Discover how I grew my YouTube channel, Modern Marriage with Monica, to 50,000 subscribers in just one year and how I got monetized in just 6 weeks!

Learn the exact strategies, equipment, and editing tips that helped me succeed, plus behind-the-scenes insights on creating viral content (like my clip with 300,000+ views) that resonated with men seeking better marriages.

Want to start your own YouTube channel? Learn from my mistakes and successes to fast-track your growth.

What You’ll Learn:

How I found my niche in marriage content and filled a gap in the market

The power of bite-sized video clips (1-4 minutes) for explosive growth

My editing process using CapCut Pro and Opus Clips for shorts

Essential equipment upgrades (like the Rode PodMic) that made a difference

How to create click-worthy thumbnails and search-optimized descriptions using AI tools like Grok & Chat GPT

Why responding to every comment boosted my channel’s growth

The reality of YouTube earnings and how to optimize mid-roll ads

Why I Started: As a wife, I transformed my own marriage and wanted to share specific, actionable strategies to help others thrive—not just survive—in their relationships. My mission is to advocate for men and provide practical advice for navigating marriage challenges.

Check out the viral clip that skyrocketed my channel: https://youtu.be/rkHs6bkongM

Tools I Use:

Microphone: Rode PodMic on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4mHHY4n

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Editing Software: CapCut Pro

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Thumbnails: Canva: www.canva.com

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Benefits such as:

1. Early access to videos

2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health

3. Ability to ask Questions Directly

Contact Monica:

Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.

Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!

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Socials:

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Timestamps:

0:00 Intro: My YouTube Journey

2:15 Finding My Niche & Going Viral

5:40 How I Got Monetized in 6 Weeks

8:20 Editing Tips & Bite-Sized Content Strategy

12:10 My Equipment & Tech Mistakes

15:30 Thumbnails & Descriptions for Growth

18:45 How Much I Earned on YouTube

21:00 Why I Keep Going & Final Tips

In this engaging podcast episode, we sit down with Rich Cooper, a prominent figure in the manosphere, known for his YouTube channel Entrepreneurs in Cars with over 700,000 subscribers and a strong presence on X with 217,000 followers. Rich shares his journey from business-focused content to addressing men’s relationship challenges, drawing from his personal experiences, including his 2011 divorce and subsequent insights into modern relationships.

We dive deep into critical topics for men facing marital struggles, particularly around "dead bedrooms" and lack of intimacy. Rich discusses the pitfalls of conventional relationship advice, the impact of family law, and why modern marriage often fails men, citing stark statistics like 50% divorce rates and low marital bliss after eight years. He explores concepts like hypergamy, the importance of prenups, and the need for men to maintain value and frame in relationships to sustain attraction.

Rich also addresses feminism’s role in shifting relationship dynamics, the importance of vetting women using his 21 red flags (available for free at entrepreneursincars.com/red-flags), and why men must continue to "level up" to remain their partner’s best option.

From navigating competition anxiety to avoiding common mistakes like losing frame or allowing risky behaviors, Rich offers practical advice for men seeking better outcomes in love and life.

Whether you're married, dating, or single, this episode is packed with reality-based insights to help men understand female nature, avoid pitfalls, and build stronger relationships.

Information About Rich Cooper:

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Website: richcooper.ca for more resources

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Benefits such as:

1. Early access to videos

2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health

3. Ability to ask Questions Directly

Contact Monica:

Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.

Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!

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Socials:

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In this compelling episode, we sit down with Gift Lasta, a renowned masculinity coach and author, to explore the complexities of modern marriage and masculinity.

Giff, who has helped over 50 men transform their relationships through his Reforge Marriage program, shares his personal journey from overcoming struggles with pornography and marital disconnect to building a thriving marriage.

Drawing from his new book, The Way of Men with Maids: Forgotten Christian Wisdom for Becoming a Man Who Wins at Love, we dive deep into critical topics like maintaining long-term attraction, mastering sexual self-discipline, and understanding the concept of "frame"—the structure of confidence and leadership that allows men to create a safe and appealing space for their partners.

Giff also discusses the male drive for status and conquest, the pitfalls of failing "frame tests," and the importance of proactive leadership in reducing a partner’s mental load. Whether you're a man looking to strengthen your marriage, a woman seeking insight into masculine dynamics, or simply interested in personal growth, this conversation offers practical, strategic advice grounded in real-world experience.

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Benefits such as:

1. Early access to videos

2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health

3. Ability to ask Questions Directly

Contact Monica:

Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.

Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!

How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details

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Welcome back to the second part of our two part series on the Eight Characteristics of Unframed Men. In this episode, we wrap up the discussion by exploring characteristics 5 through 8, diving deep into what it means to lack frame and how it impacts your life, relationships, and personal growth.

Building on last week’s insights—where we defined frame, its importance, and covered the first four characteristics—this video tackles the remaining traits with practical advice and real-world examples.

Here’s what we cover:

Characteristic #5: Making Excuses or Blaming Others – We discuss why a lack of accountability is a feminine trait and how men who dodge responsibility sabotage their growth. Learn why taking ownership, even when it’s tough, is essential for building a strong frame.

Characteristic #6: Getting Defensive – Discover the importance of humility in relationships. We explore how defensiveness blocks constructive feedback, especially from your spouse, and how embracing humility can strengthen your marriage.

Characteristic #7: Asking Stupid Questions – From “Where’s the ketchup?” to “What’s there to eat?”, we break down why these seemingly small questions undermine your competence and respect in the eyes of your partner. Get practical tips on taking initiative and owning your household.

Characteristic #8: Ignoring Problems – We address the trend of younger generations opting out of reality through distractions like video games, weed, or pornography. Learn how facing life’s challenges head-on is a cornerstone of becoming a framed man.

This episode is packed with actionable insights for men who want to step up as leaders in their homes and lives. We also touch on cultural observations, like the societal tendency to rescue women but expect men to fend for themselves, and how this shapes accountability. Plus, we share a lighthearted yet pointed perspective on small habits that erode respect in relationships and how to fix them.

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1. Early access to videos

2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health

3. Ability to ask Questions Directly

Contact Monica:

Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.

Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!

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Unlock the secret to sustaining long-term sexual attraction in your marriage by mastering the concept of masculine frame. In this in-depth video, we explore the critical role that a strong masculine frame plays in fostering a healthy, passionate relationship dynamic. Learn what it means to operate with mental strength and fortitude, why this is essential for maintaining respect and attraction, and how losing your frame can lead to a female-led marriage and a dead bedroom.

We cover the first four characteristics of unframed men—seeking validation, lacking boundaries, acting childish, and being a "yes man"—and provide actionable insights on how to avoid these pitfalls. These behaviors can erode your wife’s respect and attraction, leading to a reversed polarity dynamic that undermines intimacy. This video is Part 1 of a two-part series, so make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell to catch Part 2, where we’ll discuss the remaining four characteristics.

For men looking to reignite passion and fix a dead bedroom, this video is a must-watch. The discussion draws from real-world examples, like the importance of standing firm in your convictions (e.g., navigating tough decisions despite pushback) and the cultural reference to George McFly from Back to the Future to illustrate the consequences of weak boundaries.

We also address how to correct a female-led dynamic by calmly asserting leadership and selling your wife on the benefits of a masculine-led relationship, reducing her stress and fostering her femininity. This content is a preview of my upcoming course, designed to help men create and maintain long-term sexual attraction in their marriages.

Don’t miss out on practical strategies to strengthen your mental frame, establish boundaries, and reclaim your role as a confident leader in your marriage. Comment below with your thoughts: Which unframed behavior do you find most challenging, and how are you working to overcome it? Like and share this video with others who could benefit from these insights.

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Benefits such as:

1. Early access to videos

2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health

3. Ability to ask Questions Directly

Contact Monica:

Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.

Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!

How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details

https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/sltacoursebundle

Socials:

https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica

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Keywords: masculine frame, sexual attraction, dead bedroom, marriage advice, relationship polarity, mental strength, masculine energy, female-led marriage, relationship dynamics, attraction in marriage, how to be a strong man, marriage intimacy, men’s coaching, healthy marriage, relationship leadership.

Discover the final 5 of the 10 Laws for Married Men in Part 2 of our series.

In this video, we dive deep into essential tips for a thriving marriage, covering why open communication is critical, how to avoid letting sex become a reward, and the importance of maintaining effort. Learn why setting boundaries and being willing to walk away are game-changers for a healthy relationship. Don't miss Law #10—it's the most crucial one. Stick around for actionable advice to strengthen your marriage.

Key Topics:

- Emotional connection through talking

- Avoiding manipulative dynamics

- Sustaining long-term attraction

- The power of saying "no"

- Why boundaries matter

Laws Covered:

- Law #6: Never Shut Down Communication

- Law #7: Don't Let Sex Be a Reward

- Law #8: Avoid Complacency

- Law #9: Say No Frequently

- Law #10: Always Be Willing to Walk Away

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Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

1:15 Law #6: Never Shut Down Communication

4:50 Law #7: Don't Let Sex Be a Reward

8:30 Sponsor: Cup Cozy Pillow

9:20 Community Invite

10:00 Law #8: Avoid Complacency

13:40 Law #9: Say No Frequently

16:20 Law #10: Always Be Willing to Walk Away

20:00 Outro & Subscribe

Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes. Always approach relationship dynamics with respect and mutual understanding.

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Benefits such as:

1. Early access to videos

2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health

3. Ability to ask Questions Directly

Contact Monica:

Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.

Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!

How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details

https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/sltacoursebundle

Socials:

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Tags: marriage advice for men, how to be a better husband, marriage tips for men, relationship advice for husbands, respect in marriage, masculine frame, healthy marriage, avoid divorce, communication in marriage, intimacy in marriage, marriage laws, relationship goals, husband and wife, marriage help, men’s relationship guide, sexless marriage, marriage boundaries, trust in marriage

Unlock the secrets to a thriving, passionate marriage with my "10 Laws for Married Men" series! In this must-watch Part 1, we break down the first 5 essential principles every husband needs to master to become a better partner and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Designed specifically for men, these powerful laws cut through the noise of endless relationship advice and tackle real issues like disrespect, communication breakdowns, and intimacy challenges. With divorce rates soaring and many marriages struggling, it’s time to focus on what actually works to create a hot, steamy, and respectful partnership.

In this video, we explore why information overload can paralyze men into inaction and share actionable strategies to overcome it. From addressing disrespect head-on to avoiding the trap of rewarding bad behavior, these laws are your roadmap to a healthier marriage. Whether you’re navigating a sexless marriage, feeling disrespected, or simply want to elevate your relationship, these principles will empower you to take charge and reignite the spark.

Don’t miss Part 2 for the next 5 laws, including the game-changing #10 that could transform your marriage! Subscribe now and hit the notification bell to ensure you never miss an update.

What You’ll Learn in This Video:

Law #1: Never Let Disrespect Slide – Why respect is a core need for men, how women may unintentionally disrespect you, and the right way to address it without escalating conflict.

Law #2: Never Reward Bad Behavior – Discover why providing “extras” (like flowers or vacations) during bad behavior backfires and how to set healthy boundaries.

Law #3: Never React Like a Child – Learn why emotional outbursts or sulking destroy attraction and how to maintain a strong masculine frame.

Law #4: You Are Not the Source of Her Happiness – Understand why chasing her happiness is a losing game and how to focus on her core needs of love and safety.

Law #5: Never Break Your Word – Why failing to follow through on small promises (like taking out the trash) erodes trust and respect, and how to build reliability.

Why Watch This Video?

Practical & Relatable: Real-life examples, like the “light switch” story, make these laws easy to understand and apply.

No Fluff: We keep it surface-level for quick wins but promise deeper insights in future videos.

For Every Husband: Whether you’re newly married or in a long-term relationship, these laws are universal and timeless.

Backed by Experience: Inspired by real viewer comments and years of relationship insights, these principles are battle-tested.

Resources & Next Steps:

Join Monica's Free (Free to the 1st 100 Members) Community "Understanding Women" Here: https://www.skool.com/understanding-women-4317/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73

Benefits such as:

1. Early access to videos

2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health

3. Ability to ask Questions Directly

Contact Monica:

Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.

Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!

How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details

https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/sltacoursebundle

Socials:

https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica

https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast

https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer

https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26

Tags: marriage advice for men, how to be a better husband, marriage tips for men, relationship advice for husbands, respect in marriage, masculine frame, healthy marriage, avoid divorce, communication in marriage, intimacy in marriage, marriage laws, relationship goals, husband and wife, marriage help, men’s relationship guide, sexless marriage, marriage boundaries, trust in marriage