Episodios

  • The Ex Factor: The Love that lingered
    Jul 7 2025

    Well here are are back again for a some candid, raw and much needed discussion about love sex and relationships.

    When it comes to relationships, nothing reveals who we are more, than a revealing look at who we've been with.

    In this episode I launch into the messy and ritualistic nature of exes - to poke at why we develop patterns, go back to places and people we have no business with and is it taboo to be friends with someone you were once romantically involved with.

    Season Two, is all about you and we start but getting a little messy! But with love.

    Speaking of messy, if your last relationship was a Tyler Perry movie, what would the title be? I can't wait to hear!

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    23 m
  • Gaylandia Pt 2: Gay Coded
    Jun 4 2025

    Happy pride month lovers! Welcome back to Gaylandia. What does gay pride mean to you? Well it would only make sense that it means different things to all of us. Yet, even in 2025 gay pride seems as big as a revolution as ever but it's not always rainbows and sunshine. The journey to out, is one with secrets, lies, and double lives. Let's face it, the road to 'gay and proud' is more of a gauntlet, than a parade. So, let's get rid of all the misconceptions of who we are and set the record "gay".

    Behind the clapbacks and pop music, many of us lived by a code that helped us navigate lives that weren't carved out with us in mind. We've paved our own lanes and learned what it truly means to be proud.

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    26 m
  • EP 08: "Talk To Me Nice - Mr. B Exposed"
    Apr 14 2025

    This episode is called Talk to Me Nice. You know what I find sexy? I think it's sexy getting to know people, the curiosity, the flirting and the anticipation: Even if its brief, there's something about those encounters that send a rush of blood through you.

    For people like me, who make content for your pleasure, getting know you is what makes it fun for me and let's me know what you want to see...and sometimes it's fun to hear what's on your mind? To see what you enjoy and hesr some of the questions youve wanted to ask.

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    32 m
  • Basic Instincts: Nature vs Nurture
    Mar 24 2025

    When it comes to queer connections, we haven't always had the prominent culture we know today. In fact, gays over 30 probably know that the only compass available to help navigate these connections were our Basic Instincts.

    Whether it's flirting, finding lasting friendship or just understanding the rules of gay friends with benefits, there are spoken and unspoken rules...most of which we learn by trial and error. The truth is, behind what can look like ordinary sexuality at play is a world unknown to many but masterfully designed by queers like us.

    This episode takes a long look at the instinctual, the intentional and even the impossible lengths we can sometimes go to feel like we are wanted and that we belong.

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    26 m
  • The Agenda: The Gays against the world
    Feb 11 2025

    Does anyone have a copy of the gay agenda because the way the conservatives talk about it, you'd think it's an actual document. Once again, we are entering what will surely be uncertain times, especially to those who make up our community and we can't just sit by and let it happen either.

    So what if we, the gays really had an agenda? What I do know is that it's all fun and games until we self identify and then all hell breaks loose.

    On this episode we are taking at look at the politics of gayness and I'm throwing some options in the ring for what would be my gay agenda because let's be real, the next time we are fighting for our rights we'll be taking much more than a parade.

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    24 m
  • Queer Love - What a Circus!
    Jan 21 2025

    Whether you are looking for love, in love or all loved-out, when it comes to queer relationships, it's a circus. Dating-as-a-gay, is as exciting as it is frustrating and then on the topic of finding love on apps - I think we might be ready to give arranged marriages a try. So on this Episode of the Slutty Elixir Podcast, I went down the rabbit-hole of gay dating and unconventional relationship models.

    More and more queer people are not only curious but are exploring the diverse world of unconventional relationship models and dynamics, making me ask the question - is it realistic to think that monogamy is natural for all and when we are looking for something unconventional, when in the dating process do you bring it up - also wtf does a person do, if they want to take their conventional love story into something more edgy.

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    28 m
  • Sexposé Part 2
    Jan 6 2025

    Recorded December 23rd, 2024 this is the conclusion of Sexposé. In this episode I poke around at our relationship with porn, by discussing the ways we have changed our stance on the adult industry; the role adult content and the creators play in helping us find sexual balance and fulfillment - while confronting biased and unfair censorship; and we wrap this topic by celebrating a few of the creators who represent the ways we explore our sexual freedom.

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    26 m
  • Sexposé (Part 1)
    Dec 13 2024

    We are back with another saucy episode of the Slutty Elixir podcast. This time around we are putting a magnifying glass in the world of sexual interactions by diving into the deep end of sex.

    From incognito sex, to race-play, hardcore penetration and even the psychological, we are search for the reasons behind why we want what we crave and looking for the connections between our environment, past sexual exposure or other influences.

    Sexposé kicks open the door to the sex happening around us, to reveal a world of niche kinks, seedy thoughts and wild desires.

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    27 m