In this week’s episode, Emily and Lilli explore the fall of the ‘girl boss’ era—a time that dominated much of their early twenties and career beginnings, where working yourself to the bone was worn like a badge of honour. They reflect on how hustle culture was glorified, sold to us as empowerment, and how productivity was tied to our worth. From side hustles and start-ups to full-time jobs and passion projects, it felt like the only way to succeed was to do more — more hours, more effort, more visibility, more pressure.

But now, as they settle further into their thirties, the narrative is shifting. Emily and Lilli talk about the growing rejection of that relentless grind, and the quiet power in doing enough. They unpack the societal pressure to love your job, the myth that turning your passion into your career is the ultimate goal, and the reality that many people are stepping back from burnout and choosing slower, more balanced paths.

It’s a thoughtful, honest chat about ambition, identity, and the beauty in redefining success on your own terms — whether that’s climbing the ladder, building something of your own or simply finding peace in doing work that supports the life you want to live.

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