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🎙️ Part 2 of our conversation with Anna Skorobogatowa

What are the unspoken rules and emotional costs of life behind the diplomatic title?

In this episode, Anna shares the lesser-heard realities of being a diplomatic spouse, from relocation stress and identity loss to navigating unstable regions while parenting.

We dive into:

The emotional toll of raising children in regions facing political unrest or conflict

How introvert vs. extrovert personalities respond differently to constant transitions and cultural adaptation

The invisible labor expected from diplomatic spouses, often with no work rights due to visa or immunity restrictions

A fascinating study: “The Role of Diplomatic Spouses: A Bourdieusian Exploration”, drawing from Pierre Bourdieu’s theory of habitus, capital, and field

Support systems like IDCN and the Permit Foundation that advocate for dual-career couples

Why we need deeper, emotionally safe spaces, beyond surface-level coffee mornings, to feel seen and heard

Anna’s powerful reminder:

“You’re not the problem. This lifestyle wasn’t built with us in mind.”

Whether you’re a trailing spouse, part of the diplomatic world, or simply curious about global life behind the scenes, this episode offers heartfelt insight and grounded hope.

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