In this episode of Car Ride Conversations, host Valerie Alston is joined by Quincy Lewis-Buggs from Diamond Dynamics to discuss what it truly takes to play college softball. They break down common misconceptions families have about college recruiting, the importance of versatility, and the realities of playing at the collegiate level. Quincy offers invaluable advice on building independence and preparing for the increased competition and responsibilities of college life. This episode is a must-listen for aspiring athletes and their parents who are navigating the college recruiting process. Listen in for practical tips and meaningful dialogue designed to foster resilience and confidence both on and off the field.

00:00 Introduction: The Realities of College Softball

01:16 Meet Quincy Lewis-Buggs: Softball Powerhouse

02:00 The Harsh Realities of College Athletics

04:34 Versatility: The Key to Success

12:24 The Importance of Independence and Life Skills

17:41 Discussion Questions for Athletes and Parents

19:47 Conclusion and Next Steps

Find the Future First, Softball Second Podcast here: https://www.diamonddynamics.org/podcast.html

Discussion questions:

• "If you got to college tomorrow, what part of being a student-athlete do you think would be hardest for you — and why?"
• "How would you feel if you didn’t start right away in college — what would you do about it?"
• "What are 2 or 3 other positions you think you could learn to play well — and how could you start practicing that now?"
• "What’s one ‘adulting’ skill you could start taking responsibility for this season to be more ready for college?"

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