In this episode of the Twin Flame Truth Podcast, Elle Hari welcomes Alissa Dow, Alissa Dow is a certified Be With Your Twin Flame️® coach, to discuss the unique challenges faced by high-functioning individuals—particularly business professionals, caretakers, and parents—on the twin flame journey. Alissa shares her deeply personal story of initially resisting the journey due to skepticism and fear, only to find clarity and healing through Elle’s coaching program.

Together, Elle and Alissa dive into how the analytical mind, societal roles, and shame can deeply affect individuals navigating this profound soul-level experience. They also explore how the twin flame journey disrupts traditional goal-setting, logic, and cause-effect thinking, urging listeners to trust in their soul’s guidance and let go of resistance.

NOTES:

• Guest Introduction: Alissa Dow, certified coach and graduate of Elle Hari’s coaching program.

• Who Alissa Works With: Business professionals, parents, caretakers—especially high achievers and type-A personalities resistant to spiritual concepts.

• Alissa’s Twin Flame Journey:

• • • Initially skeptical and resistant
    • Tried psychics and tarot before finding Elle’s program

• Experienced immediate relief and reconnection after enrolling

• Common Issues Faced by Her Clients:

• • • Shame, isolation, confusion, inability to function in daily life

• Struggles with parenting, work, and feeling “crazy” or broken

• Impact on Type-A and Analytical Individuals:

• • • Journey disrupts logic, organization, productivity, and goal-setting

• Creates internal chaos that contradicts their identity and coping mechanisms

• Role of Shame and Guilt:

• • • Deep shame around not performing, being “off track,” or failing others

• Guilt from not being present for children, employees, or loved ones

• Shift from Mind to Soul:

• • • Journey teaches surrendering control and trusting the soul
    • “Being” vs. “doing”—embracing magnetism and intuition

• Ascension negates third-dimensional laws like cause and effect

• Final Messages:

• • Let go of shame—it keeps you stuck
  • This journey is your soul’s calling, and you are meant to walk it

You are not alone—support and guidance are available

“I felt like my world had just suddenly blown up... I didn’t want to admit I was on a twin flame journey.” – Alissa Dow

“The shame is the lowest vibration of fear-based energy—and that’s exactly what this journey activates.” – Elle Hari

“I became a coach because I knew there were people feeling as lost and miserable as I once did—and they need someone who gets it.” – Alissa Dow

“You’re used to thinking your way through everything. But this journey—your mind just can’t figure it out.” – Alissa Dow

“This is not a typical relationship. This is a spiritual journey unlike anything else.” – Elle Hari

“You can’t goal-set your way through this. You can’t organize it. It’s the journey of the soul—and your soul is infinite.” – Elle Hari

“People think they’re having a breakdown. But really, they’re having a breakthrough—their soul is awakening.” – Alissa Dow

“Every time I’ve surrendered and taken that leap of blind faith, I’ve been blown away by what the soul delivers.” – Alissa Dow

“Don’t let shame keep you stuck. You are on this journey for a reason, and it will bring you home to yourself.” – Alissa Dow

Alissa Dow is a certified Twin Flame® coach who specializes in helping high-achieving, career-driven individuals — including over-thinkers, go-getters, parents, and caregivers — navigate the emotional challenges of the Twin Flame journey. With a deep understanding of how overwhelming the process can be, especially for those juggling personal goals and family or professional responsibilities, Alissa offers personalized, truth-based coaching that helps clients shift from confusion and burnout to clarity, balance, and empowerment. Her approach focuses on restoring energy alignment and guiding clients toward magnetic reconnection with their Twin Flame.

🌐 Website: solaceandsoulstice.com 📩 Email: Alissa@solaceandsoulstice.com

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student Joe as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame.

Joe's twin flame is coming in more often and he is noticing a shift in their energy and how they are interacting with him. Elle reminds Joe that his twin flame is responding to his energy and helps him understand how he can use the interactions with his twin flame as a mirror to see where his energy is, identify back door feeds and distinguish where he still needs to balance more.

Quotes:

"The fear-based energy can be very deeply seated. In other words, you don't feel anything...you don't have any judgment surface level, but it is down there deep which could be the reason why she is feeling the fear-based energy here." (15:05 - 15:26)

"This is how the whole mirroring thing with twin flames works. That's a myth, you know, they're not doing exactly what you're doing and mirroring you like that. It's whatever your fears are, even if you aren't even aware of them, they're going to keep showing up until you become aware of them. So your twin flame is going to keep showing you whatever you have fear-based energy of." (19:44 - 20:08)

"The thing with the energy too, the focus, the attention has to remain on you...your fear-based energy will constantly pull it back and put the focus back on the twin flame but you can't have that. It has to remain on you otherwise where your attention goes, so does the twin flame's. So if you want the twin flame's attention on you, you keep yours on you." (30:15 - 30:42)

If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today. https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student Joe as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame.

In this episode, Elle teaches Joe the importance of being present with your twin flame and how "planning" when and how he responds to his twin flame and "scheduling" time together is fear-based.

Quotes:

"It's not the words that matter, like how you text her or what you say at all. If you're focused on that then that's total fear-based energy. The only thing that matters is the energy." 9:56 - 10:06

"The more and more you balance and interact with your twin flame, the less words you're going to need and the more comfortable you'll both feel just being in the same energetic space that you share with no one and nothing else." 13:35 - 13:50

"Planning comes from your mind, and your mind is fear-based energy. That's why we don't want to plan, we don't want to go over and our what we're going to say and make sure it sounds funny or flirty because again, trying to be funny or flirty is trying to get a reaction out of your twin flame and that's trying to "get". In the moment...as much as you can be in the moment is exactly how you want to relate with your twin flame." 19:17-19:48

If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today. https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/