Episodios

  • Episode 95 – “The Life You Miss While Hiding” Part 6 of the Fear Beneath It All series

    Episode 95 – “The Life You Miss While Hiding” Part 6 of the Fear Beneath It All series
    Jun 28 2025
    What does it cost you to stay hidden? In this follow-up to the deeply personal Episode 94, Darnell gets real about the silent grief and missed opportunities that come from dimming your light. We often tell ourselves we’re just waiting for the “right moment,” but truthfully—fear has us locked in the shadows, watching life pass us by. In this heartfelt episode, Darnell reflects on how staying small feels safe… but it also keeps you from the love, purpose, and freedom your soul is begging for.This one’s for the people who know they’re gifted but keep second-guessing their shine. For those who have so much to say, but fear being seen, judged, or misunderstood. Through vivid storytelling, emotional insight, and a little Soul Food at the end, this episode is a call to step out—not just for yourself, but for everyone waiting on what only you can give.Because staying hidden doesn’t just rob you—it robs the world of your medicine.
    Más Menos
    8 m
  • Episode 94: “The Fear of Being Seen” — Part 5 of The Fear Beneath It All

    Episode 94: “The Fear of Being Seen” — Part 5 of The Fear Beneath It All
    Jun 27 2025
    What if the thing you’re most afraid of… is being seen for who you truly are?In this deeply personal episode, Darnell steps out from behind the mic and into full vulnerability. No script. No armor. Just truth. From the silent weight of stillness to the loud whispers of self-doubt, this confessional moment is a mirror for anyone who’s ever dimmed their light out of fear.You’ll hear about the hidden cost of always being the strong one, the ache of being gifted but unseen, and the quiet bravery it takes to show up anyway. With three powerful daily prayers and a soul-deep assignment, this episode isn’t just a listen—it’s a lifeline.This one’s for the dreamers standing in the shadows, ready to step into the light.
    Más Menos
    7 m
  • Episode 93 – “Fear and Stillness” Part 4 of the series: The Fear Beneath It All

    Episode 93 – “Fear and Stillness” Part 4 of the series: The Fear Beneath It All
    Jun 26 2025
    Stillness sounds beautiful—until you’re actually in it.In this raw and reflective episode, Darnell Davis, aka The Nell Man, takes us inside the quiet moments we often avoid. What happens when the world slows down just enough for you to hear everything you’ve been running from? What rises to the surface when the distractions fade and all you’re left with is the truth?This isn’t a lesson. It’s a confession.A mirror held up to the soul.And an invitation to finally stop running.We explore how stillness can feel like peace—or like panic—depending on what’s been left unhealed. We talk about the version of you that’s whole, wise, and eternal—and why that version is so hard to believe in when fear is loud.If you’ve ever struggled to sit with your feelings, doubted your purpose, or feared being truly seen, this episode is for you.This is the shift.This is the pause before the breakthrough.This is Make Love To You.
    Más Menos
    7 m
  • Episode 92 – “The Mask Fear Wears” (Part 3 of The Fear Beneath It All series)

    Episode 92 – “The Mask Fear Wears” (Part 3 of The Fear Beneath It All series)
    Jun 25 2025
    Not all fear looks like fear.Sometimes it shows up in heels and a fresh lineup.Sometimes it hides behind a smile, a resume, or a carefully curated Instagram feed.It wears productivity like armor. It performs. It perfects.But beneath the surface—it’s scared.This is Part 3 of The Fear Beneath It All series, and in this episode, we’re exposing the mask fear wears.We explore how fear often disguises itself as confidence, control, or even charisma.We talk about the strong friend. The overachiever. The one who always has it “together”—and how fear fuels their performance more than they even realize.If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right but still feel empty, anxious, or disconnected—this episode will speak to your soul.Because healing doesn’t come from hiding.It comes from softness. Stillness. Honesty.And the courage to take the mask off—for real this
    Más Menos
    9 m
  • Episode 91 – The Fear You Inherited (Part 2 of “The Fear Beneath It All” Series)

    Episode 91 – The Fear You Inherited (Part 2 of “The Fear Beneath It All” Series)
    Jun 24 2025
    Some of the fear you carry didn’t start with you.It was passed down—like a last name, like a story, like survival.In this powerful second installment of The Fear Beneath It All series, host Darnell Davis explores the deep roots of inherited fear. Not just trauma, but the rules and roles we were given before we even had the language to question them. The fear that told us to be quiet, to stay small, to play safe. The fear that made love conditional and made freedom feel dangerous.This episode dives into how fear moves generationally—through silence, through protection, through pain. And how it becomes a lens we don’t even realize we’re looking through until we start asking: Where did this come from? And is it mine to carry?Darnell challenges us to stop blaming ourselves for what was coded into our upbringing, while also calling us to the hard but holy work of breaking the cycle. Of healing what wasn’t healed before us. Of choosing love over legacy.Because fear may run in the family.But it doesn’t have to run your life.
    Más Menos
    9 m
  • Episode 90: “The Fear Beneath It All” – Fear Is the Root Series

    Episode 90: “The Fear Beneath It All” – Fear Is the Root Series
    Jun 23 2025
    What if the chaos we’re witnessing in the world isn’t just political… or racial… or generational—but deeply emotional? What if beneath all the anger, division, and hate… is fear?In this powerful opening to our new series The Fear Beneath It All, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) pulls the curtain back on what’s really driving the madness of today’s world. From viral headlines to quiet moments of self-doubt, fear is the common thread—and it’s been hiding in plain sight.This episode is a spiritual wake-up call and a soul-level vibe check. You’ll learn:
    • How fear disguises itself in daily life
    • Why fear is working both sides of every conflict
    • The difference between protecting yourself and living in panic
    • How to recognize when fear is leading your decisions—and how to take the wheel back

    Whether it’s global unrest or personal anxiety, fear feeds on your silence. But the moment you name it, you start reclaiming your power.This is more than a conversation—it’s a movement.This is Make Love To You.This is The Fear Beneath It All.
    Más Menos
    7 m
  • Episode 89 – “The Assignment” (Final Episode of the PLU: People Like Us Series)

    Episode 89 – “The Assignment” (Final Episode of the PLU: People Like Us Series)
    Jun 22 2025
    We’ve talked about the world. We’ve talked about the pain.We’ve talked about the people—People Like Us.But now it’s time to talk about the assignment.In this final chapter of the PLU: People Like Us series, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) brings everything home with clarity, fire, and a direct call to the soul. For weeks, we’ve been identifying who we are and who our people are—unpacking the divine traits we once mistook for flaws. But that knowing was never the endgame. It was just the beginning.
    The assignment? It’s to be present.Fully here. Fully now.Not distracted. Not performative. Not lost in curated chaos.In this episode, Darnell breaks down the difference between presence and distraction in clear, everyday language. He exposes the subtle ways the world lures us into absence—from social media scrolling to emotional avoidance—and reveals what it actually looks like to live inside your moment, your body, your purpose.This isn’t a spiritual pep talk. It’s a map. A reminder. A challenge.Because the world doesn’t need more noise.It needs you—aware, awake, and aligned.Welcome to the assignment. And thank you for being part of this series.
    Más Menos
    9 m
  • Episode 88 – “Don’t Call It Isolation—It’s Initiation” PLU Series

    Episode 88 – “Don’t Call It Isolation—It’s Initiation” PLU Series
    Jun 21 2025
    Ever feel like the more “informed” you try to be, the more disconnected you actually feel?In this powerful episode of The Make Love To You Podcast, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) takes us deep into the emotional and spiritual toll of today’s media-saturated world. We’re talking news cycles, doomscrolling, social media algorithms, and the kind of overstimulation that’s numbing our intuition and dulling our souls.But this isn’t just a warning—it’s a wake-up call. Because what might feel like isolation isn’t punishment. It’s preparation. It’s initiation. And it’s sacred.Darnell breaks down the hidden cost of constant consumption, showing how bad information is like bad nutrition—it weakens the spirit, clouds the mind, and distances us from truth. And just like food, the solution lies in conscious consumption: nourishing conversations, soul tribe connection, and returning to our inner knowing.This episode is not just a listen—it’s a recalibration.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, overstimulated, or spiritually malnourished… this one’s for you.
    Más Menos
    7 m