Giving advice to soon feels helpful—but often backfires.

In this episode, Sean Watson and Dr. Howie Jacobson unpack why telling people what to do makes you the bottleneck… and how a simple reframe—“What might you try?”—can turn you into a better leader, teammate, teacher, or coach.

Whether you're managing a global team, supporting a friend, or just trying to avoid sounding like a know-it-all, this episode is your fluency and leadership reset.

🔹 If you’re fluent in English but still feel unsure how to sound more collaborative—or if you often over-help and under-empower—this one’s for you.

🎧 What You’ll Learn:

Why giving advice too early erodes trust (and what to do instead)

How “What might you try?” unlocks ownership and courage

Why emotional safety beats quick fixes in team dynamics

How modal verbs (like might, could, would) soften tone and invite collaboration

Subtle stress and pronunciation shifts that change meaning

Why smart leaders get stuck—and how to unstick yourself without solving everything

🛠️ Methods + Tools Mentioned:

The “What Might You Try” technique

The leadership bottleneck metaphor

Modal verbs for coaching-style communication (might, could, would)

Emotional courage & ownership as behavior change levers

Subtle tone shifts in pronunciation and delivery

Cultural insight: Why Dutch directness isn’t rude—it’s Dutch

📌 Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome & Episode Preview

01:00 – Why Advice Backfires (Even When You Mean Well)

03:00 – Know-It-All Syndrome: The Hidden Status Message

05:00 – Leadership Bottlenecks: The Productivity Trap

07:00 – Emotional Courage & Ownership in Communication

09:00 – “What Might You Try?” vs “What Will You Do?”

11:00 – Modal Verbs for Softening Tone

13:00 – When Advice Feels Like Criticism

15:00 – How to Stay Curious (Even When You're Right)

17:00 – Stress Practice: What Might You Try?

19:00 – Meta-Talk and Cross-Cultural Feedback Tips

21:00 – Fluent Edge Challenge & Pronunciation Exercise

22:00 – Coaching Links & Wrap-Up

📬 Let’s Connect:

🎙️ Coaching with Sean: https://tinyurl.com/5669kjnm

🎯 Coaching with Howie: https://tinyurl.com/yty9n5np

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What do prompt fatigue, robotic English, and voice memos have in common?

They’re all symptoms of the AI age—and clues for how to speak and write more clearly in high-performance environments.

In this episode, Sean Watson and Dr. Howie Jacobson unpack the hidden danger of sounding just like everyone else in a world full of ChatGPT clones. From “output convergence” to “idea flattening,” they reveal how even advanced English users risk losing their voice—and how tools like VoiceNotes can bring it back.

🔹 If you’re fluent but find yourself stuck with generic phrases, or if your favourite AI prompt suddenly stopped working… this episode is your fluency reset button.

🎙️ What You’ll Learn:

• How to spot and fix “generic-sounding” English
• Why prompt fatigue is killing creativity in AI users
• How VoiceNotes can act as your second brain
• When to use your voice before your keyboard
• Why recording yourself is a secret fluency accelerator
• How to stay human in a world of machine-like output

🛠️ Methods + Tools Mentioned:

Try VoiceNotes for transcribing, tagging, and summarizing: https://tinyurl.com/4awsn7zn

• Prompt engineering vs. speaking your own ideas
• Using real speech to draft emails, reports, and agendas
• Cultural tone sensitivity: “wrapped up” vs. “concluded”
• AI hallucination prevention through limited data sets
• Using WhatsApp voice memos as a fluency practice tool

📌 Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome & Episode Overview

01:00 – What Is Prompt Convergence?

02:00 – Prompt Fatigue, Collapse & Idea Flattening

03:00 – Why Mass-Produced AI Feels Personalized

04:00 – Howie on AI vs Human Insight

05:00 – The Voice Note Advantage

06:00 – Recording on the Go – Watch & Mobile

07:00 – Voice Notes for Creative Flow & Meetings

08:00 – Can It Replace Otter? Zoom Integration Q&A

09:00 – Summarize, Translate, and Prompt Anything

10:00 – Voice Notes as a Second Brain

11:00 – Sean’s Demo: Sales Team Note to Meeting Report

12:00 – Tags, Imports & AI-Powered Pages

13:00 – Mini Podcasts & WhatsApp Integration

14:00 – Live Prompting: Create Agendas & Icebreakers

15:00 – How It Helps Language Learners & Creatives

16:00 – Wrap-Up: Fluent Edge Hack & Pronunciation Practice

17:00 – Subscribe, Share & Coaching Links

🔗 Let’s Stay Connected:

English Coaching with Sean: https://tinyurl.com/5669kjnm

Executive and Mindset Coaching with Howie: https://tinyurl.com/yty9n5np

Contact us: thefluentedgepodcast@gmail.com

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Feel like your English is strong, but your confidence disappears when the pressure’s on?

This episode explores how staying calm — not clever — wins the room.

Why do some professionals instantly command respect while others get talked over? It’s not just about fluency. It’s about emotional control, tone, and timing.

Join Sean Watson, business English coach and former opera singer, and Dr. Howie Jacobson, executive performance coach, for a bold, practical, and engaging conversation on:

🧠 Staying calm in high-pressure meetings

🎯 Executive presence through voice and pacing

🧩 Powerful phrases that buy you time and control

🤖 Using AI tools to rehearse your responses (yes, really)

💬 How to stop sounding reactive and rushed

Meet the Hosts:

🔹 Sean Watson – Business English Fluency Coach helping professionals thrive in high-stakes conversations.

🔹 Dr. Howie Jacobson – Executive Coach and Performance Strategist focused on presence, clarity, and leadership growth.

🛠 Tools & Topics Mentioned:

• The “slow the room down” technique
• Strategic pauses and anchor words
• Phrases that signal confidence (even if you’re nervous)
• Grounding techniques for public speaking
• Using VoiceNotes and ChatGPT to refine delivery
• The myth of fast speech = intelligence
• How calm tone builds trust across cultures

📌 Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro & Episode Setup

01:00 – What Beliefs About Leadership Are Outdated?

02:00 – Overcomplicating What We Already Know Works

03:00 – Who Does Howie Love Coaching Most?

04:00 – Hitting a Wall – Moving to Spain

05:00 – Why the Book Title 'You Can Change Other People' Backfired

06:00 – The Power of External Support for Personal Growth

07:00 – From Microbiomes to Co-Creation in Coaching

08:00 – Balancing Individualism with Connection

09:00 – Helping People Do What They Know They Should

10:00 – Old Habits, Competing Commitments & Ice Cream

11:00 – Making the Unconscious Conscious

12:00 – Can Outsiders Lead Authentically?

13:00 – How Vulnerability Builds Connection

14:00 – Howie’s High School Reunion Revelation

15:00 – Where to Get the Book + Final Reflections

16:00 – Outro & What’s Coming Next

📬 Let’s Connect:

🎙️ Coaching with Sean: https://tinyurl.com/5669kjnm

🎯 Coaching with Howie: https://tinyurl.com/yty9n5np

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