Episode Summary:

In this episode of Beyond the Life Trap, I dive deep into the complexities of marriage and relationships. Sharing personal stories from pivotal moments in my life, like the joy of a proposal, the reality of early motherhood, and the evolution of my own 20-year marriage. I unpack the gap between the fantasy and the reality of marriage.

Together, we explore:

• The concept of marriage as an entity and its impact on identity.

• How co-creation keeps relationships alive and thriving.

• Why evolving as individuals often disrupt the dynamics of marriage.

• The pressures of survival patterns and their toll on intimacy and connection.

• The societal shifts we’re experiencing, and why 2025-2026 may bring a wave of relationship transformations.

• Practical ways to reimagine marriage, from recalibration to quarterly goals, to create an aligned and fulfilling partnership.

Marriage isn’t a win or fail—it’s a dynamic energy that requires evolution and alignment. This episode challenges traditional narratives and invites you to question, redefine, and co-create your relationships from a place of truth and freedom.

Key Topics Discussed:

1. The fantasy vs. the reality of marriage and parenthood.

2. Survival mode: The strain children, careers, and routines place on relationships.

3. Evolving identities and the impact on partnership dynamics.

4. The trap of compromise and the loss of individual truth.

5. How to approach marriage as an ever-evolving co-creation.

6. Why staying together “for the children” may do more harm than good.

7. The importance of recalibration and self-reflection in creating aligned relationships.

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Until next time, stay sovereign.

In this episode, we dive into the cracks in the coaching industry and why it feels so misaligned for so many. If you’ve ever felt disillusioned with the endless parade of success stories or questioned why the industry feels more about validation than service, this episode is for you.

I share my personal journey of hitting my breaking point in 2022, shutting down my coaching business, stepping offline for a year, and reconnecting with something far greater than any strategy: source. This period of stillness helped me rediscover my mission and rebuild in alignment with the future of coaching, one that’s about truth, purpose, and service, not proving your worth or chasing money.

We explore how to navigate this new era of leadership, where mentorship is about guiding others back to themselves, creating movements, and operating from abundance, not scarcity. If you’re ready to stop consuming, start creating, and lead from a place of alignment, this episode will inspire and challenge you to step into your power.

Key Moments from the Episode:

[00:02] The Coaching Trap: How the industry became about validation rather than service.

[05:30] My Breaking Point: Closing my business and stepping offline to reconnect with the Source.

[10:45] True Mentorship: Why the best mentors guide you back to your own inner wisdom.

[15:15] God’s Payroll: How alignment with your mission creates true abundance.

[20:00] The Future of Coaching: The shift toward community, purpose, and truth over money.

[25:30] Practical Advice: Why you need to unfollow, detox from noise, and start creating from your lived experiences.

Join the Community

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https://www.instagram.com/beyondthelifetrap

Go deeper and request your invite to the 9th space community: https://app.wearehome.co/ninthspace

Subscribe to the podcast for weekly episodes filled with deep insights, practical tips, and empowering discussions.

FREE DOWNLOAD: Activate Your Light Leader Vision: A Guided Visualisation to Connect with Your True Frequency and Decode Your Divine Plan https://app.wearehome.co/LLactivation

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If this episode resonated with you, please leave a review! Your feedback helps us grow and reach more women who are ready to break free from societal traps and step into their truth.

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs to hear it! Be sure to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—your support helps spread this message to those who need it most.

Thank you for being part of this journey. You are the creator of your reality. Trust yourself, align with truth, and let the magic unfold.

Until next time, stay sovereign.