Episodios

  • 393. How to Get Your First Coaching Client (Even Without a Big Following)
    Jul 7 2025

    Still waiting for more followers, a finished website, or the perfect Instagram grid before you start working with clients?

    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m breaking down the exact steps you need to take to land your first coaching client without a big audience, a huge email list, or any of the things you think you “need.” I share what actually worked for me when I was starting out, why posting alone won’t bring in clients, and how to have real, human conversations that turn into paid work.

    You don’t need to be viral to be profitable—you just need a system that builds connection and gets people to say, “How can I work with you?”

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

    • Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

    What I Discuss:

    • Why waiting to feel “ready” is killing your momentum

    • The biggest myths about growing your audience before getting clients

    • What to do instead of obsessing over content, colors, or funnels

    • How to turn warm conversations into paying clients

    • The DM strategy that’s simple, natural, and works fast

    • What I’d do if I had to start all over again with zero followers

    Find more from Amber Shaw:

    Instagram: @msambershaw

    Website: ambershaw.com

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    22 m
  • 392. Still Triggered Years Later? A Rabbi’s Guide to Grief, Grace & Starting Over with Judy Greenfeld
    Jul 3 2025

    Ever feel like you should be over it by now, but something small still sends you spiraling?

    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Rabbi Judy Greenfeld for a deeply grounding conversation on grief, healing, and giving yourself permission to feel it all—even years after divorce. We talk about what it actually looks like to spiritually process life after a major transition, how triggers can resurface in unexpected ways, and why starting over doesn’t mean rushing your growth. Judy shares her personal story of leaving LA for a new city, rebuilding her life and identity as a divorced woman and rabbi, and learning how to find joy again through creativity, sound healing, and truth-telling.

    If you’ve been wondering why it still hurts sometimes—and how to move through it with more grace and less self-judgment—this episode is for you.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

    • Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

    • Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket

    What We Discuss:

    • What spiritual practices actually helped after her divorce

    • Why triggers can show up years later and how to handle them with compassion

    • The surprising reality of starting over in a new city

    • Why dating as a clergy member is its own kind of adventure

    • How sound healing and storytelling can support emotional healing

    • The difference between sharing vulnerably and oversharing too soon

    Find more from Judy Greenfeld:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rabbicantorjudyg/

    Website: https://rabbicantorjudy.org/

    Find more from Amber Shaw:

    Instagram: @msambershaw

    Website: ambershaw.com

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    46 m
  • 391. How to Launch Your Coaching Business in 30 Days
    Jun 30 2025

    What if your coaching business could be up and running before summer ends?

    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m walking you through the exact 30-day launch plan I teach my own clients inside ReNewU—because yes, it’s absolutely possible to start your business in a month (even with a job, kids, and fear in the mix). If you’ve been stuck in the “planning” phase forever—downloading freebies, watching webinars, and second-guessing your every move—I want to show you how simple it can actually be when you follow a clear, focused roadmap. You don’t need a website, a logo, or a million followers. You need a niche, an offer, and a willingness to take messy action. And that’s exactly what we’re covering in this episode.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

    • Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

    What I Discuss:

    • Why imposter syndrome is normal (and what actually makes it go away)

    • The 3 foundational questions you must answer before launching

    • How to outline your first coaching offer from scratch

    • What tech tools you really need (hint: it’s only two)

    • Why perfection is the enemy of momentum in the early stages

    • How to market your offer before it's “ready” and start gaining traction

    Find more from Amber Shaw:

    Instagram: @msambershaw

    Website: ambershaw.com

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    20 m
  • 390. Good Parenting or Just Ego? Redefining Co-Parenting After Divorce with Michelle Dempsey-Multack
    Jun 26 2025

    What if the biggest co-parenting battle you’re fighting…isn’t with your ex, but with your own ego?

    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with the brilliant Michelle Dempsey-Multack—certified divorce and co-parenting specialist, podcast host, and author—for a raw, honest conversation about what putting your kids first actually looks like. We talk about the reality of co-parenting with someone who triggers you, how to quiet your ego when your child says they miss the other parent, and why being flexible is sometimes more important than being “fair.” We also dive into the overuse of the word “narcissist,” the self-awareness it takes to stop projecting pain onto your kids, and why your feelings don’t always need to lead the way.

    If you’ve been navigating high-conflict co-parenting, feeling resentful, or struggling with the emotional weight of it all, this episode is for you.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Become a Certified Co-Parenting Coach: https://michelledempsey.com/become-a-divorce-coach/

    • Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

    • Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

    • Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

    What We Discuss:

    • Why your divorce isn’t about “good vs. evil”—it’s about good vs. ego

    • What putting your kids first really means (and what it doesn’t)

    • The self-awareness required to co-parent from a healed place

    • Why the term “narcissist” is often misused—and how that harms your kids

    • How to hold boundaries without turning your child into a pawn

    • When it’s time to seek real training before trying to help others heal

    Find more from Michelle Dempsey-Multack:

    Website: https://michelledempsey.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichelledempsey/

    Find more from Amber:

    Instagram: @msambershaw

    Website: ambershaw.com

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

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    51 m
  • 389. My Exact Content Creation Workflow (That Saves Me Hours Every Week)
    Jun 23 2025

    Does writing content make you want to slam your laptop shut and give up before you even start?

    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m peeling back the curtain on how I use ChatGPT to create content fast without sounding robotic or generic. Whether you’re just thinking about starting your coaching business or already in the thick of trying to grow it, content creation doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. I’m walking you through my exact process for training ChatGPT, building content folders, generating posts in your voice, and creating messaging that actually connects. Plus, I’m sharing the biggest mistakes new coaches make when using AI and how to avoid them.

    If you've been wasting hours staring at a blank screen or overthinking every post, this episode is for you.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

    • Content to Clients: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/ctc

    • Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

    What I Discuss:

    • Why ChatGPT is a game-changer—but only if you train it properly

    • The foundational work you must do before asking ChatGPT to write for you

    • How to get content out in 15 minutes or less (without sacrificing quality)

    • The difference between average content and messaging that hits “this is so me” energy

    • A simple structure for creating hyper-specific content ideas that connect

    • My honest take on why ChatGPT sucks at writing hooks—and what to do instead

    Find more from Amber:

    Instagram: @msambershaw

    Website: ambershaw.com

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

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    19 m
  • 388. Dating After Divorce? Here’s Why It Feels So Confusing (and What to Do About It) with Nick Brancato
    Jun 19 2025

    Are you dating someone who’s aligned with your values—or just your current priorities?

    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with personal development coach and author Nick Brancato for a conversation that hit way too close to home—in the best way. We’re talking about dating post-divorce and how to actually determine if someone is truly compatible for the long haul (even if everything feels fine on the surface).

    If you’ve been wondering whether your current relationship is really going anywhere—or if you're just settling because it's “comfortable”—this episode is for you.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Prioritize Us book: https://www.amazon.com/Prioritize-Us-Unlock-Lasting-Priority/dp/B0DLVNWTJD/

    • Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

    • Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

    • Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

    What We Discuss:

    • The difference between values and priorities—and why it matters

    • The biggest red flags that don’t look like red flags

    • How to stop making up stories in your head when your partner pulls away

    • What to do when your love languages don’t align

    • How to create rituals that build emotional intimacy in real life

    • Why you shouldn’t fall in love with potential, and what to look for instead

    Find more from Nick Brancato:

    Website: https://nickbrancato.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/personaldevcoach/

    Find more from Amber:

    Instagram: @msambershaw

    Website: ambershaw.com

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

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    55 m
  • 387. The Step-by-Step Process to Choose Your Niche with Confidence
    Jun 16 2025

    What if the reason you haven’t nailed your niche yet isn’t because you’re unclear but because you’re overthinking it?

    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m breaking down the truth behind why so many divorced moms get stuck before they even start their coaching business. If you’ve been spiraling in research mode, collecting freebies, or second-guessing every idea in your Notes app, this one's for you. I’ll walk you through the exact steps I use inside ReNewU to help my clients go from “I have no clue what my niche is” to confidently putting themselves out there—even before everything is “perfect.”

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

    What I Discuss:

    • The real reason you don’t need more niche ideas

    • How fear, imposter syndrome, and perfectionism create “niche paralysis”

    • The 80% rule: Why your niche doesn’t have to be perfect to start

    • The million-dollar coaching question I ask every new client

    • How to do a brain dump to spot your niche

    • Three powerful questions to validate your niche through your own story

    • The danger of waiting for “the perfect idea” before launching your business

    Find more from Amber:

    Instagram: @msambershaw

    Website: ambershaw.com

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

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    13 m
  • 386. The Hidden Codependency Keeping You Tied to Your Ex-Husband with Sherry Gaba
    Jun 12 2025

    What if the reason you keep attracting the wrong partner…has nothing to do with them and everything to do with you?

    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Sherry Gaba, licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach, to talk about why so many smart, successful women fall into the trap of toxic relationships—even after divorce. We get into love addiction, codependency, trauma bonds, and how your childhood patterns shape who you choose as a partner. And most importantly, we talk about what to do if you're ready to stop repeating the cycle.

    If you’ve been wondering why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic partners, this episode is for you.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Take the FREE Co-Dependency Quiz: https://sherrygaba.com/quizzes-assessments/codependency-quiz/

    • The Love Fix Podcast: https://thelovefix.com/listen/

    • Love Smacked Book: https://sherrygaba.com/product/love-smacked-amazon/

    • Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

    What We Discuss:

    • Why love addiction is so common after divorce

    • The signs of codependency and how it shows up in relationships

    • Why many women get stuck in toxic relationship cycles

    • How childhood trauma influences your adult romantic life

    • The difference between healthy attachment and enmeshment

    • Practical steps to begin healing and reclaiming your sense of self

    • Why your healing impacts the kind of partner you attract next

    Find more from Sherry Gaba:

    Website: https://sherrygaba.com/

    Find more from Amber:

    Instagram: @msambershaw

    Website: ambershaw.com

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

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    45 m