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  • Self-Care is a Joke (That We Need to Take Seriously)

    Self-Care is a Joke (That We Need to Take Seriously)
    May 7 2025

    For so many of us, the idea of self-care is a joke. And for good reason. There are literally not enough hours in the day to do what's "required" of us, let alone take a break to focus on ourselves.

    Rather than telling you why you need to make time, this episode offers validation. And some tangible takeaways that are actually doable!

    The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability.

    The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you.

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    Carolyn Hax is the syndicated advice columnist with The Washington Post mentioned in this epsidoe.

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  • Raise a Glass to Sobriety

    Raise a Glass to Sobriety
    Mar 30 2025
    A glass of wine or tasty cocktail at the end of a hard day is alluring for sure. But when nearly every day is hard, it might be time to rethink that drink. The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: Parenting Special Needs Magazine Simplified self-care There is limited research on the connection between caregiving and problem drinking. There is some recognition that caregiver burden can cause anxiety, depression, social isolation, and stress which are predictors of increased alcohol use. The slope to addiction is a slippery one. “It’s 5 o’clock somewhere” loses its charm when it becomes an excuse instead of a rare occasion. But it’s easy to miss the signs when you’re having fun on the slide. I speak from experience. I remember the warm, fuzzy calm that came over me when I had my very first drink many moons ago. It’s a feeling I chased over and over again at countless venues - dorms, dates, happy hours, concerts, weddings, funerals, brunches, lunches, dinners, suppers, baby showers, and eventually play dates. Information on how ADHD impacts substance use. 2023 survey of 1600 mothers by Parents found that 48% had tried to curb their drinking, one in three admitted they might be drinking too much, and 12% were worried they might have a dependency problem. Most folks pour way more than a standard serving when imbibing. In early 2025, the current U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy urged warning labels be updated to include a heightened risk of at least seven different types of cancers including breast, throat, and colon. According to his report, even consuming just one drink per week increases cancer risk by 10% in men and 16% in women. WHY ALCOHOL IS SO RISKY FOR CAREGIVERS For those of us navigating this often isolating and relentless life of caregiving, alcohol often serves as a welcome distraction from what we really need - respite, support, empathy, space, to be seen. It muddies our crystal clear view of the injustice our children face, offering relief from a sometimes brutal reality. The immediate impact of alcohol use can lead to anxiety, irritability, agitation, lethargy, depression, impairment, poor judgement, and a whole host of other things that can make caregiving more difficult. If you are unable to recognize that alcohol use is exacerbating what ails you; a cycle is established - drinking to ease what ails you, in turn causing more ailment which leads to more drinking which can lead to problem drinking and eventually, potentially dependence. There are many self-assessment tools available online, you just need to be brutally honest with yourself when taking them. As difficult as cutting back can be, finding help is easier than ever. TRANSCRIPT: 01:00:06:21 - 01:00:38:09 Erin Croyle Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host of The Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when someone we love has a disability. I was lucky enough to head down this less traveled road when my first child was born with Down's Syndrome in 2010. Now I work for the Center for Family Involvement at VCU's, Partnership for People with Disabilities. 01:00:38:11 - 01:01:19:00 Erin Croyle This podcast explores the triumphs and hardships we face. We celebrate the joys that the odyssey of parenting, caregiving and disability bring. But there's no sugarcoating the tough stuff. I'm all about keeping it real, so I'm just going to come out and say. I've been recovering from surgery. So while I have some amazing interviews coming your way, this episode, I'm going to share a somewhat personal article I wrote for Parenting Special Needs Magazine about one of the hardest yet best things I've ever done for myself. 01:01:19:02 - 01:01:53:10 Erin Croyle The allure of sipping on an adult beverage at the end of a hard day is real and for good reason. A glass of wine or a stiff drink are long romanticized ways to chill and unwind. A sort of easy pass into the fast lane of relaxation. But what happens when nearly every day is hard? Kind of like the unending mental and physical labor that comes with being both a parent and a primary caregiver for your child. 01:01:53:12 - 01:02:27:08 Erin Croyle Reaching for a bottle of booze may seem like simplified self-care when your days are often both incredibly demanding. Yet super mundane. While there's virtually no research on the connection between caregiving and problem drinking, there is recognition that caregiver burden can cause anxiety, depression, social isolation and stress, which are all predictors of increased alcohol use. ...
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  • Rare Diseases Can Impact Anyone

    Rare Diseases Can Impact Anyone
    Feb 27 2025
    When a child is sick or missing developmental milestones, we immediatly start searching for answers as to why. But what happens when test after test just leads to more questions? Rare diseases are more common than we realize; research surrounding them is what's lacking. We're shedding light on what so many people go through by sharing the story of one family's diagnostic odyssey. The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: The Center for Family Involvement offers specialized one to one support specific to rare diseases through our Genetic Navigator program. Learn more about rare diseases and Rare Disease Day. Smith-Kingsmore Syndrome Foundation TRANSCRIPT: Welcome to The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host. The Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when a loved one has a disability. It’s a seismic shift I experienced myself, when my first child was born with Down syndrome in 2010. Now I work with the Center for Family Involvement at VCU's Partnership for People with Disabilities. This podcast explores the triumphs and the hardships we face. One of the hardest things families go through is the diagnosis itself. There are an estimated 300 million people with rare diseases worldwide. A disease is considered RARE when it affects fewer than 1 in 2,000 people. Lack of scientific knowledge often leads to delayed diagnoses and inadequate treatment and care. All of this places a heavy social and financial burden on patients, and in turn their caregivers. To highlight these issues and in honor of Rare Disease Day this February 28th, I dug deep into The Odyssey vault to revisit my interview with Sarah Lepore. Sarah has a Master of Science in Nursing and is a Board Certified Neonatal Nurse Practitioner. She is also one of the founders and the President of the Smith-Kingsmore Syndrome Foundation. Her now 13-year-old son Charlie is one of less than 300 people living with SKS. The story of their diagnostic odyssey is just one example of what so many families go through. So welcome. I'm so excited to talk to you today. Sarah Lepore. We at the Center for Family Involvement, you know, our world revolves around parenting and caregiving and navigating that world and empowering folks to be able to do that as well as they can. And your story is so powerful because you have had to really pave the way. Can you just start us off, Sarah, and tell us a little bit about, I guess, your son, Charlie, and that journey? Yes, thanks for having me, Erin. Um, so, you know, I, Charlie was my third pregnancy, and, um, I was a nurse at the time, so, you know, I felt pretty in tune with what, how the pregnancy should be going. And early on, um, our O B G Y N was concerned about Charlie's head growth. All of my kids had big heads, um, but Charlie's was a little larger than the others, and he was following that real closely. And, you know, he, when he was born, um, everything looked good besides his head being big, otherwise, he, you know, was a great normal baby. Happy baby fed well, slept well. Um, we didn't really have any concerns until about two months. Um, when, you know, you start to expect some of those infant milestones and they just weren't coming. He wasn't, um, reaching for toys. He wasn't really, um, lifting his head up. He had severe head lag. Um, and so that's when I started reaching out to my pediatrician, um, and talking to her more about, you know, could this, could there be something wrong with Charlie? Um, you know, of course, like most pediatricians would to a mom at, uh, two to three months of age, they might say, let's just wait. So we did wait a little bit until about between six to eight months where, um, we did notice that he was just not hitting milestones and getting further and further behind his peers. Um, so with the help of our pediatrician, um, she was able to get us in at U V A, um, through the developmental, um, pediatrician group, which I feel really lucky that at that point in time we, you know, we only had about a, a three to six month wait. I can't remember the exact wait, but it was, you know, it's felt long, but I know right now the waits can be upwards of a year. Um, so, you know, we got in relatively early and started our journey and, um, you know, we started up with the developmental pediatrician. Sarah, I'm gonna interrupt you actually really quickly because I think a lot of times people don't actually know. Can you explain what the difference is between a pediatrician and a developmental pediatrician? Yeah, absolutely. So a developmental pediatrician, um, is just that they ...
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  • New Year, Same You, Different Attitude

    New Year, Same You, Different Attitude
    Feb 1 2025
    How many times have you told yourself, "once I get through this week, it'll be smooth sailing;" only to end up in that same spot the following week, and the week after that, and after that? It's gotta stop! There will aways be work, family obligations, appointments, meetings, paperwork, laundry, and countless other pressing things to do. It's not going away. If you want something to change, it's gotta come from within. Maybe this new year, it's time for a new attitude! The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: There are very few studies on how women tolerate pain. This 2022 study explains that women were excluded from studies because of assumptions that potential hormonal changes could impact reliability in pain ratings. Yet new research shows those assumptions are false. While there is evidence that period pain is comprable to the pain of a heart attack; renowned gynecologist Dr. Jen Gunter warns that waiting for excrutiating chest pain to tell you you're having a heart attack is dangerous, especially for women who often report having no pain with their heart attacks. Research continues to show the importance of limiting screen time for children. TRANSCRIPT: Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host of The Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when a loved one has a disability. I was lucky enough to head down this less traveled road when my first child was born with Down's Syndrome in 2010. Now I work for the Center for Family Involvement at VCU's Partnership for People with Disabilities. This podcast explores the triumphs and hardships we face. We celebrate the joys that the odyssey of parenting, caregiving and disability bring all while tackling the tough stuff, too. The thing is, parenting is tough. Caregiving is tough. Middle age. It's brutal. So many of us live in the. I just need to get through this week mentality and that is bunk. If we think that way, we're going to be white knuckling it through life until we die. There's always going to be something. So rather than waiting for the tide to turn or the pendulum to swing, it's time for an attitude adjustment. I'm going to get deeply personal here because I know the impact it can have. A good example of this is my first child's birth story. Arlo's movement was slowing in the final weeks, and folks around me dismissed my concerns, telling me that it was natural to happen because as the baby grows, there's less room for them to move. But at 39 weeks, Arlo's movements were barely noticeable, and when he did move, it felt weak. So I went to the hospital and was immediately prepped for an emergency C-section. My doctor later told me if I hadn't come in, Arlo would not be here. A few years later, I was catching up with a dear friend who thanked me for being so open about all those scary details. She told me that because of me sharing my story, she didn't second guess herself when her first child's movement slowed in utero. She and her son are alive and well because they got the help they needed. Now, fast forward to modern times, and I have a new story to share that hopefully will help. Just after Thanksgiving, I noticed a red swollen mark on my calf and it was a little bit sore. But it's common for ADHD errors to get random bumps and bruises and not remember how it happened. So I looked at it and I chalked it up to me overreacting and just powered through. I mean, after all, my son Arlo had a point with his hematologist, which is a four hour round trip away. And that was, I think, the following day. My middle guy, Emil, had a well visit and a band concert that week, and he had his own ADHD evaluations throughout the month of December. And my daughter had an appointment with their pediatrician that week, which resulted in a referral to a behavior as the following week to help with ADHD strategies. And I knew if I pushed any of these off, it would be problematic later because like most moms, kids come first and like those hard weeks that stack up on hard weeks, I wanted to just get through that week, so maybe the next week would be easier. Now, let's not forget, December is magic, making time for many parents. And not only am I the primary caregiver in my home, I'm the primary magic maker, too. It was a lot. And I'm even leaving out some of the hardest stuff because this is really not my space to share everything. So my body was buzzing with anxiety. I could feel it. I would have to really focus on breathing. I just just felt just a mess inside. So the month went by, and suddenly Friday, December 20th, arrived and I felt relief. I ...
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  • 2024 Airing of Grievances: Sharing our Secret Lives

    2024 Airing of Grievances: Sharing our Secret Lives
    Dec 23 2024
    We're trying something different this episode: our first ever anonymous "airing of grievances." Many of us exist in our own information bubbles, completely ignorant of what those around us might be going through. This is especially true for people with disabilities and the family, friends, and professionals who love and support them. When The Odyssey's creator and host Erin Croyle asked, "What is something you wish others understood about your experience that you don't (or can't) talk about publicly?" - folks did NOT hold back. What about you? What secrets do you wish you could share? The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. TRANSCRIPTION: 01:00:06:19 - 01:00:36:11 Erin Croyle Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host of the Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when a loved one has a disability. I was lucky enough to join the club, so to speak, when my first child was born with Down's syndrome in 2010. Now I work with the Center for Family Involvement at VCU's Partnership for People with Disabilities. 01:00:36:13 - 01:01:03:16 Erin Croyle One of the mantras often shared in the Down's Syndrome community is more alike than different. While that is absolutely true for humans across the board, disabled or not, we do ourselves a disservice by not acknowledging how different our life experiences are. I've felt this deeply over the years. The society we live in, not just in the United States but globally, fails at understanding and accepting disability. 01:01:03:18 - 01:01:35:14 Erin Croyle It's often viewed as something to fix or overcome, which is often impossible, usually unnecessary and frankly, ridiculous and insulting. Disability is one of the many things that makes us who we are. It is natural and normal. The daily struggle that people with disabilities and their families face is exhausting. It's not just about those shopping carts we see left in accessible spaces or having someone drop the R word and mixed company as if it's as innocuous as talking about the weather. 01:01:35:16 - 01:02:04:18 Erin Croyle It's that loneliness we feel because many of the hardships we face are so private and painful that we don't speak of them. Out of respect for a child's autonomy or because we don't want to rehash it, it's the blatant ableism embedded in our systems and mindsets. It's painful microaggressions that slide largely under the radar. But not today. In honor of Festivus, I've reached out to peers who are impacted by disability. 01:02:04:20 - 01:02:21:05 Erin Croyle For an anonymous airing of grievances, asking them what they wish others understood about their experiences, that is rarely mentioned in the public arena. 01:02:21:07 - 01:02:45:01 Erin Croyle My husband and I are the youngest in each of our families. We became an aunt and an uncle before we became parents. And as I mentioned, I'm pretty much every podcast. Arlo, our first child, has multiple disabilities and medical complexities. Down syndrome is just the most obvious. Observing the family and friend dynamics over the years has been interesting, to say the least. 01:02:45:03 - 01:03:13:14 Erin Croyle Arlo is more alike than different for sure, but yeesh, the way people react to him or treat him ranges from weird to downright unacceptable. The times I've tried to address the able ism we experience in our own inner circle has been met with hostility. Over the years, I've learned to just avoid certain situations and people, especially since my own neurodiversity and mama bear rage, makes it hard to simply bite my tongue. 01:03:13:16 - 01:03:45:13 Erin Croyle And that brings us to the heart of today's episode an airing of grievances just in time for Festivus. Festivus, for those who don't know, is a secular holiday celebrated on December 23rd. Festivus came into the mainstream thanks to the sitcom Seinfeld and an episode that aired in 1997, The character Frank Costanza, played by comedy legend Jerry Stiller, delivers the iconic motto, A Festivus for the rest of us. 01:03:45:15 - 01:04:14:11 Erin Croyle What I did not know until working on this episode is that Festivus is an actual holiday. It's based on a tradition that one of the Seinfeld show writers, fathers invented as early as 1966. For this episode of The Odyssey, There will be no flagpole and no feats of strength. Wrestling matches. Instead, it's an honest, real and raw airing of grievances, but also pain, joy and humor. 01:04:14:13 - 01:04:48:13 Erin Croyle Because sometimes the things that are better left unsaid are also things that others need to know if they want to be fully...
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  • Caregiving and Parenting Are NOT the Same

    Caregiving and Parenting Are NOT the Same
    Nov 18 2024
    Right now in the United States, more than 53 million family members are providing unpaid and mostly unseen care to the loved ones in our lives. According to the National Council on Aging, that's an economic value that totals more than $470 billion. Since November is National Family Caregivers Month, we wanted to highlight what it means to be a caregiver and why everyone should be looking out for the caregivers in their lives. The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: Read more about how different caregiving and parenting are on the Center for Family Involvement's blog: CAREGIVING AND PARENTING ARE NOT THE SAME CAREGIVING AND PARENTING ARE NOT THE SAME: BACK TO SCHOOL EDITION Learn more about disability services and how to become a paid caregiver. TRANSCRIPT: Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host. The Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when someone we love has a disability. I was lucky enough to head down this less traveled road when my first child was born with Down's Syndrome in 2010. Now I work with the Center for Family Involvement and VCU's Partnership for People with Disabilities. 01:00:37:05 - 01:00:47:20 Erin Croyle I started this podcast because the media rarely highlights the issues that impact us so deeply. Caregiving is one of them. 01:00:47:22 - 01:01:10:03 Erin Croyle More and more, we're seeing the term caregiving lumped in with general parenting duties, diluting what it truly means to be a caregiver. In honor of November being National Family Caregivers Month. I'm going to break down how parenting and caregiving are fundamentally different. 01:01:10:05 - 01:01:38:17 Erin Croyle I'm going to keep it real with you. Listener. This episode is really late. It should have been out last month and that episode is still coming. It's in honor of October being National Disability Employment Awareness Month, and I've interviewed two wonderful guests already and that will be out soon. But like so many parents and caregivers, I know things are just relentless. 01:01:38:19 - 01:02:07:08 Erin Croyle And I am at the point in my life where I recognize that it is impossible to meet all of the demands placed on us as parents who are also caregivers. But it's almost as impossible to realize that what we as parents and caregivers come to know is our normal is not the norm and it is so important to point this out, not to wallow in how hard it can be because nobody has time to wallow. 01:02:07:14 - 01:02:33:23 Erin Croyle And who the heck wants to anyway, right? But it's important to validate the feelings of overwhelm and burnout and exhaustion and sadness and frustration that we feel this society we live in isn't designed for kids like ours, and it's not kind to caregivers either. Even politics. And we don't really get into politics, right? I leave that out of this. 01:02:34:00 - 01:03:03:20 Erin Croyle But for caregivers, there are things you need to know during voting cycles about the way that our government structures work that most people don't even know are there. You have to understand health care and Medicaid and waivers and supports that your children will need when you're gone. And you have to face the extreme difficulty of knowing that you could very well outlive your child. 01:03:03:22 - 01:03:33:20 Erin Croyle Do you have to set up things for when you're gone to make sure that your kid is going to be okay? It's something else. And I don't think that as caregivers, we really talk about that openly. That kind of melancholy that we live in. And this isn't just about those significant disabilities where someone will need care their whole life. 01:03:33:21 - 01:04:08:11 Erin Croyle I mean, that's certainly part of it. But I've got to be honest, my own able isn't blind in me to how difficult it can be to care for someone with ADHD or mental health struggles. Neurodiversity. Physical Disabilities. Even though someone will be able to live on their own one day with less supports does not mean that the caregiving to get them to that point is not substantial. 01:04:08:13 - 01:04:41:04 Erin Croyle It's a lot. And just getting a diagnosis for these invisible disabilities in rare conditions is really hard. And that alone takes time. Believe me, I'm there. I have three kids and neurodiversity is through and through in our household. And and we didn't really see that until later because my oldest child's needs were so great. The idea that there was neurodiversity in my youngest, I don't think that I picked that up soon enough. 01:04:41:04 - 01:05:12:15 Erin Croyle And I'm still ...
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  • Are Inclusive Schools Even Possible? Part 2

    Are Inclusive Schools Even Possible? Part 2
    Oct 1 2024
    Meaningful inclusion is possible, if we’re being honest though, it’s so rare that most folks don’t even know what it looks like. In part two of this episode on inclusion in public schools (be sure to check out part one!), Erin Croyle has educator and advocate Trina Allen break down what co-teaching is, how it works, and what can be done to make truly inclusive education a reality. The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: Talia A. Lewis' Working Definiciton of Ableism. How much are students with disabilities actually included? This breakdown demonstrates there is much work to be done. National Center for Education Statistics releases various annual reports and as well as topical studies. More on the Ithaca City School District. Inclusion benefits EVERYone. Learn more about the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). TRANSCRIPT: 01:00:07:11 - 01:00:39:01 Erin Croyle Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host. The Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when a loved one has a disability. I joined the caregiver club 14 years ago when my first child was born with Down syndrome. My journey weaved its way here, working for the Center for Family Involvement at VCU's Partnership for People with Disabilities. 01:00:39:03 - 01:01:09:07 Erin Croyle This podcast highlights the joys and hardships we face. Celebrating how amazing the odyssey of parenting, caregiving and disability can be. While examining the spiderweb of complex issues, we're tangled in, The fight for meaningful inclusion in our schools is a struggle for so many of us. In our last episode, I spoke with special education teacher advocate, activist and parent Trina Allen. 01:01:09:09 - 01:01:31:21 Erin Croyle We left off talking about how gut wrenching advocating for an inclusive education can be, especially as our kids get older. And we're picking up right there with Trina telling us not only that it can be done, but how we can do it. 01:01:31:23 - 01:01:47:19 Erin Croyle I know of a number of parents who have children who stop working and are like full on tutors for their kids to keep them on that diploma track. The thing is, like a kid with Down syndrome is one kid with Down syndrome. 01:01:47:22 - 01:01:50:04 Trina Allen Thank you! 01:01:50:06 - 01:02:17:19 Erin Croyle Yes, Autism is one kid with autism. CP And so when you have a student who is at a grade level in grade school trying to do seventh grade math, I don't know as a parent where the line is. I think that our schools, once we get to a certain level, it's not parents failing, but it's their schools not offering enough options for kids with more significant needs. 01:02:17:19 - 01:02:34:24 Erin Croyle Instead, they just shove them into a cookie cutter classroom. I don't know. I guess I don't even know what my question is. All I know is that. Trina Allen Fix it! Erin Croyle They reach a certain age and there's no choice anymore, right? No other option anymore. Trina Allen So while we're on the fight for inclusion, it cannot be on the back of our individual child and listening to what he needs in the moment is the biggest fight of ableism. Listening to him is the biggest fight of Abel's that you will ever do with him. The issue of what needs to happen is that that math class needs to not be based on an outcome of these particular things. 01:03:03:03 - 01:03:27:24 Trina Allen That math class needs to be structured on. These are the standards, and every single kid in it is at a different place and it needs to be supported in that way. And so do I think it can be done? my God. Math is like the easiest. You know, it becomes more complicated in like history and English, but it doesn't have to be if the design is universal. 01:03:28:01 - 01:03:47:17 Trina Allen Now, that's a lot of curriculum, though. That's a lot of things that need to be made and change, and that curriculum needs to be not adapted for your son. That curriculum needs to be created with him and created with the kid at a different level and created with a kid at the different level and created with the kid in a different level. 01:03:47:19 - 01:04:27:00 Trina Allen And it needs to be individualized. And that is doable with time and space. And what I do like about the current district that, you know, that we both are dealing with is that's the goal. And when the systems have not created all of those levels of curriculum and are displayed by the slide show and are displayed in all those quiet ways that are as equal and that are that his production is as integrated and valued ...
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  • Are Inclusive Schools Even Possible? Part 1

    Are Inclusive Schools Even Possible? Part 1
    Aug 27 2024
    Imagine being treated as a guest in your own school. For many students, not only is that their reality - it's by design. In part 1 of this 2 part episode, Erin Croyle and special education teacher Trina Allen break down what needs to be done to create meaningful inclusion in academics, throughout our school communities, and beyond. The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: Talia A. Lewis' Working Definiciton of Ableism. How much are students with disabilities actually included? This breakdown demonstrates there is much work to be done. What is the Affordable Care Act? National Center for Education Statistics releases various annual reports and as well as topical studies. More on the Ithaca City School District. Inclusion benefits EVERYone. Learn more about the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). TRANSCRIPT: Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host. The Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when a loved one has a disability. I started down this path more than a decade ago when my first child was born with Down's Syndrome. My journey weaved its way here, working with the Center for Family Involvement at VCU's partnership for People with Disabilities. 01:00:39:04 - 01:01:08:18 Erin Croyle This podcast does a deep dive into the joys and hardships we face. We celebrate how amazing the odyssey of parenting, caregiving and disability can be. But we tackle the tough stuff too. Inclusion could be one of the most complex. As guest Trina Allen points out, students with disabilities are often treated as guests in their own schools. Trina should know. 01:01:08:20 - 01:01:28:22 Erin Croyle She's a special education teacher who moved all the way across the country with her family to work at one of the few school districts she could find that is striving toward meaningful inclusion. Trina, thank you so much for joining me. 01:01:28:24 - 01:01:38:13 Erin Croyle Champions for inclusion are real life superheroes, and superheroes typically have some great origin stories. So let's start with yours. How did you get to this place? 01:01:38:16 - 01:01:59:07 Trina Allen Well, first off, it's an honor to be here. So thank you. And I've always worked with kids. I worked in group homes and transitional living programs, and I did hotline services and things like that. And it was it was what I intended to do. I tended to be a therapist and I went to school and got my bachelor's in psychology and was going to move on. 01:01:59:07 - 01:02:22:07 Trina Allen And then the art therapy, I wanted to be an art therapist and the art therapy program I was assisting in was shut down. And it was for a group of students that had really intensive trauma and really needed that. Therapy is a heartbreaking thing, but they offered me at the school to work and the program for autistic students. 01:02:22:09 - 01:02:48:19 Trina Allen And so I, I said, Yeah, sure. And within a month they offered me a teaching position and I was in no way prepared or qualified any fashion for that. And I jumped in right away and eventually got my master's in special education. And, and it was at the most secluded, the most restricted, most segregated placement for students who had been forcibly exited from the general public education. 01:02:48:19 - 01:03:20:16 Trina Allen And I didn't know that I didn't know anything at the time. I didn't know anything about histories of disability and resistance and pressure for inclusion. And so I left there when I realized I couldn't. I was there for years. It was very painful to see students who could not get what they need and who needed so much. Their support needs were being routinely denied and I did my very best in making this space as loving as it possibly could within the context of extreme deprivation. 01:03:20:18 - 01:03:38:24 Trina Allen It was terrible. And so I went to the district thinking that it would be better and I loved it, and it was still segregated and I did a lot of things to force that to change. As I understood more and more what my students needed and also listened to people listen to it. Disabled adults who were like, This is what needs to happen. 01:03:39:03 - 01:04:16:08 Trina Allen And the best that I could do was harm reduction. I had a reverse inclusion program and I thought that by proving it could work and it did, that it would make the systemic inclusion of my students easier. Like, Look, the kids are already in, I already did it. We got it. Let me let's now make it institutionalized as opposed to like just this thing that we tagged ragtag...
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