On this episode of the Modern Warrior Podcast, I’m joined by Paddy Barnes—three-time Olympian, double bronze medallist, and one of the most iconic Irish boxers of his generation. But this conversation goes far beyond medals and matches.

Paddy opens up about the intense pressure of elite competition, the mental toll it took behind the scenes, and the emotional rollercoaster that followed retirement. We talk about identity, failure, letting go, and finding peace on the other side of success. This is a raw, honest insight into the mindset of a champion—and the human being behind the gloves.

Episode Summary – Key Points

• Paddy came into this conversation with the kind of honesty you rarely hear from someone who's achieved what he has. From the beginning, he was real about the pressure, expectation, and isolation that came with being at the top of his sport.
• He shared how boxing became his life early on—not out of passion at first, but because it gave him structure, identity, and an outlet in Belfast during a difficult time.
• Paddy reflected on his Olympic journey—from the nerves and excitement of Beijing and London, to the crushing disappointment of Rio 2016, where he was expected to medal but lost in the first round.
• That loss haunted him for years. He opened up about the emotional weight of letting people down, the fear of facing public perception, and how it chipped away at his confidence and enjoyment of the sport.
• We discussed the disconnect between public success and personal happiness—how people assume Olympic medals equal contentment, but the truth is often much more complicated.
• Paddy talked about the difficulty of retirement, not knowing who he was without boxing, and how he struggled to find a new sense of purpose. It took him years to fully step away and accept that the chapter had closed.
• A key theme in our chat was ego vs. acceptance. He spoke about letting go of the need to prove himself, learning to laugh at things he once took seriously, and embracing a simpler, more grounded way of living.
• We also touched on fatherhood, and how becoming a dad shifted his priorities, softened his mindset, and helped him see his past struggles through a different lens.
• Paddy is now working in community engagement and helping younger generations find their path—not just in sport, but in life. He’s using his story to guide others, without glamorising the grind.
• One of the most powerful takeaways was this: “When you’re in it, you don’t realise how much it’s taking from you. When you step away, you start to see what really matters.”
• This conversation reminded me—and I think it’ll remind a lot of men—that it’s okay to let go. That you’re still worthy, even when the spotlight fades.

On this episode of the Modern Warrior Podcast, I’m joined by Paddy Barnes—three-time Olympian, double bronze medallist, and one of the most iconic Irish boxers of his generation. But this conversation goes far beyond medals and matches.

Paddy opens up about the intense pressure of elite competition, the mental toll it took behind the scenes, and the emotional rollercoaster that followed retirement. We talk about identity, failure, letting go, and finding peace on the other side of success. This is a raw, honest insight into the mindset of a champion—and the human being behind the gloves.

In this episode of the Modern Warrior Podcast, I sit down with Mary Kate—an author, spiritual mentor, and deeply reflective voice in the world of personal healing and transformation. Mary Kate’s story is powerful: rooted in faith, tested by trauma, and fuelled by a relentless commitment to living in truth.

We dive into everything from spiritual surrender and addiction to what it really means to embody feminine power in a world that often misunderstands it. This is a conversation about finding your voice, facing your pain, and standing in your power—no matter what you've been through.

Episode Summary – Key Points

• Mary Kate and I connected on a deeply spiritual and emotional level during this conversation. Her energy is soft but strong, and she brought a powerful presence to the episode.
• She opened up about her past struggles with addiction and the inner disconnection that drove her to escape herself. She described it as a soul-level ache that couldn’t be fixed with anything outside of her.
• What stood out was her journey back to God, faith, and inner alignment—how surrendering to something bigger helped her move from survival into true healing.
• We explored the difference between the performative feminine and the embodied feminine—how true power doesn’t come from pleasing others or playing roles, but from owning who you are, unapologetically.
• Mary Kate shared how the feminine isn't weak—it’s deeply intuitive, nurturing, and powerful when integrated. She spoke about the importance of both women and men healing their relationship with the feminine within themselves.
• One of the most honest parts of the episode was when she described not feeling safe in her own body for years, and how trauma lived in her nervous system. Her healing came through not just therapy, but stillness, solitude, and spiritual surrender.
• We also talked about relationships, codependency, and how often women are taught to over-function—to rescue, to fix, to perform—rather than to receive or just be.
• Mary Kate brought incredible wisdom around boundaries, emotional honesty, and spiritual discipline—not as rigid rules, but as ways to honour yourself deeply.
• She spoke of prayer and silence as non-negotiables in her life, not just for healing but for clarity and direction. And how so many people are living in noise because they’re afraid of what the silence might reveal.
• A recurring message was the power of returning to your centre—whether you’re in a storm or a season of growth, you always have access to the still, knowing part of you that’s never broken.
• Her journey reminded me—and everyone listening—that healing is not about becoming someone else. It’s about remembering who you were before the world told you who to be.