.

Bridal Bliss and Blunders: Wedding Mayhem
Dive into the heart of weddings – from stunning styles to hilarious mishaps.

SHARON & LAUREN - THE DYNAMIC DUO OF WEDDING WONDERS

Dive into “Wedding Mayhem” with Sharon and Lauren, the dynamic pair turning wedding planning into an adventure of laughs and learning. Sharon, the spirited boutique o...

Welcome to the Wedding Mayhem Podcast – it’s a wild one! We kick off with some unexpected “boning” chat – not that kind – but the real struggles brides face when their wedding dress structure gives out mid-celebration. From busty bride dilemmas to secret dress hacks (metal boning from Amazon, anyone?), we’re sharing the unfiltered truth behind the seams. Plus, what do you do when you're pregnant and your dream dress suddenly doesn’t fit? We’ve got tips for that, too.

Joining us is a former wedding planner turned balance coach, here to save your sanity with her fresh batch cooking system – no freezing required! Whether you're juggling wedding planning, motherhood, or just life in general, she shares simple ways to prep meals without spending hours in the kitchen (and yes, we talk about the dangers of rice and raw chicken TikToks). We also dive into real listener dilemmas like whether you can go to two weddings in one day, and the emotional chaos of planning with family drama in the mix.

It’s chaos, it’s real, and it’s laugh-out-loud funny. Packed with wedding tips, relatable rants, and a few near-death stories (bee swarms and poop trails included), this is an episode you do not want to miss.

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Wedding Dress Disasters & Kitchen Hacks with The Balance Coach

Helen Hopkins

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Meet The Hosts of the Wedding Mayhem Podcast.

THE HEART & STYLE OF WEDDING MAYHEM

SHARON:

Sharon, the spirited owner of a popular wedding boutique, shares more than just trends. Her tales, from heartwarming to hilarious, offer a genuine peek into the bridal world. She’s here to inspire and ensure your wedding journey is as fabulous as it is memorable.

LAUREN:

Lauren brings a flair for fashion and a wealth of styling experience to “Wedding Mayhem.” With an eye for detail and a heart full of stories, she’s your go-to for all things bridal beauty and style. Her anecdotes are not just insightful; they’re a celebration of love’s stylish journey.

Bridal Bliss and Blunders: Wedding Mayhem
Dive into the heart of weddings – from stunning styles to hilarious mishaps.

SHARON & LAUREN - THE DYNAMIC DUO OF WEDDING WONDERS

Dive into “Wedding Mayhem” with Sharon and Lauren, the dynamic pair turning wedding planning into an adventure of laughs and learning. Sharon, the spirited boutique o...

Get ready for full-blown wedding chaos in this episode of Wedding Mayhem as we dive into the wild world of photo booths. From guests going topless to full moon incidents caught on camera, nothing is off-limits in today’s discussion. We’re joined by Liam from Shoot Me Photobooths, who shares some of the most outrageous and hilarious moments he’s witnessed behind the lens—including a couple who consummated their marriage in the booth. Yes, really.

We also talk about the evolution of photo booths, why they’ve become a wedding essential, and what separates a classy setup from a chaotic mess. Whether it's guests panicking behind the curtain or props turning a simple snapshot into comedy gold, this episode is packed with real stories that will make you rethink where to place your booth (hint: maybe not next to the toilets).

Plus, we touch on the highs and lows of baby showers, guest list politics, and managing expectations when planning events. If you’ve ever planned a wedding—or survived one—this episode will make you laugh, cringe, and maybe even change your mind about those inflatable props.

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We’ve Seen It All in the Wedding Photobooth... Literally!

Liam Swan - Shoot Me Photobooths

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Our Wedding Boutique
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Meet The Hosts of the Wedding Mayhem Podcast.

THE HEART & STYLE OF WEDDING MAYHEM

SHARON:

Sharon, the spirited owner of a popular wedding boutique, shares more than just trends. Her tales, from heartwarming to hilarious, offer a genuine peek into the bridal world. She’s here to inspire and ensure your wedding journey is as fabulous as it is memorable.

LAUREN:

Lauren brings a flair for fashion and a wealth of styling experience to “Wedding Mayhem.” With an eye for detail and a heart full of stories, she’s your go-to for all things bridal beauty and style. Her anecdotes are not just insightful; they’re a celebration of love’s stylish journey.

Bridal Bliss and Blunders: Wedding Mayhem
Dive into the heart of weddings – from stunning styles to hilarious mishaps.

SHARON & LAUREN - THE DYNAMIC DUO OF WEDDING WONDERS

Dive into “Wedding Mayhem” with Sharon and Lauren, the dynamic pair turning wedding planning into an adventure of laughs and learning. Sharon, the spirited boutique o...

In this episode of Wedding Mayhem, things spiral fast — from a bride nearly missing her own ceremony thanks to a venue mix-up, to a flower girl that’s actually a 6’4” man armed with glittery bum bags and “Kiss From a Rose.” But that’s just the warm-up. We dive into chaotic stories of family drama, unexpected ultimatums, and the true cost of planning perfection. Ever wondered what happens when a registrar shows up late, or when someone tries on too many dresses? We’ve got the answers — and the consequences.

And then there's that hotel room. Twelve used condoms. Blood. A ruined bed. A guest who won’t fess up. Oh — and his pregnant wife wasn’t even at the wedding. We unpack one of the most jaw-dropping post-wedding surprises we’ve ever heard, plus wild confessions from brides, grooms, and guests caught in the storm of big-day madness. You’ll laugh, you’ll cringe, and you’ll probably double-check your venue contract by the end.

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A Step-Mum Ultimatum, Two Sisters, and One Bride Torn Apart

Alex Evans

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Our Wedding Boutique
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Meet The Hosts of the Wedding Mayhem Podcast.

THE HEART & STYLE OF WEDDING MAYHEM

SHARON:

Sharon, the spirited owner of a popular wedding boutique, shares more than just trends. Her tales, from heartwarming to hilarious, offer a genuine peek into the bridal world. She’s here to inspire and ensure your wedding journey is as fabulous as it is memorable.

LAUREN:

Lauren brings a flair for fashion and a wealth of styling experience to “Wedding Mayhem.” With an eye for detail and a heart full of stories, she’s your go-to for all things bridal beauty and style. Her anecdotes are not just insightful; they’re a celebration of love’s stylish journey.

Bridal Bliss and Blunders: Wedding Mayhem
Dive into the heart of weddings – from stunning styles to hilarious mishaps.

SHARON & LAUREN - THE DYNAMIC DUO OF WEDDING WONDERS

Dive into “Wedding Mayhem” with Sharon and Lauren, the dynamic pair turning wedding planning into an adventure of laughs and learning. Sharon, the spirited boutique o...

Welcome to Wedding Mayhem, where wedding dreams meet inflatable chaos. In this episode, DJ Lee Russell & Sharon team up with Jo from Basically Balloons to unpack the wild, weird, and totally unpredictable world of weddings — from brides in white Crocs and balloon “nipples” to the surprisingly dangerous truth about helium.

They share unfiltered stories from behind the scenes, including a balloon delivery to a sex studio (with her dad, no less), brides who forget to change because the dance floor’s too good, and the growing trend of midweek weddings that feel just a little too chaotic. You'll also hear why DIY balloon arches might not be the budget win you think they are — especially if you're building them at 6am with a hangover and no help.

Whether you're planning your big day, working in the wedding industry, or just here for the disaster stories, this episode is packed with laughs, insight, and moments that’ll make you say, “Wait... what?” Hit play, and let the mayhem begin.

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Your Vows, a Nervous DJ, and Balloons Blocking the Fire Exit

Jo Duncton - Basically Balloons UK

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Our Wedding Boutique
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Meet The Hosts of the Wedding Mayhem Podcast.

THE HEART & STYLE OF WEDDING MAYHEM

SHARON:

Sharon, the spirited owner of a popular wedding boutique, shares more than just trends. Her tales, from heartwarming to hilarious, offer a genuine peek into the bridal world. She’s here to inspire and ensure your wedding journey is as fabulous as it is memorable.

LAUREN:

Lauren brings a flair for fashion and a wealth of styling experience to “Wedding Mayhem.” With an eye for detail and a heart full of stories, she’s your go-to for all things bridal beauty and style. Her anecdotes are not just insightful; they’re a celebration of love’s stylish journey.

Bridal Bliss and Blunders: Wedding Mayhem
Dive into the heart of weddings – from stunning styles to hilarious mishaps.

SHARON & LAUREN - THE DYNAMIC DUO OF WEDDING WONDERS

Dive into “Wedding Mayhem” with Sharon and Lauren, the dynamic pair turning wedding planning into an adventure of laughs and learning. Sharon, the spirited boutique o...

Welcome back to Wedding Mayhem, where this week’s episode might just be our most unpredictable yet. From unexpected medical emergencies and nipple Vaseline debates to emotional goodbyes and Baby Shower drama, we cover it all. Sharon shares her near-heroic journey through a sea of fainting runners, overheated streets, and tiger balm miracles. Meanwhile, Lauren reveals what it's really like being heavily pregnant, emotionally fried, and still trying to hold it together in public—barely.

We’re joined by returning guest Richard Ford The Communications Coach & Public Speaker, who dives deep into hypnotherapy, anxiety, and how brides (and grooms) can use mental strategies to actually enjoy their wedding day. There’s also a hilarious identity mix-up involving Mummy Pig, a running cape, and possibly the world’s most dramatic reaction to a tube of tiger balm. And yes, we talk about feet. A lot.

If you’re looking for laughter, honesty, and the kind of chaos that only happens when people stop pretending to have it together, this is the episode for you. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe—especially if you’ve ever tried to save someone’s leg while wearing a cape.

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Goodbye for Now… But Not Before the Nipple Story

Richard Ford

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Meet The Hosts of the Wedding Mayhem Podcast.

THE HEART & STYLE OF WEDDING MAYHEM

SHARON:

Sharon, the spirited owner of a popular wedding boutique, shares more than just trends. Her tales, from heartwarming to hilarious, offer a genuine peek into the bridal world. She’s here to inspire and ensure your wedding journey is as fabulous as it is memorable.

LAUREN:

Lauren brings a flair for fashion and a wealth of styling experience to “Wedding Mayhem.” With an eye for detail and a heart full of stories, she’s your go-to for all things bridal beauty and style. Her anecdotes are not just insightful; they’re a celebration of love’s stylish journey.

Bridal Bliss and Blunders: Wedding Mayhem
Dive into the heart of weddings – from stunning styles to hilarious mishaps.

SHARON & LAUREN - THE DYNAMIC DUO OF WEDDING WONDERS

Dive into “Wedding Mayhem” with Sharon and Lauren, the dynamic pair turning wedding planning into an adventure of laughs and learning. Sharon, the spirited boutique o...

Join us today with Dave Octave Celebrant. You might recognize him from Married At First Sight, featured Celebrant on E4's Married At First Sight UK and Netflix's Love Is Blind UK! With the most memorable Laura & Arthur " I Do!!"

He has also just been featured on First Dates looking for his forever love.

Not only is Dave a Celebrant but he can also sing and is an event planner as well! We delve into the world of wedding planning, doing vows an alternative way with freedom and love. We also answer your questions, do not miss the full episode out on YouTube or wherever you listen to your podcasts.

Contact Dave Octave:

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Boutique

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Meet The Hosts of the Wedding Mayhem Podcast.

THE HEART & STYLE OF WEDDING MAYHEM

SHARON:

Sharon, the spirited owner of a popular wedding boutique, shares more than just trends. Her tales, from heartwarming to hilarious, offer a genuine peek into the bridal world. She’s here to inspire and ensure your wedding journey is as fabulous as it is memorable.

LAUREN:

Lauren brings a flair for fashion and a wealth of styling experience to “Wedding Mayhem.” With an eye for detail and a heart full of stories, she’s your go-to for all things bridal beauty and style. Her anecdotes are not just insightful; they’re a celebration of love’s stylish journey.

Bridal Bliss and Blunders: Wedding Mayhem
Dive into the heart of weddings – from stunning styles to hilarious mishaps.

SHARON & LAUREN - THE DYNAMIC DUO OF WEDDING WONDERS

Dive into “Wedding Mayhem” with Sharon and Lauren, the dynamic pair turning wedding planning into an adventure of laughs and learning. Sharon, the spirited boutique o...